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NeilRudecat

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #560 on: May 29, 2017, 09:54:00 am »
Hi iam_m,

Well, I am emphasizing on fantasy and masturbation as being normal during the stages of our development as human beings.  Sorry ha, I have no intention of saying the opposite when we are beyond the expected age.

Fixation ang mas tawag doon, kapag lumagpas ka na sa age na sinasabing dumaraan tayo sa stages ng sexual fantasy at masturbation.  Ibig lang sabihin eh mas prefer mo na magstay muna doon sa stage na yun at hindi muna nag-move on.

May paglalagyan ang sexual urges natin.  Iniipon yun, sinasarili, kinikilala ng husto ang sarili hanggang sa dumating na ang tamang panahon kung kailan ibabahagi natin iyon sa taong makakapiling at makakasalo natin sa lahat ng bagay...habang buhay...sa pinili natin na magiging asawa natin.  ;D

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To become psychosexually mature, a person must pass through a series of stages and phases, each comprising developmental tasks that are normal and natural. Each stage must be learned and successfully completed before progression to the next step is possible. In the face of these developmental tasks people have three choices: to progress through these stages at the appropriate time; to progress in a stunned, delayed fashion; or to fixate at a particular step and not progress beyond it.

Adolescence Stage

Adolescence is characterized by profound biological, psychological, and social developmental changes. It is considered to be one of the stormiest times in the life cycle. It is commonly divided into three periods: early (ages 11 to 14), middle (ages 14 to 17), and late (ages 17 to 20).....

With the emergence of secondary sex characteristics, a powerful new energy becomes present in the adolescent?s body. They naturally explore their sexuality.  In early adolescence, the random, generally disconnected sexual thoughts and feelings of childhood begin to weave themselves into thematic fantasies. In these fantasies, adolescents imagine themselves to be in sexual and romantic situations with real or imagined people. These fantasies enable the adolescents to integrate emotions and intellect with genital sexuality and lead them towards socially oriented sexuality. Many boys will experience their first nocturnal emission in early adolescence. This experience may be confusing or pleasurable and may include sexual fantasies.

Middle adolescence is a time of being highly distracted and absorbed by sexuality and sexually related physical changes. They masturbate with more frequency and intensity than any other phase. They are preoccupied with sex-related issues, such as sexually oriented books, magazines or T.V. programs, and with clothes, music, dates, and dances. Homosexual experiences, usually transient, may also occur in middle adolescence. Many adolescents need reassurance about the normality of an isolated homosexual experience and confirmation that it does not indicate a permanent homosexual orientation.[8] During late adolescence, boys and girls spend increasingly more time together and sometimes even engage in sexual acts like kissing, petting etc. Sexual relating during this phase is primarily experimental, self-centered, and mixed with other needs and emotions. They need education and guidance to integrate their sexuality into celibate way of life.

Psycho-Sexual Development
(based on the studies of Michael E. Cavanagh)
http://www.claretianformation.com/psycho-sexual-development/

I believe hindi na normal kung hindi na 13 to 20 years old, lagpas na...nagpapantasya pa. -
^ sir meaning abnormality na pag nag masturbate ang 21 years old up?
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iam_me

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #561 on: May 29, 2017, 10:04:52 am »
^thanks sa reply, but may mga may asawa/partner na ang nag sasarili pa rin .

OT:  may times kasi na parang masarap i pleasure ang sarili  ;)

NeilRudecat

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #562 on: May 29, 2017, 10:20:51 am »
@iam_me

Hahaha, siguro bumabalik pa rin kasi sa "first love"

Ang "first love" nating lahat ay ang sarili natin eh.  Alam natin kung paaano natin ipi-please ang sarili natin.  Well, napaka-ideal sana kung maise-share natin kung paano gawin yun sa asawa o magiging asawa.

privykamote

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #563 on: May 31, 2017, 09:46:24 pm »
I tried to masterbate kaso parang nakukulangan ako parang may hinahanap pa ko. I'm still virgin though.  natuto nalang ako mag masturbate recently when my ex f*nger me (oral lang ginawa namin)

luntian.hijau

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #564 on: June 01, 2017, 05:43:22 pm »
^ have you tried playing with your cl*t? baka yun ang sensation na hinahanap mo? minsan walang kwenta rin kasi ang pag-finger mag-isa. hehe.

privykamote

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #565 on: June 01, 2017, 06:40:57 pm »
^ have you tried playing with your cl*t? baka yun ang sensation na hinahanap mo? minsan walang kwenta rin kasi ang pag-finger mag-isa. hehe.

