Single moms..... would you?

[TomHansen]

^^im married. Medyo bitter lang kasi nung bf ko pa yung husband ko meron syang naging ka-fling na single mom. Sabi ni bf mabait at nabulagan sya. Ayun nalaman ko na si single mom ay may fubu na friend ng friend ko. Hehe ayun sinabi ko kay bf at di sya makapaniwala sa katangahan nya kasi pa virgin daw sa kanya kaya hinihintay nya si girl na gumawa ng first move.

Pero may friend ako sa work, she's a single mom at in love pa rin sya sa ex husband nya. Last time daw eh nagpunta sya sa condo ni ex-husband at may nangyari sa kanila after 1 year nilang hiwalay. Hehe

That's shocking..
Ganun ata talaga kahit ex mo na yung tao(especially may anak sila) a part of you will always love that person, and mamimiss mo rin yung ginagawa niyo kahit pa tagal niyo nang hiwalay..

Most guys kasi ang tingin sa single moms easier maka 1 night stand kasi nga may anak na, or they think there's a "void" sa babae na kelangan nilang i-fill(sexually).. Kapag nakuha na ni guy yung gusto niya pwede niya agad iwanan yung girl. Sad but most of the time it's true..

[Pink_Sugar]

^pero happy yung friend ko then na-realized daw nya paglabas nya ng condo aba hindi raw sya inihatid. LOL or siguro na-miss lang nya ang sex life.

[TomHansen]

^ aba wala man lang breakfast muna? Lol, siguro nga namiss niya lang and imbes na sa ibang tao sa ex niya na lang ginawa kasi mas comportable siya.

[Obachan]

I am single mom when I met my current husband.
Pagkakaalam pa nga nya 4 ang anak ko (magkaka-hawig kasi kami ng 2 niece ko and 1 nephew)
I did not correct him.

Then nag lie-low sya sa pagpaparamdam, after a year, message and paramdam uli.
Still did not tell him the truth na 1 lang daughter ko.
When we were in a serious relationship na saka ko lang sinabi.

[three8one]

I think this is true sa ibang guys. Pagsinabi naman kasi na-appeal hindi lang dahil pretty ang girl but it has something to do with the aura that she exudes.

I have a guy friend na ang sabi na kaya niya nagustuhan ang wife niya is because she's a single mom. Nagustuhan niya kung paano maging nanay si girl sa daughter niya, kaya agad daw naisip ni guy na"that's the girl I want to marry and be the mother of my children

^ eto good example why some men like single mom.

^^im married. Medyo bitter lang kasi nung bf ko pa yung husband ko meron syang naging ka-fling na single mom. Sabi ni bf mabait at nabulagan sya. Ayun nalaman ko na si single mom ay may fubu na friend ng friend ko. Hehe ayun sinabi ko kay bf at di sya makapaniwala sa katangahan nya kasi pa virgin daw sa kanya kaya hinihintay nya si girl na gumawa ng first move.

Pero may friend ako sa work, she's a single mom at in love pa rin sya sa ex husband nya. Last time daw eh nagpunta sya sa condo ni ex-husband at may nangyari sa kanila after 1 year nilang hiwalay. Hehe

^ aww.. your are married na pala. mali tanong ko. hehe! bitter nga si hubby mo pero pasalamat sya nalaman nya yun kasi kung hindi, wala sana syang gorgeous na, mabait pang wife na tulad mo ngayon. chos! ahaha. biro lang.

about your friend, for me its normal lang din naman yun as long as they are still married and pinayagan ng bawat isa wala kong nakikitang problema. kung yung mga nag ONS o yung nagkakaron ng sexual intercourse ng wala naman kahit anong namamagitan eh okay lang eh sila pa kaya na binded ng law at kung kasal sa church eh pati ng Holy Spirit ang hindi maging okay?

