Would you date a girl almost 10 years younger than you?

[sacred cow]

^ yeah, impossible naman na guys who are more mature would be contented with holding hands. or are they?   

actually, I would consider a PG-13 relationship with a younger girl provided that the girl is less than 18.
why would I taint a mozita when her innocence is what makes her very attractive

[ragnar_danneskjold]

sacred cow, you really like may 2011 - december 2012 love affair, don't you?!?! hahahaha.

[sacred cow]

sacred cow, you really like may 2011 - december 2012 love affair, don't you?!?! hahahaha.

yeah men, guess it runs in our family, parents ko 9 yrs age gap...grandparents ko 18 yrs

[Girltalker2]

^ ok lang naman ang age gap ng parents mo ang grandparents provided their love affair started at least nasa 20s na mom mo and grandma mom not 12yo!

[sacred cow]

^ ok lang naman ang age gap ng parents mo ang grandparents provided their love affair started at least nasa 20s na mom mo and grandma mom not 12yo!

hahaha...hindi naman siya 12, 18 daw allegedly

[tomatostellar]

creepy if the girl is minor -_-

[littlekinselle]

@sacredcrow haha naka relate ako dito actually my bf now he's older than me, we started dating around umm year 2008 I think and I was 18 then and he's 28 (1 decade ang age gap) haha. At first seriously I'm very reluctant to date with him kasi nga baka may sabit alam muna pero sa una umamin siya na seperated siya and walang anak ayun nagpaligaw ako then I've changed my mind yung pinakilala ako sa momi niya were not mag bf/gf pa that time tapos ang spoiled ko pa not in material ways ha a bit lang haha ayun na inlove na ang lola mo (ako yon) up to now kami pa din hahaha 5 years na kami. halos mag 3 years na LDR.

advise ko lang be wise and vigilant alam mo naman mga teenager mapupusok haha. kung 15 years old tingin ko crush crush lang yan pero yung love sabihin natin meron pero di pa yan matured kung kaya mo mag hintay sakanya why not??? ..baka mapagkalaman ka na pedophile haha just kidding brother anyways just be careful na lang. and good luck! 

[sacred cow]

@sacredcrow haha naka relate ako dito actually my bf now he's older than me, we started dating around umm year 2008 I think and I was 18 then and he's 28 (1 decade ang age gap) haha. At first seriously I'm very reluctant to date with him kasi nga baka may sabit alam muna pero sa una umamin siya na seperated siya and walang anak ayun nagpaligaw ako then I've changed my mind yung pinakilala ako sa momi niya were not mag bf/gf pa that time tapos ang spoiled ko pa not in material ways ha a bit lang haha ayun na inlove na ang lola mo (ako yon) up to now kami pa din hahaha 5 years na kami. halos mag 3 years na LDR.

advise ko lang be wise and vigilant alam mo naman mga teenager mapupusok haha. kung 15 years old tingin ko crush crush lang yan pero yung love sabihin natin meron pero di pa yan matured kung kaya mo mag hintay sakanya why not??? ..baka mapagkalaman ka na pedophile haha just kidding brother anyways just be careful na lang. and good luck! 

yeah, better na stick na lang ako sa 21-25 age group (na mukha paring bata)...it's really not a sound idea to
go out with minors, the cons outweigh the pros. Mas maganda pa rin na out of school na yung babae at may
trabaho, kundi sugar daddy lang ang labas ko nito and would attract girls who only want a free meal or
dates that an older guy can afford, you can't hold it against them naman kasi nga BATA at walang trabaho...siyempre
wala yun pera (unless anak mayaman at asa siya sa fat allowance).

times have changed na rin, iba na ang buhay ngayon at mga babae, ang 15-16 y/o na babae today ay hindi tulad ng 15-16 y/o decades ago na mature na at pwede na for marriage

[ladysapphire]

hmm one of my guy friends told me that yes yung young environment and vibe ng isang young woman is really attractive sa older guys kaya yun nga they tend to go for younger age.

[sacred cow]

hmm one of my guy friends told me that yes yung young environment and vibe ng isang young woman is really attractive sa older guys kaya yun nga they tend to go for younger age.

I also read before in Redbook (women's magazine), that a girl's lips are most red at the age of 14...

though recent survey suggests that women's beauty peak at 29-31, I refuse to believe this kasi ilan lang ba
ang kilala niyong "naturally" beautiful pa rin around that age as compared to when they were 18-25.

[sacred cow]

^iba na ang panahon ngayon. ang daming nasa 30's and 40's women who look way better than when they were younger. unlike men. 25 pataas nag de- deteriorate na. tumataas ang hairline, tumataba, lumalaki tiyan, gumagaspang ang balat. yung mga kilala kong cute at guwapo nung high school at college pag nakikita ko sa fb napapa nye??? talaga ako. anyare??? hehe!

and ang dami kong friends na girls na ka age ko na pag nakikita ko sa fb, talaga namang wow ang dating. kung baga mas maganda pa sila ngayon kesa nung hs at college kame. if not mas maganda e halos hindi tumakbo ang oras. walang nagbago.

kaya rin siguro ang mga guys na lagpas 25, naghahanap ng mas bata to boost their ego. to makeup for their depreciating looks. haha! pansin ko kasi when i was a member of a dating site. karamihan ng pogi mga nasa 23 below. at yung mga nag me-message sakin na 26 up dinadaan sa muscle, pero hipon naman at yung 30's pataas bihira na yung cutiepie.

peace ha!

i read na kaya dumadami ang cougar at puma, kasi yung mga successful and hot women in their 30's and 40's mas prefer mga guys na nasa 20's pa. dahil yung counterpart nilang men not as hot anymore.

siyempre iba na talaga ngayon, with botox and everything kaya na magmukhang bata ng 40 yr old.
baka naman ampangit kasi nung babaeng yun nung kabataan niya kaya mas maganda pa siya nung tumanda...lol

naghahanap ang lalaki ng mas bata because we are hard wired that younger women are more capable of bearing healthy offsprings.
kahit gaano ka-hot ng 40 yr old mo, kung menopause naman...anong silbi niyan, pang kama lang? wahahaha peace!
some men in their 20's want cougars or older women because of the higher sex drive of older women and experience/skills in bed.

and kung basis mo ang dating sites, the hot 30-40 yr old men won't bother signing up on those sites because kaya nilang mangilala ng babae offline. the young guys there are obviously just looking for hookups and papatulan kahit matrona pa yan. uhmm...why were you on a dating site again?

