Author Topic: Still Childless  (Read 80889 times)

bluish_mommy

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #140 on: May 29, 2014, 09:42:44 am »
^all in God's time talaga sis... kaya don't give up praying.. kapag may mga unsolicited comments sa paligid nyo, ngitian nyo lang, yaan nyo sila.

crzysxycl

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #141 on: May 29, 2014, 03:21:15 pm »
^true sis. :) kahit isa lang, happy na ako..

janachen

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #142 on: May 30, 2014, 06:29:00 pm »
sis lalaloopsy: its been 1 year na naghahanap kami ng maampon ng asawa ko kasi 4 years na kaming merried but unfortunately still childless parin..25 y/o ako and my hubby also. contact me at my number 09488602747

Sis from where are you? Kasi may kaibigan akong komadrona and sometimes may mga lumalapit sa kanya na mga ina, tapos pinapaanak nya.. Minsan daw iniiwan nalang sa kanya or di kaya nagpapahanap ng mga mag aampon sa bata.

Nakakalungkot yung gustong gustong magkababy pero hindi binibiyayaan. May news kagabi, nagpunta sa hotel para tanggalin yung 5 months na anak sa sinapupunan..Tapos may nakarinig sa iyak ng bata... Nakakainis yung mga ganung tao. :-( Nung nabuntis ako, talagang unexpected.. Hindi rin ako handa kasi madami akong gustong gawin..Pero tinanggap ko at blessing na rin talaga kasi sabi ng oby sakin, mahihirapan akong mabuntis gawa ng cyst ko.

lisse

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #143 on: May 30, 2014, 10:07:02 pm »
^that is one of the questions na I think only God can fully answer. Mahirap din kasi sabihin na this couple doesn't deserve a kid, and the other couple deserve one, yung ganon. I did question God one time na why? Bakit kami pa ang wala. After that, I sought forgiveness kasi hindi naman nasusukat yung love satin ni God based on kung anong wala tayo eh. We'll never really know when it will happen, or why it will never be.

sazleang

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #144 on: May 30, 2014, 10:56:13 pm »
Thank you at meron pala ganitong topic dto. ako din sis I feel so depress, envious and angry kapag nakikita ko iba may babies.. although masaya naman ako for them kaso inggit na inggit ako. I'm 30 na and my hubby is 29 y/o. Pressured din kami kasi sa parents nya esp sa dad nya. Although natutunan na namin isang tabi yun mga naririnig namin pero ako mismo sobrang guilty ang feeling ko bakit d ko sya mabigyan ng baby. While reading all the posts here, naiiyak ako kasi same na same ang nararamdaman ko. Now, Nag stop muna kami sa mga diagnosis/ exams dahil medyo nauubos na ang savings namin. Minsan gusto ko nang sumuko pero thank GOD nalang positive and supportive si hubby. Mga sis, thanks sa posts nyo. Sana nga lahat tayo dito mag BFP na. God Bless.

janachen

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #145 on: May 30, 2014, 11:07:01 pm »
Naku sis, huwag mawalan ng pag-asa. Mayroon akong tito 15 years silang kasal. Tapos nung nag 39 na yung asawa, saka sila nagkababy..LOL tapos sunod sunod.. Ngayun 3 na ang anak.. Kaso ang tanda na nila pero atleast  mayroon na.. hehe. Think positive lang sis

sazleang

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« Reply #146 on: May 30, 2014, 11:15:43 pm »
Naku sis, huwag mawalan ng pag-asa. Mayroon akong tito 15 years silang kasal. Tapos nung nag 39 na yung asawa, saka sila nagkababy..LOL tapos sunod sunod.. Ngayun 3 na ang anak.. Kaso ang tanda na nila pero atleast  mayroon na.. hehe. Think positive lang sis

Thanks Sis. Nakakasad lang talaga and nakakadrain narin. Pero tama ka, we should never lose HOPE. Everything is in God's perfect time. Thanks for this thread at somehow, nakakapag open ako ng feelings ko.

simang

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #147 on: May 31, 2014, 12:43:52 pm »
Your stories are heartbreaking and inspirational at the same time :'(

I'm getting married next year, and recently I was diagnosed with bilateral PCO, my OB advised me na mahihirapan nga daw ako magbuntis because of that and also I have abnormally thin endometrium which is not conducive for implantation. I was kind of disheartened because my partner and I really want to have kids together. We were engaged before we knew that this was my case. Right now, we're doing all the lab works and medications to treat my PCO, according to my OB it will take one year bago matreat lahat. And i'm very hopeful na everything will be okay by the time we get married.