[fastlove]

gusto ko ng  single mom

[Lurker_Man]

meron akong personal home service massage thera...


for 4 moths twice a week suki niya ako

single mom.. petite

na joke ko about ES... bumigay

eventually 3 times kami ATW for free hihih

[Girltalker2]

For me yes pero sana isa lang ang anak niya bago kami nagmeet and erased na sa buhay ni girl yung nakabuntis sa kanya.. Dont get me wrong i like kids pero right now i dont think kaya ko yung responsibility to provide for 2 or more kids.

I don't think it is fair sayo if you will provide for her kids. She has to provide for them kahit pa nagkatuluyan kayo. Maliban nalang kung ikaw mismo nag volunteer.

[mysterioza_me]

I don't think it is fair sayo if you will provide for her kids. She has to provide for them kahit pa nagkatuluyan kayo. Maliban nalang kung ikaw mismo nag volunteer.

Super agree on this, may ibang girls kasi na parang naghahanap lang ng tutulong sa kanila para bumuhay ng anak.

[Obachan]

If both persons are open minded mapag uusapan naman kung ano at san lang ang responsibility ng partner.
My husband at first few months he provide for my whole family, means my 4 kids.
When I got a job, pinatigil ko na sya at sinabi kong wala syang responsibility sa 4 kids ko.
Ako lang ang shoulder nya and magiging baby namin in the future.

Even he wanted to give them allowances or baon, I insist my husband not to give.
It is unfair on his part to provide for my kids na hindi naman nya kaano-ano, katwrian ko ako pinakasalan mo ako lang ang sagutin mo.

[dismembered]

^ Hindi mo maaalis yun. Once you marry a person, considered na married ka na din sa responsibilities nya. Conjugal properties din. So pati sa anak, sama na yun. Ito rin ang reason kung bakit medyo hard sa mga guys ang makatuluyan ang single moms.

[TomHansen]

^ Yes hindi pwedeng hindi namin aakuhin ang responsibility sa bata, kapag minahal mo yung nanay dapat mahalin mo rin ang mga anak - package yun hindi pwedeng paghiwalayin.. For some guys hindi naman problema yung pagprovide sa bata ang problema is yung pang-provide..

Also kapag ang lalaki nagkagf/wife diba inaalagaan niya na rin ang family ni wife? Same din dapat sa anak ni wife especially galing sa asawa niya yung bata.

[pinklilac]

^ well said!!

[Obachan]

Atleast marami naman pala ang open minded ngayon
that being a single mom is not a crime.

[argento]

Also kapag ang lalaki nagkagf/wife diba inaalagaan niya na rin ang family ni wife?

family? inlaws? responsibilidad mo sila. ikaw lang siguro.

[TomHansen]

^ siguro nga..

[yourheart]

If you really love a person - youll accept her for all she is !

[Girltalker2]

If you really love a person - youll accept her for all she is !

True. But talking about the new partner sustaining your kids daily needs....  syempre as the girl, if you really love your partner, you wouldn't want to make him responsible for fending for your kids, parents and siblings, di ba?

[mysterioza_me]

True. But talking about the new partner sustaining your kids daily needs....  syempre as the girl, if you really love your partner, you wouldn't want to make him responsible for fending for your kids, parents and siblings, di ba?

Pagpati parents and siblings pinasustentuhan na sa partner hindi na love yun, pagiging wise na yun. Ginawa ng milking cow si guy

[sensi]

im a single mom with one daughter..been taking care of her needs and all since i had her..now she's turning 7 this december. my bf for a year and 3 months now accepts me and my daughter whole heartedly...bf palang siya pero he's attending her school meetings na parang dad niya na talaga. he meets teachers and introduced himself as my daughter's dad. (hindi lahat ng guys who dates single moms ganon fyi) i didnt ask him to do that. siya mismo ang nag ask sakin if ok lang because fiance ko narin siya now.
about giving support, again, i didnt ask. i never asked. but siya rin mismo ang nagsabing "i wanted to, because i love both of you".