Everyone is warning you.....

[Princess_Chill]

Hi mga sis,

Just want to share something...i don't know if i'll be alarmed or something kasi e...si hubby may ka officemate na every friend of mine is telling me naku mag ingat ka sa babaeng yan...wala naman ako makita na may kailangan ako ipag alala...and niloloko ko nga si hubby na baka may something kayo niyan ah...and im always telling him na pabiro...

" subukan nyo lang at makikita ninyo hinahanap niyo" well hubby knew na mapag pasencya me and mabait wag lang ako sagarin kasi masama ako magalit...

now should i give attention to the warning ng mga nakakausap ko or ill just let it be?

[patchi2012]

i guess since you already made a pahapyaw sa hubby mo kahit in a pabiro way lang, for sure, he knows you better at na gets na nya yung ibig mong sabihin. kahit pabiro pero may laman. chillax lang sis, don't worry much, but be vigilant pa din. i know na we trust our husbands pero yun nga lang we can't trust naman ang mga tao sa paligid nila. pero kilala mo ang husband mo at alam mo kung medyo may pagka matinik nga sya or not. though you said naman na wala ka namang nakita na need mong ipag alala.

[Princess_Chill]

ang saakin kasi sis true na may tiwala tayo sa mga hubby natin but " We don't trust the biyaches around"
kaso kahit na gaano katino ang mga asawa natin lalaki parin sila...alam mo iyon? im vigilant kasi bakit
may nagsasabi na mag ingat ako doon kung walang danger diba?

[quinone]

sis ang husband ko kasi hindi siya yung tipong tao na papa-temp/papa-tukso or nagpapa-pear pressure, kaya doon nanggagaling ang tiwala ko sa kanya, kaya kahit i don't like his friends very much i let him hang around with them.

pero kung feeling mo he needs to be reminded, then do so. sabihin mo rin na mag-ingat siya. maganda siguro na sabihin mo sa kanya na ang tukso hindi nilalabanan, tinatakbuhan yan. hindi ako masyadong religious na tao ha, pero diba si Jesus nung tine-temp ng devil ang sinabi niya something like, 'umalis ka dito' kasi dapat talaga ang temptation tinatakbuhan/iniiwasan.

[shanghai baby]

How do these friends know the girl? Are they colleagues din or do they personally know her? Just asking because I want to understand why they're giving you such warnings? And what could be the reason daw na dapat mag ingat ka?

If they happen to be colleagues or they have an idea of what's happening in the workplace, then there's a reason for you to worry. If they just know her naman, still, ask your friends why? Is she the kind who find married men attractive? Like you said, biyach. Haha.

Pero like all of you said, most important factor is how well you know your husband. Is cheating in his history? Because kahit naman natin sabihin na we are kind and loving women, haynaku, in fact most cheaters I know have loving and responsible wives. It's just that it's in their nature to cheat. So how about your hubby? Is he the faithful kind of guy? And what does your instinct tell you? I dunno, I never underestimate the power of my instincts. Hehe. Not saying this to make you further doubt your husband but I'm just being objective kasi nga EVERYONE is warning you. Perhaps you should deal with the WHY. WHY IS EVERYONE WARNING ME ABOUT THIS GIRL?

[Princess_Chill]

Actually colleagues niya ang nag wawarn something na uy ingat ka kasi baka magka something sila ng hubby mo...
married din iyong girl e...nakakasama ko na siya then minsan nag kwento...damsel in distress ang dating...pag kasama
niya hubby niya mukhang happy couple pero noong nakausap ko siya at sa kinukwento din ni hubby hindi daw siya masaya
doon sa guy na napilitan lang daw siya magpakasal doon...

feeling ko kaya nila ako pinag iingat kasi damsel in distress kasi ang peg niya..lam mo naman powers ng damsel in distress.

pero pag nagkukwentuhan kami ni hubby lagi niya sinasabi na napakat*nga talaga about sa work ah

my instinc is telling me to be vigilant...iyon lang kung baga walang nangyayari pero ingat ingat din..

[glamorosa_09]

^sis, iba ba itong girl sa dati mong namention?

[Princess_Chill]

sis siya parin iyong girl na iyon...

[may12]

^Sis, bakit niya nasasabing ang t****? Lagi niya ba sinasabi 'yon at kinukuwento?
Kasi kahit na negative ang sasabihin niya about dun sa girl, pero lagi-lagi naman... eh dapat magtaka ka na.

[hisana]

I'd be somewhat alarmed, but I wouldn't assume the worst just yet. I agree that people will not just randomly give out warnings like these, kahit pabiro pa; it's just too insensitive to joke about stuff like this. At least now si hubby has an idea that you are not totally clueless about the situation, whatever it may be. That would give him pause about giving in to whatever "boys will be boys" kalokohan he might do in the future. At para dumistansya na kay damsel in distress!

May may na-encounter na rin akong office affairs na some of the coworkers feel bad for the wife/gf but know that it's really not their place to say anything about it to her, so dinadaan na lang sa vague comments. But I'm not saying may affair si hubby ha, LOL. In some cases lang naman.

[Princess_Chill]

^Sis, bakit niya nasasabing ang t****? Lagi niya ba sinasabi 'yon at kinukuwento?
Kasi kahit na negative ang sasabihin niya about dun sa girl, pero lagi-lagi naman... eh dapat magtaka ka na.

hindi naman niya madalas kinukwento sakin...since sa sales sila may ikukwento siya sitwasyon then mag react ako na
kung ako nandoon eto gagawin ko...then magsabi niya kung ano nangyari kaya di nakabenta si damsel tas mag comment
siya na ayun shunga nga kaya di makabenta mahina dumiskarte.

woman's instincs ko kakaiba din....pakiramdam ko kasi si damsel ang may tendency talaga...alam mo iyong "ay sayang may asawa"
na parang papatol din...alam mo un? di ko maexplain e

[stormy_princess]

they are right sis, you already give your husband a warning at dapat matakot na sya dun. Pero tama ka lalaki sila, mahina din. Ano ba ang dapat natin gawin? Ang sa akin lang is simple, i said to my husband sige mambabae ka. Nilandi ka or ikaw ang nilandi, you know what will happen pag ginawa mo yun. That's it. Hindi ako nagche-check ng cp nya or fb nya. Ang tanging pinanghahawakan ko yung trust ko sa kanya at yung warning ko. Pag sya pumalya, kasalanan nya. On my part naman, I assure him naman na kaya ko panindigan yung mga sinasabi ko sa kanya lalo na ang warnings ko:)

[quinone]

...you already give your husband a warning...

...Pag sya pumalya, kasalanan nya...

i agree.

[Princess_Chill]

oo nga ! totally agree!
you gave him a warning pag siya pumalya, kasalanan niya...

dalawang babae mawawala sa buhay niya pag nagloko siya....