Single and separated moms, will you let your child know her dad?

[lesters_gal]

^ako sis i grew up without a dad. As in i don't even know how he looks like. My parents separated when i was a baby palang. Growing up i never ask my mom kung sino ba ang dad ko, or asan sha ngayon etc. I only know his name because my aunties were telling me na his name.  I don't know kung weird lang pero hindi ko talaga na feel na meron kulang sa akin or yung wants na makita or makilala man lang siya. Di ba yung ibang kids they look for their dad. Ako never talaga. My mom even offer if i want to meet him. Sabi ko for what? I'm not angry with him pero wala talaga ako nararamdaman na anything sa kanya. So it doesn't matter anymore to me.

[sassysazha]

What if the ex/daddy wanted to abort his son? Yun kasi case saken. My son is now 9 yrs old and never nya pa nakita daddy nya. When I got pregnant my ex wanted me to abort the baby and I refused that's why nagvanish in the air act na sya. When I texted his mom (who knew that I was pregnant) sabi saken if I had told them sooner na buntis ako they might even help with the abortion. 

After that never na kami nag-usap. Di ko nilagay yung name nya sa birth certificate as in NA ang nakalagay sa father's name. We have our own families now (nalaman ko through mutual friend) and bnlock ko sya sa FB para wala syang makita na pictures ng son ko. Alam ng son ko na my husband now is not his real father and siguro dahil iba last name nya (mine). Never nya pa naman hinanap totoong father nya pero ngayon pa lang di ko alam sasabihin at gagawin ko pag dumating na yung time na magtatanong na sya. Me and my husband have plans of him adopting my son para sa kanya na din nakapangalan.

[cupcakencheese]

Para sa opinion ko yes pag wala naman masama. Pero pag may ibang family yun tatay na nauna parang hindi rin maganda sa morale ng bata to know that product siya ng isang kasalanan na affair. Nakaka baba ng reputation.
It hard minsan to accept rhe facts pero minsan kailangan din angga real facts para maging gabay ng isang tao papuntang magandang kinabukasan