[little_princess]

sacred cow, based on experience, the level or expectations of "date date lang" will vary between a 15 and 25 year old. when i dated the 28 year old guy at that time, he want to kiss me kaagad! i was scandalized kasi i was so young and hindi ko pa siya boyfriend. pero i guess with someone older, it would be less of a scandal for them when the guy tries to kiss them na.

plus i felt like i had a dad at that time and not a date or boyfriend. hindi ako maka relate.

[sacred cow]

sacred cow, based on experience, the level or expectations of "date date lang" will vary between a 15 and 25 year old. when i dated the 28 year old guy at that time, he want to kiss me kaagad! i was scandalized kasi i was so young and hindi ko pa siya boyfriend. pero i guess with someone older, it would be less of a scandal for them when the guy tries to kiss them na.

plus i felt like i had a dad at that time and not a date or boyfriend. hindi ako maka relate.

hahaha...based on experience naman I was like a kuya going out with his little sister except parang incestuous yung
relationship since kissing was not an issue, I guess depende rin talaga sa girl and iba na rin kabataan ngayon...PBB teens. factor din that we met at a club and already kissed, kaya hindi na awkward.

[ladysapphire]

i dated a guy before. i was 18 and he was 32. yeah maalaga at maasikaso talaga. kaso always on business trips kaya di nag-bloom. 

[Girltalker2]

i read na kaya dumadami ang cougar at puma, kasi yung mga successful and hot women in their 30's and 40's mas prefer mga guys na nasa 20's pa. dahil yung counterpart nilang men not as hot anymore.

Actually this makes the search more interesting.  I still prefer older men kasi I find younger men blah, walang depth.  As for older men, it is just trying to look for the ones who are health conscious and exercise regularly not to be macho but to be healthy. 

Well kanya kanyang preference iyan. Ako i prefer same age ko or older. Ayaw ko ng younger kasi masakit sa ulo. Immature pa. I like being with someone na walang drama. Yung equal kame, and we bring out the best in each other.

I go for the more than 5 years, kasi as previously posted nga, iniisip ko once we reach the golden years, gusto ko mukha parin syang mas matanda kesa sakin. hehe


@sacredcow and @ sis amethyst, interesting ang exchange ninyo ah.

Ang pagkakaalam ko nga, men appreciate as they grow older.  Ayon lang naman ito sa point of view ng women.  Kasi nga nagkakaron sila ng more wisdom and since looks are secondary for women (kasi the wallet is primary hahaha - but seriously, the character is more important), kahit ano pa itsura ng guy, basta matalino marunong magdala at hindi nakakatakot itsura, ok na sya.

As for women, the reason why they say women depreciate as they grow older, kasi nga sa point of view ito ng guy, who are just all after the looks, the figure. And the character is secondary. Di naman nila lalapitan ang losyang, there should at least be some level of initial attraction for them to approach women.

I think more women are learning how to upkeep themselves rin these days kasi it is a known fact that you can only meet the right guy if he gets attracted to you physically muna.  Kung walang physical attraction, mahirap ma develop ang love. That is all where it starts.  As for dating sites, minsan kunwari ata mga pics, I am not sure. I don't like online stuff especially when it comes to meeting people. Since naglipana ang mga con sa mundo, better save myself from the hassles.

[NickSparks]

lets double the standard..how about 18 yr old girl and 38 yr old guy? this seems to be acceptible in USA.

[sacred cow]

^ I know someone who's 40 and can still score with 20 yr. old chicks...he's also not some
DOM, just a really cool guy who has his **** together and who's really successful in his career though he doesn't flaunt it.
Hindi rin siya gwapo and he's even short, pero anlakas ng dating and a really smooth talker. One of the legit PUAs you'd see in field

[NickSparks]

^ I know someone who's 40 and can still score with 20 yr. old chicks...he's also not some
DOM, just a really cool guy who has his **** together and who's really successful in his career though he doesn't flaunt it.
Hindi rin siya gwapo and he's even short, pero anlakas ng dating and a really smooth talker. One of the legit PUAs you'd see in field

^ I know someone who's 40 and can still score with 20 yr. old chicks...he's also not some
DOM, just a really cool guy who has his **** together and who's really successful in his career though he doesn't flaunt it.
Hindi rin siya gwapo and he's even short, pero anlakas ng dating and a really smooth talker. One of the legit PUAs you'd see in field

does he teach? or is he a Natural?

[sacred cow]

does he teach? or is he a Natural?

nope, he doesn't teach. sabi niya he's had success na rin even before discovering 'game' so I guess you could
consider him a natural na narefine lang ang game due to PU. are you looking for a coach or meron ka nang lair?

[creativehunk]

for me, i wont mind dating a girl 10 years younger than me. sabi nga di ba, age is just a number. the most important thing for me is you both like each other and both comfortable with each other. actually, as long i find the qualities of the girl that i want to be with, i dont care if she's younger than me even by 15 years. basta gusto at mahal din ako ng girl ha.