Approaching A Girl

[sakura_bloom]

How do guys approach a girl?
from the most obvious to the subtle ones?
Does the technique/approach differ in what kind girl or how she appears to be?
Would you approach a girl who's a total stranger, how and why would you do it?
Any ideal situations in which it would be feasible? Yung parang ah pwede ko itong i-approach?
Salamat!

[sacred cow]

How do guys approach a girl? from the most obvious to the subtle ones?

Lapit, usap, tell her that I want us to go out some time then get contact number

Does the technique/approach differ in what kind girl or how she appears to be?

yes, it's called calibration...your approach would depend on the situation and the kind of girl she is
(e.g. conservative, party girl)

Would you approach a girl who's a total stranger, how and why would you do it?

yes, because I think she's cute and I want to meet her. I would go up to her and initiate a conversation.

Direct approach: Tell her from the get go that I think she's cute/interesting/whatever and that I wanted to meet/talk to her tapos go on from there
Indirect approach: Start with asking for opinion or use a situational opener e.g. ask where starbucks is, or ask her opinion on something

Any ideal situations in which it would be feasible? Yung parang ah pwede ko itong i-approach?

there's no ideal situation on when and where you're going to approach a girl, any situation is ok as long as alam mo ginagawa mo, and not all girls respond the same way kaya approach pa rin 'coz rejection is better than regret. I guess the only time hindi pwede is if it's obvious that she's with her bf or husband (although minsan pwede pa rin) and kung obvious namang wala sa condition yung tao makipagkilala e.g. she's grieving over losing a loved one


90%+ of guys don't have a clue on how to approach girls that are not in their own social circle or a random cute girl in public. Sana mabago na rin ang culture natin 'coz I really feel sorry for a lot of guys who don't have balls to approach

[sacred cow]

check out this youtube channel

http://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup

[ragnar_danneskjold]

ako i flash my friendly smile. walang malisya. saka na. lol.

seriously, it eases tension within you especially if the girl is brieftakingly attractive. pag responsive naman, i'll consider starting a conversation.

but i only approach girls na pasado sa initial judgment or "thin slicing" hehe. i dig decent and respectable -looking women. nakikita naman sa damit, sa salita, sa lakas ng boses.

stranger? i did this once to a stranger officemate. she was damn hot and i noticed one day she looked upset. she had a migraine. i found an opening! haha. she was talking to my teammate and i offered to give her my meds. she gladly took it and then when i saw her next day sa pantry, i asked her how it went yesterday. ngayon, we're chatting and she even asked me recently to accompany her somewhere. i'm learning!!! lol. kaso, i'm really not into office affair. flirt flirt lang.


technique? make it fast, dapat hindi ka maunahan ng hiya. at laging handa dapat ang iyong mga conversation starters. hehe. take note of the environment then make a little comment, if she responds, then who knows... we could end up in church. or bed. lol.

situations? it could happen anywhere with very confident men around. kaso, wala masyado nga, sabi pa ni sacred_cow. i have to admit my confidence level sa women is maybe around 2 bars lang kung sa battery pa. it takes practice and results. pag walang results, bagsak lalo ang confidence.

girls, if you have brothers, offer them some help. help save the filipino men. lol.

[sacred cow]

^ uy may nagbasa rin pala ng "Blink" dito...I'm not yet done with the book

you're doing good bro, isipin mo na lang hindi lahat ng lalake may lakas ng loob gawin yung ginawa mo

[argento]

its not easy to approach a girl.

[sacred cow]

its not easy to approach a girl.

yup, that's why kelangan magpractice...kahit naman matagal nang nag-aapproach you'd still
get "approach anxiety" or ''b!tch butterflies'' in your stomach. you'd just need to get used to it and
still approach kahit nakakaramdam ka nito. and think of it as having fun and don't be outcome dependent
what's important is to learn and get used to the process

[junepets]

wow.. nice topic...
all the while akala ko madali lang sa guyz mag approach sa girl..
kaya pag may kaibigan akong nang hihingi advise.. tataka ako bakit di makadiskarte sa gusto nila..

now i know..
thanks.. may maitutulong din ako sa kaibigan ko..