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clairedelune08

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #240 on: February 26, 2014, 06:14:49 pm »
8 months na kami ng girlfriend ko. Honestly, this is my first relationship ever. Never akong nagka relasyon sa guy. And it is also the first time I got attracted and fell in love with a girl. Medyo complicated kung pano kami nagka developan pero ang masasabi ko lang, masaya kami ngayon. Parang mag best friends lang dating namin in public. Kaming dalawa lang kasi ang may alam na kami eh. Talagang nagiging hopeful ako pag nakikita kong marami din palang mga girl-girl relationships. Pareho talaga kaming girl. Nagka inlab-an lang talaga. :D

Hello! Glad I found this thread :) I was in a g2g relationship before, 10 years ago. We lasted almost 4 years but broke up din. Akala ko that was it, but just last year, I met someone, well officemate ko sya. I found it weird at first when I felt attracted to her - akala ko kase first and last ko na yung ex ko. Apparently, hindi pala hehe. We started going out pero haay, sobrang complicated yung situation namin. So now, yes, we're still seeing each other but I don't know if this will last. Nakakalungkot lang sometimes kaya happy ako that I found this thread - haven't started backreading yet but I will. Excited ako malaman mga kwento nyo :)

In what ways nagiging complicated yung status ninyo sis? Ganyan din kami minsan, yung root ng away is because patago kami eh. Medyo mahirap. :(

TropSouBre

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #241 on: March 14, 2014, 07:58:47 pm »
Hi All,


Meron din palang G2G dito.  ;)


Kamusta ang mga kababaihan dito?  ;)

hot_shot

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #242 on: March 16, 2014, 10:03:02 pm »
^^sis clairedelune08: Complicated because when we first started going out, she was dating someone else. It lasted for a month until I told her we need to stop seeing each other until she's figured things out. Anyway, she stopped seeing the other girl pero ang weird lang kase they still talk and hang out sometimes. Di daw kase nya basta-basta maiwan na lang ng ganon yung isa. So yes, now we still go out pero labong-labo nako sa situation namin. Lagi pa kami magka-away kase we started na magulo kami. Ewan ko, sometimes I ask myself if it's even worth it :(

My first ex ganyan din kami, patago although some of our friends knew. My family didn't though kaya yes, it was a source of away din for us. Pero we lasted 4 years so kaya nyo yan :)

clairedelune08

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #243 on: March 18, 2014, 10:54:31 am »
Awww. Ano na ba status niyo ngayon sis? Kayo na ba? Kasi pag kayo na, dapat bawal na din siyang mag hang out man lang sa ibang girls especially pag nagka romantic feelings siya dun. Malalaman mo din naman kung friends lang or something more yung turing niya sa iba diba? Sakin nga, kahit mga girl friends niya lang yung kasama niya, nag seselos pa rin ako. :( Haha. But you really need to talk it out with each other sis.

Thank you sis. But we're really happy right now. Minsan, pumupunta ako sa bahay nila, then I would also hang out with her fam. Ang alam lang talaga nila pinakamatalik niya akong kaibigan kaya palagi akong andun. I guess we have to enjoy the moment na lang muna before anybody else knows. :)

10don

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #244 on: March 24, 2014, 09:31:36 am »
trying to move on.

clairedelune08

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #245 on: March 27, 2014, 05:41:22 pm »
trying to move on.

Good luck sis. I occupy mo self mo sa mga interests mo. :)

k_fine

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #246 on: March 27, 2014, 06:31:22 pm »
This has always been my fantasy. Hindi lang talaga siguro ako for this kind of relationship because i'm now married.

BicuriousGm

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #247 on: April 04, 2014, 01:14:49 pm »
Hi Sis Blog Blog! Isa na ako double...din ako single and tapos na ko masenstensyahan last month. So far happy naman ako kahit na din natupad ang "fantasy" ( Pahiram ng "fantasy" word sis k_fine) ko about g2g relationship. Pwede naman ako mag paka serious sis blog blog basta di naman selosa yan pakilala mo at alam na status ko. Hahaha joke baka mute ako dito. Joke lang yun!

