Ligawan...

[gylbie]

now a days.... gaano na kayo katagal mangligaw?

days....
weeks...
months...
years...
o hours...


***para lam ko kung gaano katagal ako magpakipot?! chos! joke! hahahaha

[FOURever]

I want to hear this from guys din although i can share my own experience na rin.. Pinakamabilis 4 months tapos he gave up.. Pinakamatagal 5 years before he gave up.

[akthung]

basta may spark, it can be instantaneous. lalo na pag babae. alam na agad yan.

tao na lang ang magpapahaba, for whatever reasons,  kesa sa ayaw ipalabas na easy to get etc.

this is my opinion lang.

[sexykhuletzky]

I don't believe in ligaw. For me, mas okay na ligawan ako pag kame na. Hehe.

[Bastie]

sa kaso ko ng panliligaw kay misis dati..

6 months ako nanligaw.. style "old school" (halatang matanda na)... 

[tomatostellar]

ako ang nanligaw kay current bf! haha (ang gwapo mo kuya!) but we've been friends for a long time and like nya na ko dati pa., hindi ako feelingera, totoo yun :p
nung "landian" period ayun medyo ako nag initiate ng mga meetings namin (not exactly dates kaya meeting na lang). magkalayo kami nun, Bulacan - Cavite, so chat/text/call lang madalas. di ko masabi kung gaano katagal "ligawan" coz from "friends catching" hirap lagyan ng border when the landian started :p pero i think mga 2 months siguro

kay previous bf naman, started off as good friends din and blockmate in college, sya pormal na nagligaw w/ flowers, punta sa bahay, sundo sa work and all, lasted for about 3 months or so, pero bago yung time na yun, nag attempt din sya manligaw about 3 years prior to that, so matagal nya na kong gusto (ganda mo teh)

[ButHonestly]

Ligawan is just like Stop Dance -- a parlor game.

Mechanics?

Always put your best foot forward, dont be your real and actual self, or else you're out.

[akthung]

^ lol and a lot of girls say

"just be yourself"

hahaha


to their advantage....

hahaha

[FOURever]

^^i also believe on that. That's why yung mga nanliligaw madalas di ko napapansin.. Sometimes naman kasi boys cannot understand kapag sinabi ng girls na ayaw ng ligawan, iba iba interpretation. Yung iba iisipin agad, ayaw. Pero madalas persistent sila at matigas ulo, manliligaw pa din!

But di ko rin idedeny, na mas sweet talaga yung mga nanliligaw at may advantage ang girls kapag ligawan. Pero hindi ko ganon naeenjoy. Scripted kasi madalas, feel ko.

[sacred cow]

I don't believe in ligaw. For me, mas okay na ligawan ako pag kame na. Hehe.

ako rin

[jtansanco]

Hmmm... I've been waiting for a girl for 2 years already. Told her deadline is 2015. Haha

[sacred cow]

Hmmm... I've been waiting for a girl for 2 years already. Told her deadline is 2015. Haha

that's too long pare, I hope you're going out with other girls while nag-aabang ka sakanya. and although it sounds
good and sweet on paper that you're willing to wait for her for another 2 years, it just tells her that you don't
have other options, giving her a deadline is also a nail in the coffin that you won't see her nekkid

[FOURever]

^^that's so funny but be firm with your decision bro

[KittiEKittiE]

nakaka-TO yung tatanungin pa kung pwede manligaw. I just don't get it.

[angelzero]

pag gusto ka ng girl, 1 week lang ang ligawan. pag nag papakiramdaman pa siguro 1-2 months is long enough. ang hindi ko gets yung mga girls na nagpapaligaw ng 6 months or more. by then alam mo na kung bf-material o hinde yung guy diba. (given na clear yung intentions ng guy) mga Guytalkers na nakaexperience ng mahabang panliligaw, why do you think this is?

[sacred cow]

pag gusto ka ng girl, 1 week lang ang ligawan. pag nag papakiramdaman pa siguro 1-2 months is long enough. ang hindi ko gets yung mga girls na nagpapaligaw ng 6 months or more. by then alam mo na kung bf-material o hinde yung guy diba. (given na clear yung intentions ng guy) mga Guytalkers na nakaexperience ng mahabang panliligaw, why do you think this is?

culture kasi natin na magmumukhang easy to get ang babae kapag sinagot agad tsaka yung ibang
babae nageenjoy na nililigawan sila nung lalake ng matagal or siguro mahina lang talaga diskarte ni guy

[jtansanco]

that's too long pare, I hope you're going out with other girls while nag-aabang ka sakanya. and although it sounds
good and sweet on paper that you're willing to wait for her for another 2 years, it just tells her that you don't
have other options, giving her a deadline is also a nail in the coffin that you won't see her nekkid

Actually, hindi na siya primary option ko. May good times from the past kasi but she's just too immature right now. Parang nag-"deal" lang kami like you see in tv shows/movies na if wala pa rin kaming mahanap na significant other at a particular age, magiging "kami" nalang. Haha. I told her if by age 27, wala pa ko mahanap, siya nalang. Bahala na siya if she'll take it seriously. 

[sacred cow]

Actually, hindi na siya primary option ko. May good times from the past kasi but she's just too immature right now. Parang nag-"deal" lang kami like you see in tv shows/movies na if wala pa rin kaming mahanap na significant other at a particular age, magiging "kami" nalang. Haha. I told her if by age 27, wala pa ko mahanap, siya nalang. Bahala na siya if she'll take it seriously. 

ah ok, that's good

[Bastie]

pag gusto ka ng girl, 1 week lang ang ligawan. pag nag papakiramdaman pa siguro 1-2 months is long enough. ang hindi ko gets yung mga girls na nagpapaligaw ng 6 months or more. by then alam mo na kung bf-material o hinde yung guy diba. (given na clear yung intentions ng guy) mga Guytalkers na nakaexperience ng mahabang panliligaw, why do you think this is?

Ewan ko nga ba.. siguro yun ang payo ng parents ni misis na kelangan eh nakikita ako ng matagal tagal sa kanila.. obvious naman na malinis ang intention ko sa anak Nila..

[sweetpea blush]

@angelzero  regarding sa mga girls na nagpapaligaw ng 6 months or so, di kaya  may possibility na yung guy puro yaya lang, dadalhin ang girl sa kung san sang resto pero di nagsasalita and the girl would not really know his intention .. like this guy whom i went out with for almost a year or so pa nga... am not sure if he was just really bored kaya he keeps on asking me out or if he really likes me or not coz the first few months he was not that consistent... until siguro nadalas ang texting and calls and pag yaya probably after like 5-6 months pa of going out... OK, ako naman sumasama coz i just came from a very painful hearbreak, so he was in a way, a blessing na rin for me at that time and he was basically OK naman... until i met someone whom i really like na... nun lang sya nagtapat...