What if your close friends forgot to greet you on your bday?

[trendy]

Would you stil consider them your friends?

[0118999]

Oo naman!

[chinkywinky]

gaano ba kayo ka-close? Ako kasi, magtatampo lang ako pag yung best friend ko ang nakalimot ng birthday ko. Other than her, ok lang. Kasi mga ulyanin naman yung ibang kaibigan ko mga bobo lang talaga sa dates. Parang ako lang din, hindi ko talaga tanda yung exact dates nila pero alam ko yung month. Ang hindi ko lang talaga makakalimutan is bday ng best friend ko 

[px17]

Syempre naman I will still consider them as my friend! Nakakatampo kung sa nakakatampo pero may kanya kanya rin tayong buhay. Yung BFF ko since hs nakalimutan ako batiin nung birthday ko eh, pero love ko pa di siya.

[babyboo.0326]

ako nga even my family forgot that it was my birthday e  ok lang yan, maliit na bagay lang for me compared pa sa mga ibang iisipin ko

[cherry*coke]

Yup. Whenever they forget my birthday, sumasama talaga ang loob ko.. Pero after sometime ok na ulit. Kasi naka move on nako. I also realized na normal lang makalimot minsan. Kasi ako mismo nalilimutan ko sila batiin sa birthday nila kasi hindi ko alam ano pecha na. Pero minsan sinasadya kong hindi bumati. Lalo na dun sa mga nakakalimot din lagi ng birtday ko.. Pero hindi naman yun nakaka affect sa friendship namin

[Misis_Maku]

ako parang kever na lang kahit makalimutan... hehe, kase nakakalimot din ako mang-greet lalo na pag super busy 

[trendy]

thanks for the replies, mga sis. for those who ask, they're my very very close friends for more than 15 years. nakakatampo pero di na lang ako mageexpect next time. they will still be my friends but not as close as i thought we were.

[twelvth_goddess]

This happened to me a few years back. My bestfriend forgot to greet me on my birthday cus she forgot when my birthday is. And we've been bestfriends for almost 16 years. Mejo sumama talaga loob ko even if a lot of people greeted me cus I, of course, was waiting for her to do so. She greeted me a couple of days after and she claimed na she doesnt really remember a lot of birthdays except those of her family members.

[girl24]

okey lang lalo na't me memory gap na rin ako. i tend to forget to greet my friends also. pag best friends okey lang yun di nasusukat katapatan nila sa greetings lang. pwede din naman magtampo, pwede rin magreklamo. my own experience kasi my besties has been my friends since HS kaya open. kung me tampo sabihin, kung galit sabihin, kung irita sabihin... we have gone through that awkward teenage years, bf heartbreaks, career problems, weddings, birthdays / births, marital problems, etc. etc. etc... we also have our others friends when we can't be together, actually we rarely see each other siguro thrice a year lang pero yung assurance na mahal namin ang isa't isa andun palagi...

[angelzero]

it's ok. dati-dati nagtatampo pa ko pero ngayon ok lang. kasi nakakalimutan ko na rin naman silang batiin. baka talagang busy lang sila.

[solepurplelife]

Dapat yung friends na kapag kailangan mo ee biglang nawawala yun dapat ang ipag isip-isip mo kung kaibigan mo ba talaga. 

[nessy]

Kaka-birthday ko lang, best friend ko nakalimutan akong i-greet. Pero okay lang. Hindi na rin kasi naman kami ganon ka-close.

[angeleigh]

Oo naman! Busy lahat ng tao no. And I wouldn't expect my friends to keep tabs on what is happening in my life.
They have their own lives as well. I wouldn't take it against them kung nakalimutan man nila ako batiin.

[stormy_princess]

My college bestfriend was not able to greet me yesterday on my birthday.
Pero okay lang nasanay na ako na makakalimutin talaga yun.hehe
But my high school bestfriend never forgot and that's what make me smile genuinely:)

[chinkywinky]

^speaking of high school bestfriend, first time nangyari naman sa akin na hindi ako na greet ng high school bestfriend ko. We don't keep in touch that often, kasi magkalayo kami pero tuwing birthday ko, lagi siya nagpaparamdam, this year lang hindi 

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

Uu naman ako kasi makakalimutin din sa birthday ng iba  lalo pag di ko lagi nakikita.
Pero ibang usapan na pagbuong araw kayong magkasama eh di pa din naalala.

[Clair de Lune]

I'd probably feel sad and unimportant if my closest friends won't greet me. I don't care much about other people, but close friends?

But.. I'm recently guilty of this. My fault. My closest college friend recently celebrated her birthday, and talagang makalimutin ako ng birthdays. I failed to greet her. I feel sooooo guilty. Kaya I'll start noting birthdays na on my phone's calendar para na excuses next time.

[sima]

no biggie  

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Medyo may tampo.
Pero iniisip ko nalang busy sila, so its ok. no harm done.