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nahanap mo na ba yun sis? lol
unfortunately, yes!. and kapag papalarin ka nga naman, pag nagseryoso ka na, siyempre sa player pa. napansin ko lang. kasi i've had relationships and pseudo thingies that have spanned years din. and at the time, i've always just thought, i'd do my own thing kasi i'm usually very busy with work, then i'll make time and we'd go here and there, dinner, dates, talk. the things couples do, ika nga. then all of a sudden, baka dala na rin ng maturity (early 30s) or ewan ko talaga kung anong nangyari, it baffles me no end, for the first time i thought i'd stop just doing my own thing, instead i'll think of the two of us and we'll spend time and travel and explore and do things together, not just because it's a "couple thing" but because it'd help us grow and learn together. i mean, i was at the point na iniisip ko na yung finances namin, kung ang trabaho ba namin is stable enough, grad school, joint hobbies, what if i have to work overseas, etc. it's like all of a sudden i'm no longer just traveling alone, figuratively, and i've to think of someone else making this journey with me. yung metaphor ko kasi ng life is a long journey. so ayun. i'm doing a post mortem of our brief affair. because of course it didn't work out.
sis Kwang sun at sa mga other sis here - ganitong ganito rin ako. I've met nice guys in my life naman na pang boyfriend material talaga pero hindi talaga umaabot sa final stage of commitment. Naprepressure ako and I always ending up letting go of those nice guys and choose the wrong ones. I guess hindi parin siguro ako nakakahanap ng katapat ko, pero siguro rin I have other priorities rin na I'm already in a pressured situations like family obligations and work, kaya siguro when it comes to love life ayaw ko ng problemahin muna. Pero siempre minsan naiisip ko I need to cross over this issue rin or else I'll never have a happy relationship with someone. You are not alone sis!
sis kwang sun, there is nothing wrong in holding back. especially naglipana ang mga bolero at manloloko. Sabi nga nila, it will come, makakahanap ka talaga ng katapat mo and that would be the time na mabubuksan ang puso mo. Pero kelangan lagi isipin nang mabuti - is he worth it. If yes, then go for it.
Feeling ko meron ako nito? . Whenever I think na parang nagiging serious na yung guy sa akin natatakot ako..naghohold back ako. Ok naman yung mga nanliligaw sa akin kaso tuwing feeling ko na nagiging serious na natatakot ako na parang nag-a-automatic shutdown yung emotions ko tapos di ko na sila kinakausap ganun. haaai paano ba to? help? Have you experienced na tulad nito?