Reading your stories makes me even more hopeful that everything will turn out okay. :)

janachen

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #148 on: May 31, 2014, 08:55:54 pm »
Your stories are heartbreaking and inspirational at the same time :'(

I'm getting married next year, and recently I was diagnosed with bilateral PCO, my OB advised me na mahihirapan nga daw ako magbuntis because of that and also I have abnormally thin endometrium which is not conducive for implantation. I was kind of disheartened because my partner and I really want to have kids together. We were engaged before we knew that this was my case. Right now, we're doing all the lab works and medications to treat my PCO, according to my OB it will take one year bago matreat lahat. And i'm very hopeful na everything will be okay by the time we get married.

Reading your stories makes me even more hopeful that everything will turn out okay. :)

^^ sis ako  ang findings sa akin thin endometrium, 11.75 cm cyst sa left ovary... multiple subcapsular follicles... nag gamot ako ng 3 months, tinunaw lang yung cyst ko.

nagpasecond opinion pako sa makati med pero same ang results. Sabi ng dr. sa akin mahihirapan akong magkababy. Naglive in kami ng partner ko 2011, pero gumagamit ako ng pills kasi hindi pa ako handang magkababy. Tapos tinigil ko 2013 kasi sabi ko kung mabubuntis ako, para sa akin talaga yung bata. Tapos ayon, nabuo.. ;)

simang

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #149 on: May 31, 2014, 09:54:24 pm »
^^ sis ako  ang findings sa akin thin endometrium, 11.75 cm cyst sa left ovary... multiple subcapsular follicles... nag gamot ako ng 3 months, tinunaw lang yung cyst ko.

nagpasecond opinion pako sa makati med pero same ang results. Sabi ng dr. sa akin mahihirapan akong magkababy. Naglive in kami ng partner ko 2011, pero gumagamit ako ng pills kasi hindi pa ako handang magkababy. Tapos tinigil ko 2013 kasi sabi ko kung mabubuntis ako, para sa akin talaga yung bata. Tapos ayon, nabuo.. ;)

3 months ka lang nag meds sis? ang advice saken 1 yr, pero after 6 months straight na meds repeat ultrasound to see if may cysts pa. kakastart ko lang magtake ng meds last month, so sana maging okay :)

and congratulations on your baby :) timing din talaga siguro no, nakakatuwa :)

goddessjem

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #150 on: May 31, 2014, 09:59:02 pm »
hi mga sis..sensya hindi maka pag back read..basta,. huwag mawalan ng pag asa..lahat ng bagay, alam ni papa Jesus yan..ang tagal ko din walang baby..ngayon, malapit ko ng iluwal ang prinsesa ko..mag dasal lang ng magdasal..iyun ang pinaka importante sa lahat..for HIM, all things are possible...God bless..

sazleang

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #151 on: May 31, 2014, 10:05:50 pm »
Sis, ako din thin endometrium.. PCOS then kung mag ovulate man, hindi umaabot sa mature size ang egg ko. Kakacheck up ko lang ulit kanina. Metformin 850mg 2x daily na then mag chack patency ng fallopian tubes after 2-3 weeks from now.. Papastart narin ako next cycle ng Femara. D ko pa nareresearch yun thin endometrium pero sana madali lang intervention non.

simang

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #152 on: May 31, 2014, 10:20:04 pm »
^sis parehas tayo ganun din sabi ng OB ko, di din daw nagmamature normally yung eggs ko. sabi ng doctor ko if di magwork yung meds ko ngayon, metformin na din ipeprescribe saken next time, first time ko lang kase mag meds so tinetest pa din what works for me. hmm yun lang sinabi ng OB ko saken, na pag di kumakapal yung endometrium, sa implantation ng egg magkakaproblem. hormonal din to, if i'm not mistaken. same din why sobrang irregular ng cycle ko, kase nga if thin endometrium, ibig sabihin wala din nasheshed off para sa period..