I did pero bitin,  iba nga pakiramdam pag may gumagawa para sayo haha

NeilRudecat

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #566 on: June 01, 2017, 07:34:39 pm »
Hi privykamote,

Kailangan relax ka lang...take your time, 

Hindi totoo yung nasa porn na mabilis na naa-arouse,  Ang porn, madalas, ginawa para sa lalaki kaya binibilisan at hindi na makatotohanan.

Be sure na nai-lock mo ang door para may privacy ka.  The best position is when you are lying in bed.   Massage mo lang gently sa hairy upper part.  Pag nagsisimula pa lang, pwede i-tease touch ang clit.  Feel the warmth of your hand and your fingers.  I-trace mo ng tips ng fingers mo ang mga outer parts, especially the outer lips. 

Ako, gusto kong ginagawa iyon sa ex ko noon.  Ifi-feel ko pa ng side ng hand ko yung warmth ng labia,  Inilalagay ko ang palad ko sa singit at gently kong niru-rub ng side ng hand ko.  Then ang buong palad ko ilalapat ko at slowly na ipe-press habang nagsi-circular massage. 

Gusto ko na ma-stimulate ang natural wetness.  Kung mag-finger...dapat mababaw lang,  ibabaon ng konti ang middle finger at ikakawit para ma press ang G-Spot (nasa ilalim ng clit).

Mapagsasabay ang pag-press sa clit kung napatong ang heel ng hand dito at pagstimulate sa G-spot kapag nakapasok halfway ang middle finger.

Mas sensitive and clitoris ng babae...mas nasistimulate lang ito sa masturbation...hindi masyado sa sex.

"...the clitoris. With its eight thousand nerve endings (twice as many as the penis), enviable ability to produce multiple orgasms ...and no known purpose other than pleasure,"

-- Dr. Ian Kerner, from the book, She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

iam_me

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #567 on: June 07, 2017, 11:28:05 am »
^korekek neil  ;)

dapat concentrate ka lang , ikaw naman nakakaalam kung ano makaka arouse sayo so isipin mo lang yun   :)

NeilRudecat

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #568 on: June 08, 2017, 05:00:49 am »
Hi iam_me

Oo, self massage and stimulation.  Eh kung pwede lang nga sana maging helpful at mag-assist eh hahaha. 

iam_me

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #569 on: June 08, 2017, 07:12:34 am »
hi sir neil  :)

hahaha "me" time nga yun bakit may mag help at assist  ;D

NeilRudecat

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #570 on: June 08, 2017, 01:01:06 pm »
@iam_me

Matulungin lang hehe...supportive lang sa "me" time

badw33d

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #571 on: June 08, 2017, 01:44:19 pm »
And not everyone is into FUBU. May kilala ako na 27-year old guy. Mas prefer nya mag-jakol. I asked him why and he said, "I don't just f**k random people?" Eh ang gwapo naman nya?

now that's a conversation  ;D ;D ;D ;D

privykamote

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #572 on: June 08, 2017, 10:05:55 pm »
Kelangan ko nga mag concentrate minsan pag di relax nagiging frustration  :-\

kvandenhaak

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #573 on: June 08, 2017, 10:24:40 pm »
^Why?

badw33d

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #574 on: June 09, 2017, 08:14:14 am »
^coz half of women gets curious about "I don't just f**k random people?" thats a shot he took. didn't work on you, should work on the next girl  ;D

kvandenhaak

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #575 on: June 09, 2017, 11:12:41 am »
^I don't understand what that means...LOL!

mysterioza_me

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #576 on: June 09, 2017, 12:03:26 pm »
^Akala ko ako lang ang hindi nakaintindi.

^^Can you please elaborate po. Mula nung mabasa ko ito last night binabalik-balikan ko na e. Pinipilit ko intindihin pero bigo ako.

dismembered

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #577 on: June 09, 2017, 03:06:44 pm »
^ Magandang pickup line kasi yung sentence na yun to get women interested and amused. Gets?

privykamote

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #578 on: June 09, 2017, 06:13:55 pm »
^Why?


Coz when I tried to masturbate seems like may kulang

badw33d

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Re: Masturbation (Thread 2)
« Reply #579 on: June 09, 2017, 07:36:12 pm »
^ Magandang pickup line kasi yung sentence na yun to get women interested and amused. Gets?

bingo  ;D ;D

^Akala ko ako lang ang hindi nakaintindi.

^^Can you please elaborate po. Mula nung mabasa ko ito last night binabalik-balikan ko na e. Pinipilit ko intindihin pero bigo ako.

conversation starter. the more you ask him why, the more you two will have communication


 

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