Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2)

[junepets]

^lol. panalo nga.
but yeah I agree...

this was just one of those days when I was having a discussion with my male friends..
lakas kasi mang asar.. manhid daw mga babae..

thanks Mr. Punch!

[carmilina]

^^ super agree!

 hays konti na lang talaga ang mga sensible guys sa mundo//

[sacred cow]

lol.. yun nga po...
pano naman magiging receptive yun girl kung di nya alam nagpaparamdam na pala si guy...

kung type niya si guy, she would naturally become receptive

[tough_guy]

sexting with your gf/bf...do you do this?

oo hahha

[jonielle]

sexting with your gf/bf...do you do this?

no sayang time and load

[bliss15]

kung type niya si guy, she would naturally become receptive

Hindi ba eto nga yung mahirap kasi if type ng girl yung guy baka naman over-receptive siya when
the guy is just being friendly?  Kaya maraming girls nacoconfuse if friends lang or more yung gusto ng guy eh.

[junepets]

^ tomoh.. mahirap maging 'assuming'

[jonielle]

^

hindi nyo ba talaga kaya ma detect if type kayo ng guy or hindi?

[sacred cow]

Hindi ba eto nga yung mahirap kasi if type ng girl yung guy baka naman over-receptive siya when
the guy is just being friendly?  Kaya maraming girls nacoconfuse if friends lang or more yung gusto ng guy eh.

well, isn't that part of the fun? minsan naman kasi kapag sigurado na yung babae na gusto siya ni guy.
biglang mawawala yung attraction niya for the guy...mahirap kapag alam ni babae that she already has the guy in the palm of her hands

[tough_guy]

minsan naman kasi kapag sigurado na yung babae na gusto siya ni guy.
biglang mawawala yung attraction niya for the guy...mahirap kapag alam ni babae that she already has the guy in the palm of her hands

madalas nga mangyari ito kaya minsan itatago mo nalang yung feelings mo eh kasi pag pinakita mong gusto mo si girl dedma nLang siya.

[mimiku]

Kung gustong gusto talaga yung girl siyempre maaapektuhan, siyempre ayaw din lang pa-obvious kasi ayaw kaawaan...pero maniwala ka, guys take it really hard too especially if may chemistry sila nung girl
and malinis talaga intention niya sa babae. kaya minsan nakikipagdate sa iba't ibang babae para maka get over...maybe that's what he did until he met his gf.

whether siya or yung gf niya nag-unfriend sa'yo, take it for what it is...a compliment na you really meant a lot to him, kaya mas mabuti nang hindi siya updated sa'yo para sa gf lang niya ang attention niya.

Hey, thank you so much for your insights. Much appreciated. I always thought men are insensitive creatures. I don't intend to make it sound negative but more of the idea that they tend to move on quicker than women and not vulnerable to any kind of rejection. I sort of envy you guys nga eh. Parang you don't get affected emotionally, you don't or rarely cry and parang parating ang strong niyo. If ever you do, you tend to go forward easily na parang wala lang. I guess, hindi ko pa nga masyadong kilala ang species niyo. 
Salamat ng marami.

[Myealexis21]

madalas nga mangyari ito kaya minsan itatago mo nalang yung feelings mo eh kasi pag pinakita mong gusto mo si girl dedma nLang siya.

baka naman nagpapakipot lang 

Hey, thank you so much for your insights. Much appreciated. I always though men are insentive creatures. I don't intend to make it sound negative but more of the idea that they tend to move on quicker than women and not vulnerable to any kind of rejection. I sort of envy you guys nga eh. Parang you don't get affected emotionally, You don't cry and parang parating ang strong niyo. If ever you do, you tend to go forward easily na parang wala lang. I guess, hindi ko pa nga masyadong kilala ang species niyo. 
Salamat ng marami.

I do have that notion din about men.  Or are they just better in acting & really good in hiding their true feelings?

