Would you ever be happy knowing that you stole your guy from somebody else?

[capuccino0328]

Masasabi bang inagaw ko yung partner ko? He fell inlove with me and fall out of love sa ex nya. .confused ako.

[bwiset12]

Yan din ang malaking tanong ko..Magiging masaya ka ba knowing na may Pamilyang nasira dahil sayo? Magiging masaya ka ba na may mga batang lalaki na hindi nila kasama ang ama nila dahil pinagpalit ng lalaking karelasyon mo ngayon ang sarili nyang Pamilya para lang sa'yo? Lalo na't sa simula't simula pa lang eh alam naman ng babae na Pamilyado na si lalaki...

[adrianne0530]

no. i believe in karma. and besides if a man cheats with you, he will cheat on you! wife nga nya niloko nya, ikaw pa na gf lang.. 

[LoSiNGGRiP]

if alam ko naman na masaya sya sakin..why not?

[ohcmon]

kung sa akin mangyari, i really don't know. but i think it's unrealistic and a huge waste of time to expect that people will automatically go on a reflective mode and constantly think about how they wronged other people, especially if they are happy in their present reality. they might be forced to confront their guilt someday but there's a huge chance of that not happening.

Ditto. Hello, pinili ka ng mahal mo over another girl, medyo ipokrita yata ang magsasabi na hindi siya matutuwa ng bongga (at hahaba ang hair na abot hanggang Italy).

[sacred cow]

hindi mo naman pag-aari yung tao kaya you could never steal someone away, he/she must choose
to go with you...you're simply giving out an invite

[almostpretty09]

A person cannot really choose who they fall in love with.
Its not their fault na attached pala yun other party.
Kaya nga love is blind db 

[pret_ty68]

Hindi ko pa na experience mangagaw at wala akong balak mangagaw hanngat kaya ko. Pero sa mga naagawan hindi lang naman yung girl na nangagaw ang may mali yung bf mo rin kasi kung talagang mahal ka nya hindi sya magpapaagaw. Malay mo rin meant for each other talaga sila parang si brad and angelina na parang naagaw yata nun ni angelina si brad kay jen while filming mr. and mrs. smith. I like this post from sis baliwsayo

Seriously, relationships are between people.. people who has their own minds. So for me, decision pa din yan ng dalawang tao. Hindi sa masaya ako at may naagaw ako pero masaya ako kasi mahal ako ng mahal ko.. for sure dun naka-focus ang utak ko. Survival of the fittest lang naman talaga teh. Sabi nga sa mga restaurant.. don't leave your things unattended. May disclaimer yan sis. Hehe.

What is really important is mahal ka nang taong mahal mo wala na atang mas sasaya pa dun kaya yung mga nangagaw hindi na rin siguro sila na gui guilty. Besides kung ako naman ang naagawan e di dun sya kung saan sya masaya. Ayoko rin naman sa taong madaling naaagaw besides mas  gusto ko pa na maghiwalay na lang kami kesa andito nga sya sa akin iba naman ang nasa puso nya. Mas sobrang masakit siguro para sa akin na malaman ko na ang isang tao ay nandyan sa akin dahil naaawa lang sya na hiwalayan ako mas nakakaloka ata yun.

[LoSiNGGRiP]

^exactly

[googoo]

I don't think it can be called stealing when the guy courts you or goes with you wholeheartedly.

[lisse]

I don't want to sound too technical, pero IMO, when you "steal a guy from someone", it means you have full knowledge na taken na si guy (married, in a relationship) and yet you still go after him as you would go after someone na you really want to be yours. That doesn't mean na kasalanan lang ng girl na deliberately sineseduce or ginagawa lahat ng paraan para ma-fall sa kanya si comitted guy; kasi si guy meron din naman siyang full knowledge (hello!) na committed na siya sa iba and yet instead na umiwas eh hinahayaan lang niya na may umakit sa kanya.
If talagang true love pala nila ang isa't-isa, eh why not settle things straight. magpaka-signle muna si guy, settle his marriage/relationship with someone else kung tlagang wala ng chance para maisalba and then saka sila magsama nung girl. Like I said, just my opinion, and coming from a married woman, I am admittedly biased. Hindi ako agree sa ganito kasi kung pwede namang maging masaya ng walang masasaktang iba, eh why not diba? Kahit pa sabihin na nagbreak na sila before naging kayo, if hindi naman sila mauuwi sa break up kundi dahil sayo medyo nakakakonsensya din. But then, I don't wanna sound judgmental kasi hindi ko naman na-experience ito. Case to case basis. Sometimes people are trapped in a relationship. Sometimes talagang mapaglaro. We'll never know. Malay natin, baka agawin ko din pala si hubby ko sa iba if ever nung ma-meet ko siya eh committed na siya. Pero buti na lang hindi

