Out of curiosity, would you settle to be the other woman?

[littlemisskolehiyala]

For those na pumapatol, it's either they really love the guy or they're just after the money. 

[simang]

^if they really love the guy, then they're stupid. If they're after the money, then they're smart.

[~ anna ~]

No, I don't want to.  Ang hirap ng may kahati.  Ayoko yung feeling na yung leftovers yung napupunta sa akin.  I don't want to have to tell my kids na we cannot be their dad's priority.  That would just break my heart.

[SexyHenessy]

HELL NO! Sayang lang ang time, effort, love. And why would I settle to be the other woman if I know naman na I'm better enough to be the number one/wife/original.

[sexykha]

a big NO.
why would i settle for other woman if i can be the one?
i've decided to broke up with my ex because of his "other woman" so definitely being an other woman is a NO-NO for me.

[plumpolka]

no. pwede ka naman maging main course bakit ka magse-settle na side dish ka lang. kahit mahirap, kailangan mauntog!

[Prinsesa Mumela]

No. Never. Kung nagmamahalan talaga tayo, ako at ako lang ang babae sa buhay mo.

[mynameisxtine]

With what and where am I right now.. I would say yes. Reason? I don't need to explain myself

[ChocoCat]

This is definitely a NO for me.
My dad has another woman which he still denies even though we've caught him a couple of times already (my mom just keeps quiet because she loves him). Also my ex and I broke up due to a third party. My ex didn't want to leave me but also doesn't want to leave his bitchy kabit (hoarding? lol!). I was the one who left so they can continue their affair because I don't want to think that I am sharing intimate moments with a guy who also shares intimate moments with some other b****. Gross just gross!!!!

[leihmari]

With what and where am I right now.. I would say yes. Reason? I don't need to explain myself

..i like you're being so true..it's not that I'm into being the other woman pero am just facing the fact na madaming dahilan ang mga napupunta sa sitwasyon na ganyan at kaming mga legal wives hindi namin yun naiintindihan because we're not on their shoe,pero broadely thinking tinatanggap ko yung sinasabing walang babaeng nangarap maging kabit.kahit naman ikaw Ms. mynameisxtine I'm sure hindi mo yan pinangarap di ba?so i can't judge you for being where you are.

[iwannabeasupermodel]

my answer is no. then i thought what if mahal na mahal ko, i usually break all the rules and stupid when it comes to love. then naisip ko, in the first place, if a guy is taken, i usually consider him off limits, i have respect for the partner. i dont get myself too close to attach guys. kahit nga sa crush palang eh, pag may gf i usually just cross him off. haha!

[alice_alice]

Never.

May nagkagusto sakeng married man, actually naging kaibigan ko siya. May wife siya no kids yet.
I asked him what made him want to cheat and he answered gusto niya lang malaman if bebenta pa siya it's like he wants to feed his ego na kahit medyo may edad na siya at may asawa na eh may nagkakagusto pa sa kanya nafaflatter daw siya. He said gusto niya magenjoy kasi nasasakal siya sa wife niya. Gusto niya naman kiligin uli.

Kaya ko sinabing naging friend is because di na kame friends ngayon, the time na nagsabi siya ng feelings for me (knowing na he's married) made me decide to avoid him, dahil di ko masisikmura, at hinde ko talaga kakayanin, he knows may bf ako yet gusto niya maging kame. Di ba anong klaseng tao yan? At anong klaseng tao ako kung magpapatihulog ako? Napakabait at almost perfect ni wife napakaunfair sa aming mga karelasyon.

 Di matutumbasan ng thrill ang sakit ng ulong maari kong makuha pag nagkataon natuloy ito.

Atsaka mas maganda paren ang taas noo ka kasi wala kang naapakang tao at may peace of mind ka.

[sassy_gal18]

No

[amethyst028]

Been there done that. All i can say is don't do it. It never ends well. And you will never be happy habang nasa ganitong situation ka. Wala kang peace of mind. Kahit sabihin natin ikaw yung taong walang konsensya at walang paki alam sa iba, deep down it will eat you up.

I'm glad its over and i came out unscathed. For the first time nakatulog ako ng mahimbing. I met someone na ako ang priority. Na anytime pwede niya ko kitain kahit araw araw. Walang time limit pag kasama mo. Walang ka text na iba bukod sayo. Will schedule outings and trips months ahead na hindi matatakot na baka wala na kayo by then. You feel secure and safe. Kahit saan kayo pumunta pwede hindi matatakot na baka may maka kita sa inyo na kakilala ni orig gf/wife. Will introduce you to all his oarents, relatives and friends. Sinasama ka sa lahat ng lakad. Pino-post pic niyo sa fb. Hindi ka tinatago. Proud siya sayo.

When i think about it, i don't know why i settled for less. Ang sarap ng feeling na you have him all to yourself. Wala kang kahati. At ibibigay niya sayo ang mundo without second guessing himself. No if no buts. Sayo siya buong buo. And you will never be afraid of losing him anytime kasi he ain't going nowhere. Next to you is where he wants to be. At he is true to his word, he will try his best to never disappoint you. Ang sarap ng ganon. Wala kang iniisp o pino-problema.

[Girltalker2]

Ang daming NO na answer. Pero pag tumingin ka naman sa paligid mo, ang daming gumagawa nito na pumapatol sa may asawa na. Hindi ko maintindihan, for a Catholic country like ours, napaka rampant ang pagiging mistress.  When you search the net, andyan ang pagiging easy ng mga Pinay. And I try to find answers for this as well.  Sabi nila because Filipinos are generally emotional and it is not a 'thinking' race,  maybe that's the reason. Lagi ang emotions ang pinapairal, kaya hindi na nag-iisip. Sunggab nalang ng sunggab yung lalaking may asawa at yung mistress.

[nixiquita]

id probably consider it for the first few days weeks or months.

kaso maloloka ako ng bongga kasi posessive ako and clingy. sakit sa ulo lang and then mauuntog nalang siguro ako na hes not worth all the pain and stress.

so wala din. ako mismo ggiveup o magsasawa.

[t_r_i_s_h]

I almost fell inlove with a married guy, pero di ko talaga kaya. Hindi sa nagmamalinis ako ah, pero di ko kaya maging kabit.

But don't get me wrong, I'm not judging girls na nasa ganitong relationship.

[sexykha]

how can a girl refuse a committed guy kung he do things that makes the girl special?
its not a fault from the girl's side to fall for a committed guy, may mali din kasi sa guy - since he's already committed bakit klngan nya pa humanap ng iba db?

there are reasons din why girls accept to be the other woman, would we judge her for her actions?
yes, that's immoral but still let's leave it to her why she did that..
and besides she should be responsible for her actions..

[Cessiechu]

Kahit pa lumalapit yung guy pero alam mong mali, UMALIS ka na sa UNA pa lang. Dahil mas mahihirapan ka kapag pinatagal mo. ILAYO mo na ang sarili mo sa tukso, sa bagay na hinde tama. KARMA is just around the corner. Saka girl ka rin, sana maintindihan mo yung kalagayan nung legal wife or girlfriend.

[Girltalker2]

how can a girl refuse a committed guy kung he do things that makes the girl special?
its not a fault from the girl's side to fall for a committed guy, may mali din kasi sa guy - since he's already committed bakit klngan nya pa humanap ng iba db?

there are reasons din why girls accept to be the other woman, would we judge her for her actions?
yes, that's immoral but still let's leave it to her why she did that..
and besides she should be responsible for her actions..

easier said. I wonder if you would say the same things to a kabit if it happens to be your hubby's kabit.