good luck saten sis :)

janachen

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #153 on: May 31, 2014, 10:57:43 pm »
3 months ka lang nag meds sis? ang advice saken 1 yr, pero after 6 months straight na meds repeat ultrasound to see if may cysts pa. kakastart ko lang magtake ng meds last month, so sana maging okay :)

and congratulations on your baby :) timing din talaga siguro no, nakakatuwa :)

Yes sis,  3 months lang... Sa pagkakaalala ko November 2010 pumunta ako sa makati med kasi kakaresign ko lang sa work noon. Tapos noong sinabi ng oby ko na 3 months medication ako  tapos balik ako ng last week of february or 1st week of March para magpa- ultrasound kasi titignan nila kung natunaw na yung cyst. So bumalik ako, ayun clear naman siya. Yung ovary ko kasi kumakapal gawa ng eggs na di makalabas. Nag oovule ako monthly pero hindi ako nagmemens. Kinabahan ako dati kasi 3 or 4 months hindi ako dinadatnan eh never pa naman akong nakipagcontact.

Tapos ang ginawa ko noon, habang umiinom ako ng gamot kumakain din ako ng pinya at watermelon.. Salitan yan twice a day. Pag morning iinom ako ng buko. Ang sabi kasi sa akin kung hindi matutunaw yung cyst within 3 months, hahabaan niya yung medication ko kasi malaki daw talaga tapos madaming maliliit na cyst.


sazleang

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #154 on: June 01, 2014, 11:41:25 am »
^sis parehas tayo ganun din sabi ng OB ko, di din daw nagmamature normally yung eggs ko. sabi ng doctor ko if di magwork yung meds ko ngayon, metformin na din ipeprescribe saken next time, first time ko lang kase mag meds so tinetest pa din what works for me. hmm yun lang sinabi ng OB ko saken, na pag di kumakapal yung endometrium, sa implantation ng egg magkakaproblem. hormonal din to, if i'm not mistaken. same din why sobrang irregular ng cycle ko, kase nga if thin endometrium, ibig sabihin wala din nasheshed off para sa period..

good luck saten sis :)

Sis sakin naman numipis yata nun nagclomephine ako. D bale sis positive lang. Maaayos fin yan at magkakababy din tayo! :) God Bless satin :)

dudzrea

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #155 on: June 01, 2014, 08:34:33 pm »
 >:( kanina nag PT ako NEGA lumabas sobra na naman ako nalungkot this month mag pa HSG na ako... minsan talaga dami ko katanungan, sobra hirap at sakit pala ng hindi mapag kalooban ng anak, ayoko mawalan ng pag asa iniisip ko nalang na pag subok sa amin ito ng asawa ko, actually nasasaktan talaga ako today kanina nag simba ako with mu in laws, sobra ako umiiyak sa simbahan sabi ko sana matutunan ko tanggapain ito pati n ng asawa ko sana hindi din ito ang dahilan para mag sawa siya sa akin.. 28 na ako 2 years nalang e 30 na.. wala naman ako magagawa nag papagamot naman ako. nahihirapan na din kasi kami financially kaya isa pa ito sa mga nakaka dag dag sa iniisip ko, LORD please HELP Me..

nicoletta

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #156 on: June 02, 2014, 01:41:13 am »
Sakin naman thick endometrial lining that I had to undergo sonohysterography para makita ng ob ko yung 3D ultrasound ko.  After the SISH, I got pregnant just with one try during my ovulation.  We were so blessed na boy pa talaga baby ko, just like what we have prayed for! :D

