Message/s or piece/s of wisdom for engaged couples

[AnJelatine]

READ FASCINATING WOMANHOOD by HELEN ANDELIN

[aspen11]

Hi mga sis! I have been married for eight years and here's what I've learned:

- Do not expect to change the person that you are marrying.
- Laugh problems away. Maintain a positive outlook. You will be together for many years and marami kayong problemang pagdadaanan, wag masyado seryosohin and problema.
- Be each other's support system.
- Problems at work remain at work.
- Be his wife and his mistress para di na maghanap ng iba.
- During a fight, do not say something you might regret later on.
- Acknowledge and praise the good things. Kadalasan kasi mas napapansin natin yung ayaw natin sa kanila.
- Be independent. I earn my own money kasi ayoko talaga nanghihingi sa husband ko ng pang-gastos ko.
- Past is past.
- Give him his "me time" with this friends. Pag pinaghihigpitan kasi, dun nagsisimulang magsinungaling.
- Open communication.
- Pray together! Minsan kasi dun mo lang marerealize how blessed you both are.

I am also still learning from this thread. Nakakatuwang basahin ang messages of advice ninyong lahat. 

[notyourordinarygal]

thanks for sharing girls! i need these

[meki]

wow, this one i have to really take note of. maraming salamat sis for this affirmation.

kakabisita lang ulit dahil naging busy. you're welcome sis.