[sacred cow]

baka naman nagpapakipot lang 

pwede or simply a case of "cat string theory" in action, disinterest promotes attraction or we pursue those that retreat from us

http://www.attractology.com/articles/inner-game/cat-string-theory/

[bliss15]

madalas nga mangyari ito kaya minsan itatago mo nalang yung feelings mo eh kasi pag pinakita mong gusto mo si girl dedma nLang siya.

ah interesting so mahilig rin pala sa mind games and pakipot mga guys.  Hindi kaya etong mixed signals na toh ang reason bakit nafrifriend zone ang guys? 

[sacred cow]

ah interesting so mahilig rin pala sa mind games and pakipot mga guys.  Hindi kaya etong mixed signals na toh ang reason bakit nafrifriend zone ang guys? 

you're half right kasi one of the main reasons a guy gets friendzoned is due to lack of intent...hindi kaagad siya nagpakita sa girl nang motibo niya and nagdelay ng nagdelay
waiting for the right time, when there's no such thing as the perfect timing, however kapag masyado naman niyang pinakita na patay na patay siya sa girl sa simula, the girl
would also get turned off kasi ang desperate ng dating niya. so para makaiwas sa friendzone is to not allow yourself to be treated like a ''friend'' in the first place while not showing all your cards din kaagad.
hindi rin talaga madali for us guys, kaya rin nakakainis kapag sinasabi ng mga babae na laging sila yung lugi or victim when it comes to matters of the heart.

[Myealexis21]

well, isn't that part of the fun? minsan naman kasi kapag sigurado na yung babae na gusto siya ni guy.
biglang mawawala yung attraction niya for the guy...mahirap kapag alam ni babae that she already has the guy in the palm of her hands

This goes both ways.  Kaya minsan dinededma ng girls sila kase kapag alam na ng guy na gusto na rin sya ni girl, nanlalamig na rin ang guy.  I am not saying all men are like this ha, its just most of the time ganyan ang nangyayari.

pwede or simply a case of "cat string theory" in action, disinterest promotes attraction or we pursue those that retreat from us

http://www.attractology.com/articles/inner-game/cat-string-theory/

Kaya maganda rin na nagpapakipot si girl sometimes.  Basta wag lang sobrahan baka naman mapagod si guy sa kakahabol eh mapagod na 

[tough_guy]

Kaya maganda rin na nagpapakipot si girl sometimes.  Basta wag lang sobrahan baka naman mapagod si guy sa kakahabol eh mapagod na 

sabi nila pakipot is usually just a "woman's pride"...just to show off that she is not easy. tama nga naman i strongly agree with this, this can be a good benefit for the ladies as it filters out the worthless men.
pero minsan kaming mga lalaki apektado dito, di namin alam tunog ng babae..

[sacred cow]

^yeah, tapos minsan sa pagpapakipot ng babae...the guy would rather find someone else rather than waste his time.
then maghahabol habol si babae at manghihinayang. I know that some girls would do it so that they wouldn't look easy or
to filter guys, but you also need to be realistic kasi baka mamaya niyan ikaw pa 'tong nawalan ng good catch.

better to lose your pride to someone you love, than lose someone you love with your useless pride.

[tough_guy]

^ i noticed to some girls if you visit them too often, they get bored. you don't visit them enough, they get pissed off. they play coy and hard to get, but when you leave them, they'll come running after you.

[bliss15]

you're half right kasi one of the main reasons a guy gets friendzoned is due to lack of intent...hindi kaagad siya nagpakita sa girl nang motibo niya and nagdelay ng nagdelay
waiting for the right time, when there's no such thing as the perfect timing, however kapag masyado naman niyang pinakita na patay na patay siya sa girl sa simula, the girl
would also get turned off kasi ang desperate ng dating niya. so para makaiwas sa friendzone is to not allow yourself to be treated like a ''friend'' in the first place while not showing all your cards din kaagad.
hindi rin talaga madali for us guys, kaya rin nakakainis kapag sinasabi ng mga babae na laging sila yung lugi or victim when it comes to matters of the heart.

I don't agree with this.  I don't think its the girls fault.  Kayo nagpapacomplicate sa sarili niyo. 
It's other your pursuing the girl or not.  Indecisiveness is a bad sign for us in the first place.
And, upon first meeting palang we categorize guys as friends and potential partners na eh.  Once we treat you as a friend, forever na yun.