djgotus

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #248 on: April 15, 2014, 08:49:32 am »
^^sis clairedelune08: Complicated because when we first started going out, she was dating someone else. It lasted for a month until I told her we need to stop seeing each other until she's figured things out. Anyway, she stopped seeing the other girl pero ang weird lang kase they still talk and hang out sometimes. Di daw kase nya basta-basta maiwan na lang ng ganon yung isa. So yes, now we still go out pero labong-labo nako sa situation namin. Lagi pa kami magka-away kase we started na magulo kami. Ewan ko, sometimes I ask myself if it's even worth it :(

My first ex ganyan din kami, patago although some of our friends knew. My family didn't though kaya yes, it was a source of away din for us. Pero we lasted 4 years so kaya nyo yan :)
complicated nga,, hirap yan,, if i were u liwanagin mo
hanggat maaga kesa sa huli pag magkaguluhan,,

wew muzta nah mga girls?
it's been awhile,, dme na ntin dito  ;D
hws everyone?
welcome sa mga bagong kababaihan :-*

i ended my relationship already,, well we both
ended it up,, cnt force myself,, hirap magpretend
na mahal ko pero hindi naman,, kesa dayain
ko sarili ko saka sya it's better na friends kami,,
good thing is maayos paghihiwalay namin,,
walang messy fights,, good job for me,, ehe
kasi nagmamature na ako,,

so now im single na din ::)

i will try to make myself happy and mag improve
im not getting any younger,, we are no longer
kids na dapat naglalaro when in comes
to relationship,,

yeah, i cant believe with what im saying  ::)
galing yan sa heart ko,, ;D

part of me is sad,, syempre who dont want a
a partner,, pero hirap e,, hirap manloko,,

so no ulitin ko ulet single ako,, ;D ;D
pero im ok to be single muna,, time for myself

pero,, hi clumsish bago ko makalimutan,, ehe
hindi ka na napapadaan,, sana ayos ka lang,,
dont worry if ever mabasa mo ito,, hindi
na ako makulet,, ehe

ingat mga sis,, post lang

trizh

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #249 on: April 18, 2014, 08:52:30 am »
Hello everyone! Still on g2g rel. 2 years mahigit na kami. And currently, medyo nasasawa na ako. Maybe because of our setup. And yung effort niya nawawala na rin. I don't know how to keep the love burning lalo na kung ako na lang ang nageeffort.

10don

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #250 on: April 19, 2014, 04:21:37 am »
ano pala ang set up nyo trizh? di kayo out?

payroll_lady

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #251 on: April 19, 2014, 05:22:18 am »
nice may ganto plang thread.

anyway i am on g2g relationship for 5 years. sometimes i wonder kung what if i was with a guy, will i also get married? have kids? pero pag nakikita ko kung pano yung mga guys mag "act" single sa office though they are not, hehe never mind. yun lang.  ;)

trizh

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #252 on: April 21, 2014, 10:47:28 pm »
hi 10don. hindi pa kami legal sa family ko so mas madalas ako yung nagpupunta sa kanila. feeling ko tuloy ako na lang lagi. naghahanap din kasi ako ng pageeffort man lang from her. kasi kung hindi ako pupunta sa kanila, hindi na kami talaga magkikita.

patric

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #253 on: April 29, 2014, 06:19:20 pm »
Hello ladies, I'm new here, glad to have found this thread.  Very interesting topic.  I'm single and looking for someone to talk to...

clairedelune08

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #254 on: May 13, 2014, 04:59:08 pm »
^Exactly sis. Yan ang gusto ko sa relationship na to. Kasi makaka relate kami pareho sa halos lahat ng bagay. Sabay pa kaming nag sho-shopping and all. Kasi kung sa guy, parang di mo masyado ma relate sa halos lahat. Mas kumportable ako sa ganitong relasyon. And okay lang maging medyo sweet sa public like pa hug2x and pa kiss2x sa cheeks kasi normal lang naman yun sa girls. Hihi.

tenshi26

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #255 on: June 04, 2014, 02:24:15 pm »
Hi,

How is everyone doing? You might be very busy like me. Well, that's fine, I hope this thread will be  active again soon 'cause I'm willing to be too. I posted here last January, it was about me and my gf and up to now we're still together. I even moved out to her place recently as we are 5 hours away from each other before. Katulad sa ibang relationship ours is not perfect too, we have fights and starting to discover each ones' flaws.

