Would you date a girl almost 10 years younger than you?

[sacred cow]

Guys, just wanted to get your thoughts/opinions...let's say you're between the ages of 25-30

[anon]

I actually prefer to date women in my same age range. We both would've roughly the same life experiences to talk about.

[Girltalker2]

If you are just in your 20s, think again. She is not yet mature enough pero baka di parin naman mature si lalaki, baka patas lang hahaha.  Kidding aside, siguro pag 18yo si girl at 28yo si guy ok lang. Ang hirap kasi if the girl is less than 18yo, baka sobrang bata pa and she might just agree to go out with you not knowing what she is getting into.

Ibang usapan naman if the guy is in the 30s, 40s or 50s na.  In fact, ang ideal age gap for me ng guy at girl is 8 years up.  Reason is I noticed in most couples, especially if their relationship has progressed into marriage, there is a tendency for women to look older especially if the age of the husband and wife are close.  Kaya mas ok ang malaking age gap at least di magmumukhang elder sister si wifey.  The other reason why I think it is also good is because of the maturity of the genders.  Mas late kasi magmature ang guys kesa girls. Kaya para sakin ang ideal pair nga has to have a bigger age gap, pero huwag naman 20 years, puede na maging mag-ama yun. hehe

[sacred cow]

If you are just in your 20s, think again. She is not yet mature enough pero baka di parin naman mature si lalaki, baka patas lang hahaha.  Kidding aside, siguro pag 18yo si girl at 28yo si guy ok lang. Ang hirap kasi if the girl is less than 18yo, baka sobrang bata pa and she might just agree to go out with you not knowing what she is getting into.

Ibang usapan naman if the guy is in the 30s, 40s or 50s na.  In fact, ang ideal age gap for me ng guy at girl is 8 years up.  Reason is I noticed in most couples, especially if their relationship has progressed into marriage, there is a tendency for women to look older especially if the age of the husband and wife are close.  Kaya mas ok ang malaking age gap at least di magmumukhang elder sister si wifey.  The other reason why I think it is also good is because of the maturity of the genders.  Mas late kasi magmature ang guys kesa girls. Kaya para sakin ang ideal pair nga has to have a bigger age gap, pero huwag naman 20 years, puede na maging mag-ama yun. hehe

hahaha...thanks girltalker, unang line pa lang sapol na ako ha. napaisip kasi ako after reading this on the net

http://ca.omg.yahoo.com/blogs/north-stars/24-old-chinese-pop-star-zhang-muyi-professes-150400505.html

although, it could be a publicity stunt...ang cute lang kasi and parang gusto ko rin maexperience na ganun kalayo
gap nyo without me being a DOM pa

[Girltalker2]

^ huwag naman ganyan!  12 yo and 24 yo?  gosh anong alam ng 12 yo?  Iyan nga sinasabi ko na possible ma exploit yung babae kapag less than 18yo.

You cant be a DOM kahit na 10 years pa ang agwat mo sa gf mo if both are mature enough to handle the relationship.  kung say 40yo ka at 30yo ang gf mo, tapos mukha ka naman fit at di pa nakakalbo, you exercise, don't smoke, don't drink, eat and sleep right, chances are pag naging 50yo na si gf/wifey and you may be 60yo pero I bet, hindi magkakalayo ang age nyo sa paningnan ng mga tao.

The unfair reality is women, by nature, age faster in terms of looks. Yung age gap ng example mo is ok kung nasa 20s na yung girl. Pero 12yo?  nyak, mag antay nalang sana muna yung guy kasi mukha talaga syang pedophile.

[sacred cow]

I'd like to be able date women in their 20's even when I'm in my 40's or 50's (hence DOM) hehe

I wouldn't mind dating a 12 yr old, if she's that hot...she's hotter than a lot of girls I know who's my age (26), however
I do have a preference for short and young girls...so pangit man aminin, taste ko yata talaga pang pedophile...hahaha

[little_princess]

i dated a 28 year old guy when i was 16 years old. went out twice and spoke on the phone and texted a lot. it didn't work out because i felt that he is too fast and too old for me and i guess i chose another guy my age who turned out to be my first love.

it isn't easy and there is a big difference in your likes and what nots. maybe if the girl was on her 20's na, ok na but if she was a teen, don't count on it.

[sacred cow]

^ ic, I'm not counting on anything serious...I just want to go out on dates and just enjoy the company of a younger girl.

[anon]

^ that's sick, sacred cow, to even think of dating a 12 year old girl. excuse the bluntness, but that's just wrong.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

hmmm. that'd mean dating a 15-year-old kid who would most likely need help on algebra or history assignments. umm, no.

