Author Topic: Got questions regarding men? Post it here! (Thread 2) (Read 94552 times)

joeygirly · « **Reply #440 on:** July 22, 2013, 02:27:20 am »

yea, usually* I'll leave it to my genes, vitamin e and complete beauty sleep kung timeless pa din ako sa paningin ng magiging husband ko pag dating ng 40s.

dkbgutierrez · « **Reply #441 on:** July 22, 2013, 10:58:13 am »

Kapag nasa public transportation ka and you feel that the guy wants to talk to you pero nahihiya siya at medyo type mo rin, how do you break the ice?

jtansanco · « **Reply #442 on:** July 22, 2013, 11:02:48 am »

^ Hirap naman yan. Public transpo so lahat nakatingin sa inyo. Madali lang yan for girls. Ask the guy what time it is and SMILE. =)

ashley_afiah · « **Reply #443 on:** July 22, 2013, 11:07:16 am »

^ilang beses ko na naranasan yan kahit type ko guy wala ako pakialam suplada pa din ako nasa isip ko kase lage baka holdaper pa yun cute nga lang ahahha

sacred cow · « **Reply #444 on:** July 22, 2013, 11:27:46 am »

Quote from: dkbgutierrez on July 22, 2013, 10:58:13 am

Kapag nasa public transportation ka and you feel that the guy wants to talk to you pero nahihiya siya at medyo type mo rin, how do you break the ice?

1) Smile at him kapag nakita mong nakita ka niya, it should be motivation enough for him to approach

2) if wala pa rin, you could ask for directions na kunwari hindi alam/kabisado pupuntahan mo. if he's interested or has balls, he should be able to pick up that you're interested and continue the conversation.

ashley_afiah · « **Reply #445 on:** July 22, 2013, 11:59:08 am »

Pano malalaman kapag ang guy, friend lang ang tingin sayo or may gusto na pala sayo? kase yung isa ko coworker may nafifeel na ako kakaiba ang trato niya sakin pero ayaw ko siya tapatin sabihin assuming ako at diko siya papatulan nakakailang lang kase... lage niya ako binibiro pag break ko bigla ako sasabayan then lage niya kinukwento na mahilig siya sa mukang bata na maputi...tapos kwento siya ng problema niya sakin about sa wife niya, tapos isang beses parinig siya na uso na daw ngayon yung mag BF ay pareho may asawa na...ayaw ko kase mahulog loob niya sakin eh close kame sa office pero hanggang ganun lang yun

sacred cow · « **Reply #446 on:** July 22, 2013, 12:02:24 pm »

Quote from: ashley_afiah on July 22, 2013, 11:59:08 am

Pano malalaman kapag ang guy, friend lang ang tingin sayo or may gusto na pala sayo? kase yung isa ko coworker may nafifeel na ako kakaiba ang trato niya sakin pero ayaw ko siya tapatin sabihin assuming ako at diko siya papatulan nakakailang lang kase... lage niya ako binibiro pag break ko bigla ako sasabayan then lage niya kinukwento na mahilig siya sa mukang bata na maputi...tapos kwento siya ng problema niya sakin about sa wife niya, tapos isang beses parinig siya na uso na daw ngayon yung mag BF ay pareho may asawa na...ayaw ko kase mahulog loob niya sakin eh close kame sa office pero hanggang ganun lang yun

I guess he likes you already and nahulog na loob niya sa'yo, I believe it really doesn't matter kung may gusto siya o wala but since 'di mo siya papatulan..then wala naman siyang magagawa.
just ignore his advances and pretty soon magsasawa din yan

ashley_afiah · « **Reply #447 on:** July 22, 2013, 12:09:35 pm »

^Thank you sacred cow

jtansanco · « **Reply #448 on:** July 22, 2013, 12:11:56 pm »

^^^ May wife na pala e. Tell him directly that you're uncomfortable but that might ruin the friendship. Btw, are you married or not? Anyway, you can make stories that you had a great time with your husband/bf/imaginary bf/manliligaw. Kwento ka na you had a great dinner, may surprise na nangyari, bla bla bla. Make him feel that you're already seeing someone and you're happy with that "guy" and see how he'd react.