[rannastillero]

Naloka ako sa agawan portion dito.
I Admit isa ako sa nangagaw,
pero susme Crush lang ng mga friendship ko [textspeak!] inagaw ko.
Me bf ako nun kaya wala na akong crush crush pa, pero nagbreak kmi ni bf ayun niligawan ako nung guy na crush nila pero dahil dun iniwan nila ako lahat. at si guy (hubby ko na ngayon) yung natira saken.
pero after that aba nag usbungan din yung lovelife nila,
at take note ang gwa gwapo ng BFs nila.
yung inagaw ko kasing crush nila hindi naman gwapo,pero super caring mabait at masarap magmahal.
Hubby ko na sya at masaya kami
HAPPY naman ako kasi naging happy yung buhay buhay namin, mag rereunion nga kame eh kasi lahat meron ng mga babies!
atleast nung inagaw ko yung crush nila, naging aware sila na meron pala sa tabi tabi na mas bagay at mas mamahalin nila.

[it_girl]

I have this one ex mga 6 months lang naging kame. then my gf na sya now but d gf is mukhang playgirl so i searched fb and found out my ibang bf ito bukod sa ex ko unfortunately hindi alam ng ex ko I admit my feelings pa ako sa ex ko and I was thinking na agawin sya pero hindi ko alam pano knowing na masaya sya dun sa girl na un kaya move on nalang ako.. alam ko din ang feeling ng maagawan so I always end up na hayaan ko nalang. Minsan iniisip ko mang agaw na kaya ko haha pero ang tanong magiging masaya nga ba ko sa gagawin ko 

[adrianne0530]

Bakit nga ba agaw ang term? Parang gamit lang ang peg. Lol! Ako, nang-hiram ako once (o di ba parang gamit lang talaga), di ko naman inagaw.. damot nung girl iniskandalo ako kaya sinoli ko na kahit yun guy ayaw pumayag ng nakikipag-break na ko. Hehe. 

Seriously, relationships are between people.. people who has their own minds. So for me, decision pa din yan ng dalawang tao. Hindi sa masaya ako at may naagaw ako pero masaya ako kasi mahal ako ng mahal ko.. for sure dun naka-focus ang utak ko. Survival of the fittest lang naman talaga teh. Sabi nga sa mga restaurant.. don't leave your things unattended. May disclaimer yan sis. Hehe.
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hahaha! sis natuwa ako sa post mo! 

[gharz412]

In my case, I woudn't say that i stole my man from his f***ing bestfriend. They've been in a no string attach relationship for 5 years and i can say na during those times na dipa kame ni hubby ko nun maharot talaga yung BFF niya. I really don't understand why she's so desperate to be with him since she's pretty naman and smart. Until such time when hubby fell inlove with me so he chose me over her. It was really hard sa hubby ko na ngayon to explained everything although wala naman siya dapat iexplain. But before ko sinagot hubby ko during that time i gave him time to decide what's really in his heart so yun iniwan niya si BBF with benifits over me... Did i steal him from her? what do you think guys although kampante na ako ngayon kase we're married and soon to be parent may mga times padin na nagpapakita sa kanya yung girl as in pumupunta sa house nila which is di naman tinatago nang asawa ko..

[shane_ganda]

^grabe 5 years?? ni hindi sila nainlove sa isat isa? hehe.. the fact na ikaw ang pinili niya. meaning hindi nga siya na inlove dun


anyways, some siguro wala pake, diba bulag nga ang pag ibig. kaya nga may mga kabit eh.

[joeygirly]

Nakaw talaga? hahaha. case to case basis, strict ak sumagot dito dahil di ako papayag na sabihing NINAKAW ako ng bf ko sa ex ko  pero based sa situation ng nag post I say na di natin maiiwasan maka meet ng ganyang girls.  Women nowadays.. nakakagulat ang pagiging brave di na natakot sa karma! minsan ang kapal na ng muka..

[tomatostellar]

Would I be happy? I wouldn't know really, coz I'm not the mangaagaw kind :p

Pero yun nga takes 2 to tango, baka naman it's about time na "magpa-agaw" na si guy.
Feeling ko kasi may mga ibang lalake na pag ayaw na sa current gf, nakipag break pero di pumayag si girl, nagpapaka-a**hole na lang.
Theory ko lang to, pero I think ganto yung isa kong kapatid.
Baka better off ka pa kung ganyan lang din si guy e yung nagpapagaw type. I think it may not always be the other girls fault, baka may mali na din talaga sa relationship na nasira.

