Ano ang gagawin mo kung ang husband mo ay bakla pala?

[yannuh]

^^ yeees i am so back haha! sis astarte wag ka mawawalan ng hope ha? Lunch tayo minsan pag kailangan mo ng kausap?😊

[Girltalker2]

^^ May nakapagsabi sakin before na sometimes it?s genetics. If Kita mo family ng bf/fianc? mo eh more than 1 gay, mag isip ka din. Kasi if he is not gay naman, possible offspring nyo puede maging gay.

[Shadow Angel]

^aw kaya pala dumadami sila.

[astarte]

madalas ako magbiro sa friends na para akong nakulam or nabudol budol hahaha na para bang at the back of my mind alam ko kasi ako yung partner for the longest time pero sige pa rin stay lang until one day sabi ko sa sarili ko heto na ang arawa na matatapos ang lahat ng pagtitiis ko 

[otra_vez]

hiwalay agad of course. though it's really hard for me to imagine that scenario because that would mean i never slept with him before we got married and that's a no-no. ladies, ano ba. explore your sexuality before getting tied down.

if he's bi, i'd be mad that he didn't tell me. but it could be worked out. bi or straight, as long as s/he is faithful, there's hope. sexuality naman talaga is a spectrum kasi. pero magagalit talaga ako.  i encourage openness in relationships and it's very important for me to know someone's sexual history because it's intriguing so i'd feel incredibly betrayed if someone i love hid that very important info from me.

share ko lang: i once went out on a date with a homophobe though who by the end of the night, made it very clear to me that he was closeted and angry about it. for weeks, we had the best conversations, we had chemistry, etc. so it was really disappointing to discover that angry, homophobic side of him. i didn't mind that i couldn't date him pero yung aspect na hindi ko sya kaya maging friendly friend, yun yung talagang disappointing. again, bi, gay, straight-- i don't care. basta magpakatotoo. be kind and be honest. yun lang naman talaga ang formula for a decent existence.

[kvandenhaak]

^That's kind of an oxymoron, closeted but homophobe?

[otra_vez]

^ not really. actually i think that's a pretty common scenario.

[desolate_cat]

Kung bakla ang asawa ko:

1. Tara shopping tayo, pilian mo ako ng mga damit na babagay sa akin.
2. Pati makeup pilian mo ako, marunong ka mag pluck ng kilay? Naku manicuran mo naman ako panget na nails ko eh.
3. Pag dating sa bahay lagay tayo ng mud packs at nood tayo ng chick flicks
4. Mag spa tayo saka mag gym tayo hanap tayo ng pogi.
5. Ayusin mo nga yung bahay natin, di ko feel ang interior design
6. Yung lalaki mo wag mo bibigyan ng pera.

[simang]

^Uy hala si Joey Mead and Angie King sa mga paganyan ganyan nagstart

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again, bi, gay, straight-- i don't care. basta magpakatotoo.

But what if the guy is really angry about him being that way? What if he knows he's gay but doesn't want to entertain the idea because he doesn't want to be gay?

Naalala ko lang kasi back in college, one of my close gay friends had a boyfriend. They were together for two or so years, then before we graduated they broke up kasi the boyfriend felt like he didn't want to be gay anymore. The bf became really close to our group since matagal rin naging sila so we were shocked nung nalaman namin na naghiwalay na sila. The bf pursued post-grad and never talked about his past with my friend (first gay experience nya yung friend ko), his reason was he wanted to leave it behind and move on completely from it. Para sa kanya, being gay was only in his mind and it was just a phase na kelangan na nyang lagpasan.

Him not talking about it or not even recognizing it, for me, didn't equate to him being pretentious. Tingin ko kasi, if it was really against his values and what he stands for, then no one can judge him for trying to fight it.

[rics]

Ian King and Joey Med come to mind...
I read their story somewhere and they agreed to still be together but it was not easy apparently for both of them. So, it made me think,  was it really love, or kahiyaan na lang and they just have to stick through it.

As for me when this happens, I would leave the relationship. I needed a male figure (emotionally, physically, psychologically, etc.) in my married life, not a wife who will be more kikay than me.

[Pinklet]

^ I am also wondering if angie and joey mead king's sex life is still the same as before. Hindi mo rin maiiwasan isipin na baka kase gusto na lang nila mapreserve yung yaman sa kanilang dalawa, at wala nang hassle ng pagsplit ng yaman, kaya di na lang sila naghiwalay. Tapos mas kikay pa yung husband. 

[amethyst028]

I have a friend who is getting married. We think the guy is gay. He was never passionate with her, kahit holding hands ayaw ng guy. They just had a prenup and the guy wouldn?t even touch her. Nahirapan daw sa kanila yung photographer. To think my friend is paying for the whole wedding. Pati honeymoon in europe friend ko pa din nag book. She is even giving the guy money now.

The guy is in his 40?s, dad bod na, super laki ng tiyan. Hindi rin gwapo. Anubey.... malas naman.   

[AsunaYuuki]

To Mods: please move/delete this thread kung may duplicate or mali ang category

Kayo mga sis, ano ang gagawin niyo if you found out bakla pala ang mister niyo at may kabit na lalaki? **Lakas maka curious noong teleserye ng GMA na my Husband's Lover eh 

Hihiwalayan ko siya.

He already cheated and did not respect our vows so what's the point of staying with him. Mas mahirap kalaban kung same gender ang gusto niya, dahil alam ko na agad kung anong meron yung kabit niya na wala ako.

[super bratinella]

It will not work for me so hiwalay

[Girltalker2]

Ian King and Joey Med come to mind...
I read their story somewhere and they agreed to still be together but it was not easy apparently for both of them. So, it made me think,  was it really love, or kahiyaan na lang and they just have to stick through it.

Parang same nangyari siguro with Carmina V but carmina srayed quiet and we don?t really know if she knew from the start but just decided to leave kasi Di nya matanggap.

For Joey mukhang tanggap nya. Di man natin maintindihan because we are in normal relationships, somehow they felt they belong to each other. Anyway time will tell din naman if it really is for convenience. For now mukhang happy sila to be together. The only way it will break us if either one of them looks for a real male partner siguro.