Left me without saying anything :(

[Strawberry19]

Hi mga sis kailangan ki lang ma share to kase sobrang in pain ako right now.
I had a relationship for almost four years. Hindi ko masabi sa parents ko kase they think im too young pa daw. I tried to tell them pero wala talaga halatang ayaw pa nila.
And ngayon wala na kame... His last message to me eh sabi nia hndi nia daw ako mashado matetext kase may problem sha. Its been a week now and ni hi or hello wala akong natanggap. So inassume ko na wala na talaga ayaw ko ng mag ask for closure kase i know it would be harder for me.
Anong gagawin ko mga sis?

[renrai23]

Hi sis. Ilang taon ka na ba? Is/are there any reason kung bat ka niya iniwan nalang ng ganung ganun nalang sa ere? on and off ba relationship niyo before or continous?

[FOURever]

^^medyo same tayo. I was too young nung naging kami. Parang mga 16 yrs old pa lang ako.. 5 years tinagal namin pero di ko masabi sa parents ko kasi bata pa namin haha. I'd say, tanungin mo sya kung bakit baka sakaling mag reply. O puntahan mo kahit sa tingin mo harder yan.. You need closure and that closure will help you a lot para makamove on at walang what ifs. And if for you breakup na yan, let him go.. Unang una, bata ka pa wag mo ubusin energy mo sa heartache kung bata ka pa, pangalawa, di ka pa ready kasi di mo sya mapakilala sa parents mo.. Di mo mapagtanggol. Lessons learned na lang yan.. If he really wants to meet your oarents, kahit ayaw mo, gagawa ng paraan yan.. Tapos ngayon nawala, baka nga may problem sya pero baka ibang babae din problem nya..

Hmmm. Based lang yan sa experience ko ha. Nasayo pa rin yan pero kung ako sayo, i wont waste my youth to someone na nasasaktan ako indirectly.. Matagal na kayo, dapat medyo kilala mo na sya.

[freelancer_babe]

We really have to know, how young are you?

Baka naman talagang may problem siyang malaki. Guys really close up kung may malaking problema sila and they have that big tendency not to share that problem even to those na closest sa kanila. Yun ang di maintindihan ng karamihan ng girls - we really want to help.

One week pa lang yan. Don't assume na wala talaga. It might really be true na baka talagang dumadaan siya sa malaking problema. Let him handle it by himself.

But again, we have to know, how young are you?

[FOURever]

^agree. We have to know. It's a factor sa magiging tingin namin sa situation

[geneuse]

@TS
may problem pala sya... hindi ka naman nya iniwan baka naman ayaw ka lang nya madamay sa problema nya.. hindi pa confirm na iniwanan ka nya since wala pa confirmation from him..

wait muna naten yung mangyayare tomorrow baka sakali.. saka mo kami balitaan!