ashley_afiah · « **Reply #449 on:** July 22, 2013, 12:28:04 pm »

I am married at kilala niya hubby ko pero pag kame dalawa lang magkausap iba kilos niya pag kaharap hubby ko iba din, pag kame lang iba eye contact niya sakin then maalalahanin lage niya ako inaasikaso then nung teambuilding nakashorts ako lalo ako tinitigan at biniro biro, feeling ko gusto niya mahulog loob ko sa kanya. if i will tell him directly baka sabihin niya ganun lang talaga siya at assuming ako... pati tuloy sa team iniisip may gusto sakin yun sabi ko wag kayo ganyan...nakakailang kase talaga

jtansanco · « **Reply #450 on:** July 22, 2013, 12:39:36 pm »

^ Safe way, try to distance yourself from him. Hang around with fellow girl friends but don't totally disregard him. Just spend less time with him compared to before. At the end of the day, it's what you feel that is important and not him or what he thinks.

ashley_afiah · « **Reply #451 on:** July 22, 2013, 12:53:39 pm »

thank you jtansanco!

III · « **Reply #452 on:** July 22, 2013, 01:29:18 pm »

tama po, iwas iwas lang...minsan pag type ka talaga ng guy, consistent sila dapat lang maging decided ka din sa pag iwas in a nice way

jonielle · « **Reply #453 on:** July 22, 2013, 01:59:39 pm »

lubay lubayan mo na yan, kaming mga lalaki hindi maguubos ng oras kung di kami interesado sa isang bagay.

junepets · « **Reply #454 on:** July 23, 2013, 11:39:53 am »

what if yun friend ni girl said 'i love you' pero di naman nanliligaw.. he knew na may bf na si girl..
kasi daw 'sarap sabihin. wala pa ko mapagsabihan. atleast pwede sayo'...

need na ba umiwas ni girl kay boy?

jonielle · « **Reply #455 on:** July 23, 2013, 11:59:56 am »

^ na pick up line si koya ah.

brattgurl17 · « **Reply #456 on:** July 23, 2013, 12:33:45 pm »

pag tropa ni ex boyfriend yung guy, hindi ba talaga pwede maging kayo [textspeak!] ex girlfriend ka ng tropa nya?

sacred cow · « **Reply #457 on:** July 23, 2013, 01:29:02 pm »

^ generally speaking, as respect to his friend...a guy should not hook up with his friend's ex parang
sa girls din...parang unspoken rule na yun na respeto na lang kasi andami dami pa namang babae diyan
ba't kelangan yung ex pa. unless matagal nang over yung guy friend niya dun sa girl and napagusapan na nila
na ok lang, saka lang ok. pero personally, if I were the guy I wouldn't do it especially kung tropang parang kapatid
talaga unless willing ako ipagpalit yung babae over sa friendship namin. It would never be the same and would be so awkward for
the two guys

brattgurl17 · « **Reply #458 on:** July 23, 2013, 04:40:58 pm »

Quote from: sacred cow on July 23, 2013, 01:29:02 pm

^ generally speaking, as respect to his friend...a guy should not hook up with his friend's ex parang
sa girls din...parang unspoken rule na yun na respeto na lang kasi andami dami pa namang babae diyan
ba't kelangan yung ex pa. unless matagal nang over yung guy friend niya dun sa girl and napagusapan na nila
na ok lang, saka lang ok. pero personally, if I were the guy I wouldn't do it especially kung tropang parang kapatid
talaga unless willing ako ipagpalit yung babae over sa friendship namin. It would never be the same and would be so awkward for
the two guys

kahit pa na yung tropa niya ang nakipag hiwalay dun sa girl and wala he's already dating other girls?

sacred cow · « **Reply #459 on:** July 23, 2013, 04:49:13 pm »

Quote from: brattgurl17 on July 23, 2013, 04:40:58 pm

kahit pa na yung tropa niya ang nakipag hiwalay dun sa girl and wala he's already dating other girls?

even so, kasi there's a chance na magkita kita pa rin silang tatlo and things could get awkward.
kumusta naman yung ex tsaka si girl? nag-uusap pa ba sila, amicable naman ba yung breakup?

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