KINAKAUSAP ANG SARILI

[aoshi_01]

phew! hay salamat. hindi na ako nag-iisa.

I've been doing this for quite some time now, and I guess being an only child has something to do with it. I didn't have many friends growing up, sanay ako na mag-isa lang.

Natigil siya when I was in college, lumawak kasi ang circle of friends ko (mostly made of bekis). But recently, I've started again. Usually, ginagawa ko to pag mag isa lang ako sa house. Especially since I don't really get to see my tight-knit group of friends that much because of our work schedules. That, and wala akong friends sa office. I simply don't trust anyone in my current workplace (but that's a different story altogether).

In a way it serves as a catharsis for me. Yes, I blog or write it in a journal I keep. But there's a different release kasi if you say it out loud.

[tellycopter]

I do this a lot and I don't think I'm crazy naman. It's like a release for me when I need a breather. Kapag galit ako I talk to myself when everybody's asleep na.

[tamera_lorraine]

^same tayo! Pag may sinasabi ng di maganda, medyo lumalayo ako kasi alam ko na susunod dun or as much as possible iniiba ko topic or sabihin kong mabait naman yun baka ganito lang nangyari or what.. Haha! Yes, gusto ko yan

Sige mag jojournal na rin ako everyday

me too sis FouRever..

mabuti ng magisa ka nalng if ang kausap mo eh puro kasiraan ng ibang tao pinaguusapan in short puro chismis hehe

kaya ako ginagawa ko lumalayo ako sa kanila,,nakikinig na lang ako ng music ko sa iPoD magisa.. narerelax pa ko.. hehe


nagsasalita magisa.. minsan sa work pag nagcocompose ako ng mail hehe! or my presentation ako dapat gawin

hi mga sis...
It is really hard to trust others pero kung companionship lang naman ang kailangan nyo madali lang naman yun.

- Try to find persons na may kapareho nyong hilig (clothes, shopping, travel, gadgets, etc)
- if you're afraid to say something wrong, then be a good listener.
-Try to say good things sa taong kausap mo. Not so OA na sobrang puri naman.
- Hmm, you may want to get friends to mountaineers. They are known to be friendly.

HTH

correct si sis zee87... hanap kayo ng friends na same ng interest niyo..

masaya kase if marami kang friends

[Mikasa]

lagi ko rin kausap ang sarili ko pero bihira akong magsalita ng literal. feeling ko normal lang to sa mga taong walang masyadong friends or yung hindi mahilig magkwento ng personal about sa sarili nila, like me.

[Shiecg]

ay madami pala tayo, hehe. same here, kinakausap ko rin sarili ko, sometimes to cheer myself up or nagpapa practice din ng sasabihin sa meeting or just to simply analyze what i have done or what to do next. Nabasa ko minsan healthy din naman daw to kasi nga you were able to express your feelings or thoughts, basta wag lang sa madaming tao and malakas na you would get the crowds attention, kamusta naman un kung pagtitinginan ka na hehe.

[twelvth_goddess]

I find myself doing this a lot when I'm driving.

[baliwsayo]

^same with twelvth goddess.. lol!

Pero ang gawa ko na mas madalas ngayon, kausapin si Lord (imbes na sarili ko) kasi na-realize ko mas maganda kasi kinakalabasan kesa sarili ko lang na aning aning ang kinakausap ko. Lol!

[Geeglee]

I think it's normal naman to talk to yourself kasi parang inasses mo yung sarili mo, nagpplano ka ng something for yourself...parang ganun.

Pero same with baliwsayo, lately mas pinipili ko to talk to God kasi mas nakakagaan ng pakiramdam after. Sa tingin ko din normal sa babae yung kinakausap sarili kasi ang dami natin naiisip kung ano ano. tama ba ko? hehe not sure din pero kasi yung mga natanong ko na babae ganun din. Kaso minsan hindi maganda nagiging result kasi we get paranoid or scared or worried.

[ilovejdy]

all the time
and I always tell myself "ano ba ang mga pinaiisip mo, nababaliw kana"

[awesomemaia]

its pretty normal for me..they have to live with that...

[winkypops]

kinakausap ko rin ang sarili ko especially kapag mag isa lang ako at may malalim akong iniisip. I think it's normal

[awesomemaia]

Madalas ko to ginagwa lalo na pag nagbabasa ako hahaha!! parang ang kausap ko pala eh mga characters sa book,

[cmartinez1026]

I think it's a lot more normal than we think. I tend to talk or think aloud when I need to concentrate, when I'm reading a book, or when I'm stressed. There were times people found it odd, but to be honest I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

[starfishqueen]

i talk to myself in my mind a lot.

[sugardrop]

I do this like nagmumuni-muni ako aloud.

[gen211]

Kapag ang isip at puso ko ay hindi magkasundo... I even talk to myself even when there are persons in the office. Nasanay narin sila. Jejeje.

[poetrytoprose]

talking to my self had helped me in a lot of ways.

Ang hirap kasi sometimes we think that talking to ourselves makes us crazy. Actually, okay lang na kausapin ang sarili just make sure that no one sees you. Talking to myself helped me solved my weakness, make improve goal setting (for myself), and really reflect on my life.

Funny, we think that talking to ourselves is crazy than talking about other's lives.

[winkypops]

ginagawa ko ito minsan pero make sure na walang nakakakita

[sweet_chloe]

I do this everyday specially at night since I'm always alone. According to an article I've read, nakakadagdag daw ng talino and confidence if you talk to yourself specially infront of the mirror. I've been talking to myself since elementary pa akala ko nga may problem na ako sa brain because of that pero since ako mabilis ako madepressed it helped me cope up easily and I don't always talk to anyone about my problem so instead of sharing problems to others kinakausap ko sarili ko then I feel relieve after that.

[Ma.Jewel_1987]

I do this too pero sa mind lang, nagsasagutan pa nga eh, like imbyerna tong babaeng to ha naapakan ako hindi nagsorry. Sabay sabe sa mind uli, true bitchessa nga 

Pero hindi ko ugali magtalk ng mag-isa puro sa mind lang na parang may iba akong kausap, oh well may konting sayad hehe.

Hindi din naman ako loner kasi pag nasa office sobrang daldal ko din,ganun din sa bahay, siguro yun nga since hindi maganda naiisip ko hindi ko sinasabi out loud baka mapaaway ako though minsan hindi ko din kayang tiisin na hindi sabihin nyaha.