I've got some issues with her. It's about her personality, she's demanding and bossy. Palagi siyang ng-uutos, from simple things na alam kung kaya naman niyang gawin. For example kahit medyo malapit lang sa kanya ang isang bagay inuutusan niya parin ako na i-abot sa kanya yun. Even she knows that I'm working (I'm a home-based online freelancer) nang-uutos pa rin siya. Meron kaming conflicts when it comes with personalities.

Ako kasi 'yung tipong kung kaya ko naman gawing mag-isa is gagawin ko nalang at hindi na i-aasa sa iba kahit na I grew up with yaya and medyo angat sa buhay. She's just like a guest on our apartment,  sa akin palagi hinahanap ang mga personal niyang gamit, I feel like I'm her personal assistant or yaya. And what worse is I really feel inferiority every time she do these things to me. I don't know why. Sometimes, I jokingly told her na ginagawa niya lang akong katulong. Nagagalit din ako sometimes at nagdadabog. Minsan, I really told her frankly that she's too demanding kaya siguro lately napapansin ko sa kanya di na siya masyadong nag uutos.

I think the issue is really on myself pero I'm not sure pa, my problem is I really feel that I am inferior to her every time na nag dedemand siya akin though hindi ko naman gusto na may superiority when it comes with our relationship, gusto ko lang is Fair. In my whole life, ngayon lang ako naka encounter ng ganitong personality. She possessed a strong personality. Have you experienced like this too? Have you met someone like this? How would you deal with this type of personality? Any replies from you girls would be very appreciated.

P.S.

As the days goes by, I found out that we have lot of differences and we're completely opposite to almost all of the things. Next post ko is I'm going to share yung last namin na pag-aaway na minura niya ako in front of her pamangkin just over a little issue.

And I'm looking forward that we can also talk about money and expenses in regards to this type of relationship.  ;) ;) ;)

Thanks very much..  :)

Ms. Freelancer

yourCONSCIENCE

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #256 on: June 10, 2014, 06:41:45 am »
Hi Ms. Freelancer/tenshi26

Ramdam kita dito. Yung girlfriend ko naman nag uutos din. Nung bago palang kami magkasama sa bahay. Ganyan ang nangyayari. Nag uutos din siya and all. Bale, isang anak kasi to. Kausapin mo siya at sabihin mo sa kanya yung ayaw mo na ginagawa mo sa kanya, mabuti at napag usapan niyo rin pero minsan, i remind mo siya na hindi palaging ganoon. Baka rin lambing niya yun sa iyo or what not.

Sa sarili mo, make sure na alam mo ang worth mo. Kung sa palagay mo na yung kauutos niya eh wala ng respeto na kahit napaka lapit lang eh hindi pa niya ma abot para sa sarili niya... kausapin mo pa rin siya at sabihin mo yung nararamdam mo kapag ginawa pa niya ulit.

Make sure na open kayo sa lahat ng nararamdaman ninyo kahit na against pa sa kanya. Ang importante malaman niya, at siguradong magbabago siya. Try your best na sabihin yun ng palambing kahit ikaw na yung palaging inuutusan. Kasi ganyan talaga pag magkasama na kayo sa bahay eh. Lahat ng flaw ng bawat isa makikita mo na, pati mga nakakainis na mga ugali talagang lalabas at di maiiwasan. Minsan we are not in our best din pero iniintindi din nila tayo at nandiyan pa rin sila for us.

Pasensiya lang girl. Ganyan talaga. But please make sure that you know your worth. It is not always about getting even. Madadaan lahat sa usapan.

pumpkin13

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #257 on: June 19, 2014, 05:57:13 am »
I used to be active in this thread. Dito ko nagshare ng confusion ko until naging kami na. First time namin pareho sa ganitong relationship. Third year na namin together sa November. Parang kelan lang, humihingi pa ko ng advice sa mga sisses dito. Hehe.

clairedelune08

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #258 on: June 26, 2014, 07:05:44 am »
Naka 1 year na kami. And hopefully... counting. Pero sa totoo lang, parang forever ko na siya. Hihi. How about you guys? Have you ever thought about the future with your partner?

pumpkin13

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Re: Girl to Girl Relationships Part V :)
« Reply #259 on: June 27, 2014, 03:33:23 am »
^Ako naman sis, hindi ko alam ang future, pero hindi ko din naman nakikita na magbbreak kami. So baka nga forever na... sana. :)

 

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