yena^_^

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #157 on: June 02, 2014, 01:47:10 am »
Mga sis wag mawalan ng pag-asa. Just keep on praying and relax lang, maraming nagsasabi mahirap daw magbuntis kapag stress. In my case naman I will turn 31 this month. At the beginning of the year nalungkot talaga ako when I learned that my OB resign, magHHSG pa naman sana ako. I was with her for almost two years. Irregular ako, retroverted and di nag-oovulate. We also found out that I was chlomid resistant so I have injections para lang magmature ang egg and mag-ovulate. I was also prescribe with the more expensive injection na menupur kasi nag hyhyperstimulate ako sa menogon(half the price). Grabi puno na talaga ako ng tusok, yung last time ko nung January, I have 8 injections ng menupur plus 1 injection ng booster na nasa almost 3K per inject. Napansin ko rin mas masakit yung menupur keysa menogon. When nothing happen to that cycle, the doctor then decided na magHSG daw ako to check my tubes kasi ang dami na naming na-try ang nag-oovulate naman ako pag mag injection. Weird lang no, diba usually na-uuna yung HSG but it took her more than a year to have me checked. Tapos we also check my DH SA, ok naman. Medyo masakit din pala pagnalaman mo na normal ang SA ni DH kasi it's like a confirmation that ikaw ang may problema. So I was waiting for my schedule ng HSG, nung di ako tinawagan I called the hospital and there I learned that my OB resigned. huhuhu...I was really devastated.

But then I told God I know Your plans are always greater than mine, hindi kita kukulitin na bigyan na kami ng baby kasi alam ko bibigyan Mo kami but please give me extra patience to wait for Your perfect timing. I was out of job for two years and a half kasi gusto na talaga namin magkababy, we will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary in September. So since wala pa si baby and medyo I felt so unproductive na I went back to work last May 5.

A week ago I have this terrible abdominal pain na hindi ko pa naexperience before. I have dysmenorrhea once in a while pero iba talaga yung na-feel ko that week, subrang sakit that when my husband offered me a pain reliever I drink it agad-agad. Pero a week passed hindi sumunod si AF, I still have stomach cramping pero mild lang. Last Friday I look at the calendar, i counted the days and it was day 42 after my last period. Irregular ako but I always have my period between day 33 and day 40 kung walang in-inject sa'kin. So the following morning I took the PT, since sanay na ako sa 1 line lang I was expecting to be disappointed but then to my surprise dalawang lines, then I took another test, another dalawang lines. I'm so happy but I was a bit worried kasi diba I took a pain reliever a week ago and worst, since kakapasok ko lang sa work, I have a chest x-ray also, so andami kong violations kasi nga di ko talaga ini-expect.

Kaya mga sis wag na wag mawalan ng pag-asa. I don't know what help me to conceive, maybe it was the royal jelly that we started taking two months ago or the conceived plus na lubricant na ginagamit namin lately kasi napansin ko wala akong EWCM. Pero I know one thing for sure, si God ang may pakana nito, His time not mine.

I want also to ask mga sis dito to pray for us, for our safe pregnancy and healthy baby. We have waited so long for this pregnancy. I will also be praying for all of you. We will be seeing a new OB this Tuesday, sana OK lang si baby kahit maraming violation si Mama.   

lisse

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #158 on: June 02, 2014, 03:34:05 am »
^congratulations, sis! I am genuinely happy for you and your hubby. My prayers are with you, especially with your baby. Na both of you are healthy.

bonita111809

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Re: Still Childless
« Reply #159 on: June 02, 2014, 04:09:00 am »
yena, very inspiring ang story mo. parang dun ako nakatutok sa royal jelly na sinasabi mo. hehe. TTC din kame ni hubby. pero hindi pa ganun kalaki yung effort namin to conceive gaya nyo na nagpapa-inject at nag-vivisit ng OB. kami normal lang, no contraceptives ganun. we've been together for 5 years. 3 years dating and 2 years married. pero if I'll count the years na magkasama kami sa isang bubong, mga 4 years na. nag live in muna kami bago magpakasal. I had chemical pregnancy last year. after nun, hindi na kami nag-isip ulet na magplan for a baby. natatakot ako baka mawala ulit. pero naaawa ako sa hubby ko whenever he sees shows on tv involving father and child, naiiyak sya. gusto ko na din pero hindi ko alam kung ready na ba ako, after what happened. I'm 27 and he's turning 31 this year. bata pa naman kami diba? hehe. pero I'm willing to try. anong royal jelly ba yung sinasabi mo? baka lang din tumalab sa amin. good luck sa pregnancy mo and I'm praying you have a full term and safe delivery. :D

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