10 years of relationship... nagbago si Mister after marriage

[sweetiebarbie]

10 years bago kami nagpakasal ng partner ko... pero madami ako ineexpect sa kanya na pinapakita nya sa loob ng 10 years. 1st mother's day walang celebration kahit greetings wala din...  kahit nung 1st year wedding anniversary namin hindi nya ako greet. dati monthsary lang celebrate agad namin un. sabihin ko ba sa kanya na nagexpect ako s kanya or hayaan ko na lang kahit hanggang ngayon nasasaktan ako. ayaw ko lang sabihan nya ako ng demanding!

[RoyalWeddingFavors]

sabihin mo sa kanya kung ano gusto mo. di naman sila mind reader para malaman kung ano ang gusto mo. but do not say it in a way na pinaparating mo na sila ang nagkulang kasi papasok dyan yung bitterness na di naappreciate yung ibang ginagawa nila. ask him if he can do it for you (on top dun sa ginagawa nya) and let him understand how it means to you and how it  makes you more happy kahit petty. 

[eekai]

 i think you can always make lambing and say na nagtatampo ka kase he forgot to greet you man lang.  hubby and i have been married for 10 years and we still celebrate our monthsary.  like every 15th after dinner or something i'd tell him he forgot to greet me or give m something, tapos he'll say kaya nga ako bumili ng ganito or kaya nga i did this kanina eh.

[babyboo.0326]

i think if you say na "i miss it nung nagse-celebrate tayo nung kahit monthsary lang natin. i was so giddy back then we you're like that. i miss you making me feel giddy" then say it in a lambing way, pasok sa banga yun. kasi it only proves na you want that side of him and remind him always on how you feel in love with him. point those positive things out. parang i-reminisce mo sa kanya yung mga nakaraan 

[popi]

You have to tell him what you want.  Katulad ng sabi ng isang sis natin, hindi mind reader ang asawa mo.  Lalo na ang guys, hindi marunong makiramdam yan.  Hindi nya mapapansin na masama ang loob mo, or kung mapansin man nya, hindi nya alam kung bakit.  Kelangan ipaliwanag mo sa kanya.

[misuguerrero]

Talk to your hubby. Tama mga ka-GT natin, hindi naman sila mind reader para malaman ang iniisip at nararamdaman mo.

Tell him na you miss those things na ginagawa nyo or ginagawa nya for you nung hindi pa kayo kasal. And then if he asks kung ano yun, then tell him what you want. 

[sweetiebarbie]

Thanks mga sis! I really appreciate all your suggestions... We've been talking about our other couple friends and about that issue nasabi ko sa kanya naisinggit ko sa usapan namin (mother's day) and sabi nya " di ba kita na greet?" he said sorry naman madami lang daw sya kasi naiisip sa work then nag usap kami na pag nasa house na siya iwas muna konti sa work. past 2weeks lagi na kami may bonding.. na miss din daw nya un... we love each other pa nung nagging open ako sa kanya about my feelings.. tama kayo medyo lambing ulit para ganon din si hubby sa inyo. thanks again mga sis!

[RuChe]

You can also initiate sis. Like buy something small like chocolates or a nice pen for him. Or maybe cook for him pag me ganitong occasion. It's not that you're expecting something in return. Just to let him know that you still want to remember those special events and make those special.