[sacred cow]

^ hahaha, why help her do her assignments when you should be doing her instead

[sacred cow]

^ that's sick, sacred cow, to even think of dating a 12 year old girl. excuse the bluntness, but that's just wrong.

think of it in the long term, in 10 years when you're in your 30's she'd just be 22. Hindi pa depreciated.

yeah I know, it's kinda sick even for me...I'm not saying I'd really consider dating a 12 year old, siguro mga at least 15 or 16 or a girl whose appearance
is close to that age group.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

@sacred cow: You're right!

I'm gonna treat her like a homework. I'll slam her on the table do her all night.

Just kidding. I'm still not into kinse anyos. Haha.

[sacred cow]

^ that's the spirit!

well how about girls that are 18 and up but still look like kinse anyos? game ka sa ganun?

[ragnar_danneskjold]

^ that's the spirit!

well how about girls that are 18 and up but still look like kinse anyos? game ka sa ganun?

game na game! i like girls who look younger than their age. hehe.

[sacred cow]

game na game! i like girls who look younger than their age. hehe.

haha, then we share the same sentiments...I like girls who look younger than their age too...
it's just that since mahilig nga ako sa mukhang bata, e I can't help being attracted to young girls since sila nga yung may ganung itsura.

though the perfect combination would be an older girl, but looks 18. Preferably petite and mga 5' lang
You get the best of both worlds kapag ganun.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

haha, then we share the same sentiments...I like girls who look younger than their age too...
it's just that since mahilig nga ako sa mukhang bata, e I can't help being attracted to young girls since sila nga yung may ganung itsura.

though the perfect combination would be an older girl, but looks 18. Preferably petite and mga 5' lang
You get the best of both worlds kapag ganun.

I understand.. it just isn't right to ask a woman's age right off the bat. so the only thing you can do is guess. and it's not your fault if you end up romping with the a 15-year-old. guesswork is messy most of the time. hahahah.

[sacred cow]

@sacred cow naku same taste kayo ng bro ko. When he was 26yrs. Old he dates mga 18yr. Old below. Pero na karma siya. One girl tried to pikot him. Sabi 18 na daw yun pala 14 lang. Ang ginawa nung nanay kinasuhan ng rape bro ko. As in dinampot ng pulis at nag overnight sa jail. My parents had to make suhol para sa office patulugan at huwag sa rehas mismo. Kinabukasan pa nakapag bail kasi gabi dinampot.

The mother was asking for 700k as settlement para urong demanda. Nung ayaw ng bro ko live in na lang daw hanggang mag 18 anak niya tapos ipapakasal. Ayaw namin siyempre. Ang ending they battled in court. Nanalo bro ko pero halos naka 250k siya sa lagay lagay sa loob.

Lesson learned for him. Stay away sa mga menor de edad. He is now in his 30's pero mga college student naman ata dine date niya.

I guess there is something about young girls that attracts guys. Pero it's for guys who only wants to play around. Yung mga hindi pa stable or wala pang balak lumagay sa tahimik. Coz the guys who are looking for something serious wants someone his equal. We all know that a mature guy and a young girl are not equal in any way.

Yup, that's why napapaisip din ako dun sa 15 yr. old na dinate ko nung sat, medyo shady din kasi yung character kaya 'di talaga
girlfriend material. At least sinabi naman niya kaagad sakin na 15 pa lang siya, though she looks 18-20 (kaya nga sabi ko parang lugi, minor pero hindi itsurang jailbait..heheh). Tama ka rin dun sa ang naghahanap ng young
girl e yung mga hindi pa gusto lumagay sa tahimik or magseryoso, since most girls my age nga would like to look for something long term na...
e ako naman gusto ko pa i-max out ang pagkabinata at mag-enjoy lang, kahit mga 30+ na ako mag-asawa since lalake naman ako
at mukhang bata rin...I'd prefer to be really successful muna para kapag nag-asawa na ako alam kong secured na financially pamilya ko
hindi yung mag-aasawa just because yung significant other e malapit na sa 30 at napprepressure...at least kung maghahanap ako ng younger sakin
by at least 5 years, eh may time pa ako gawin ang gusto at magpayaman. Thanks for sharing your brother's story btw, now I'd really be careful...I'll
just stick to "mukhang jailbait" than actual jailbaits
 

[hisana]

Reminds me of the time when this 25-year-old kept trying to ask me out when I was 14. My guy friends (same age as I am) were all scandalized by it, saying isa lang bagay lang naman daw habol nun. I suspected as much rin naman, so I kept my distance. Nung older (and wiser) na ako, yeah, I went out with older men. But when I was 14? Too weird for me. If ever I dated an older guy at that age, hindi rin naman tatagal yun; my family and friends would have made sure, LOL.

[Girltalker2]

^ yeah, impossible naman na guys who are more mature would be contented with holding hands. or are they?