Shouldn't justify what the mang aagaw did though, mali pa din yun.

[Girltalker2]

nice perspective...

pero seriously, i wish i had dated around when i was young.  dated ha, hindi sleep. 
somehow, i envy those women/ladies who are confident of themselves and are happy to date around

why confine yourself with that "one true love" notion.  meet and mingle.  it would enhance your personality and give you life learning experience

kung di kayo compatible.  end na agad ang relationship and just be friends.  date the next guy.
naagaw ng iba? baka sila ang para sa isa't isa.
see a good looking guy? baka mas bagay kayo kaysa sa kasama nya.

Sis I agree. I thought I had the one true love of my life kasi we were inseparable for more than a decade. We got married. Then we separated ways din.  It is only in my new found life I got this chance to date around. And masaya din sya. But after a while, nakakapagod. Especially when you know the guy is not for you. But yes, I totally agree, gives you life learning experience and a different perspective on how the opposite sex are in terms of their general traits characteristics.  Then once you find someone interesting, you zero in again with his special qualities and unique characteristics.  Walah! baka sya nanga si soulmate kong inaantay. 

Masasabi bang inagaw ko yung partner ko? He fell inlove with me and fall out of love sa ex nya. .confused ako.

This is the thing about most men.  I am very much doubtful on these kinds of men who will court you, poporma habang may gf on the side. Kung napasagot ka na nya, then tsaka sya makikipag break sa gf nya. Sigurista.

Be wary of these kinds of men. Because potentially, they can do the same thing to you.  In most  cases, what goes around, comes around. Not not ALL THE TIME.

no. i believe in karma. and besides if a man cheats with you, he will cheat on you! wife nga nya niloko nya, ikaw pa na gf lang.. 

Well, minsan happily ever after si lalaki at ang mistress.  Ito ang hindi ko maubos maisip na why people like this deserve a happy life for destroying other people's lives.

A person cannot really choose who they fall in love with.
Its not their fault na attached pala yun other party.
Kaya nga love is blind db 

I don't agree.  We are humans with our minds. Yes we have feelings too. Pero hindi tayo hayop na walang pag-iisip na umiiral.  If someone is already married, nagpapakahayop lang ang mistress at ang asawa for committing adultery, and they are not acting as responsible adults or human beings.

Kaya I still believe, we can control our feelings if we want to. Marami lang dahilan, na natutuwa ka sa attention, hanggang sa mahulog loob mo. Then ang reason mo love is blind. Ka ek-ek-an iyan.

I don't want to sound too technical, pero IMO, when you "steal a guy from someone", it means you have full knowledge na taken na si guy (married, in a relationship) and yet you still go after him as you would go after someone na you really want to be yours. That doesn't mean na kasalanan lang ng girl na deliberately sineseduce or ginagawa lahat ng paraan para ma-fall sa kanya si comitted guy; kasi si guy meron din naman siyang full knowledge (hello!) na committed na siya sa iba and yet instead na umiwas eh hinahayaan lang niya na may umakit sa kanya.
If talagang true love pala nila ang isa't-isa, eh why not settle things straight. magpaka-signle muna si guy, settle his marriage/relationship with someone else kung tlagang wala ng chance para maisalba and then saka sila magsama nung girl. Like I said, just my opinion, and coming from a married woman, I am admittedly biased. Hindi ako agree sa ganito kasi kung pwede namang maging masaya ng walang masasaktang iba, eh why not diba? Kahit pa sabihin na nagbreak na sila before naging kayo, if hindi naman sila mauuwi sa break up kundi dahil sayo medyo nakakakonsensya din. But then, I don't wanna sound judgmental kasi hindi ko naman na-experience ito. Case to case basis. Sometimes people are trapped in a relationship. Sometimes talagang mapaglaro. We'll never know. Malay natin, baka agawin ko din pala si hubby ko sa iba if ever nung ma-meet ko siya eh committed na siya. Pero buti na lang hindi

Sis I agree with you. Being married once and separated now.  Yes may umagaw sakin. And yes, hubby was also part of the erring party, di lang ang mistress. But hubby was not man enough to talk to me. I had to be the one to stand firm and leave the relationship. But not for them to live happily ever after, but more for me to save myself from a life from hell.

[lisse]

^I'm sorry to hear that sis. Ewan ko ba minsan pa nga I hear men who say na naakit lang daw sila or si girl daw yung nanligaw hello!

Anyway, my guy cousin, when asked why some men court or date other girls when they are still in a relationship with another girl whom they plan to break up with, said, "when you want to quit your current job, you do not resign without finding another one to transfer to." anudaw?!? naloka ako.