Is it normal for guys to be all so manyak pag magkakasama sila?

[nessacosme]

I have this thing about my boyfriend's friends/officemates. since puro boys sila sa office, sa account nila, they have this group sa facebook na puro kabastusan ang mga nakapost and recently, they have contests pa sa mga girls sa floor nila..tipong botohan, paramihan ng likes..
what bothers me is ang babastos na nga ng words nila, tapos etong boyfriend ko, isa sa mga binbida ng mga kaofficemates niya..

may mga prizes pa sila.. toblerone, cash and kiss daw.. the last one would probably be a joke lang, pero.. nabobother kasi ako na ganon sila mag-act, knowing that some of them have families already..

normal ba yun sa mga lalake? am i just over-reacting? its not that i dont trust my boyfriend pero dun nagsisimula ang temptations.. dun ako nagwoworry.

hope someone could help..
thanks!

[graezieylicious]

I think so. Boys will be boys..sort of their playtime

[lawrence01]

Yeah definitely normal yan. sana lang yun kamanyakan hindi naman bulgar tipong yun dumadaan na girl alam nya pinagnanasahan sya. something like that hehe. about temptations depende, nasa control ng tao yan manyak or hindi

[jaymejorrol]

hindi lahat.. depende sa grupo ng boys.. hahaha!! pero majority OO.. and sometimes may matitino naman, nau-udyok lang ng ibang kasama.. kaya napapagaya narin.. pero dapat keep in mind na lagyan ng limit ang pagiging manyak.. haha! baka kung san pa mapunta eh.. baka magingserious na ang mga ginagawa nila sa sobrang tukso..

[sacred cow]

Short answer: OO

It's healthy and normal, bonding time 'to ng boys and get laughs over it

How timely, I just shared a scandal in our own fb group and now we're talking about it. too bad nadelete na...
batang bata sana yung babae sa vid....nyahahaha

[j.adore]

It is normal. If they behave when there's another woman around, it means it's just for fun since they are still aware na no-no para sa matinong babae ang kamanyakan.
Kung tinutuloy pa din nila kahit may babae pero monitored ang words, ibig sabihin yung babae ay tinuturing nilang kaibigan na maiintindihan ang kamanyakan nila.
Kung bulgaran regardless of which woman is around them, that's already alarming.

[aquacharly]

IMO:  but of course, yes!
Milder manifesetation lang yan of the saying:  Birds of the same feather f*ck together... Este, sabi ata ng lola ko: flock together.
    (IMO, same same same  hehe)
They're just being boys.  The difference, na reveal to the general female population thru fB (yun ba gamit? FB? )

[jaymejorrol]

IMO:  but of course, yes!
Milder manifesetation lang yan of the saying:  Birds of the same feather f*ck together... Este, sabi ata ng lola ko: flock together.
    (IMO, same same same  hehe)
They're just being boys.  The difference, na reveal to the general female population thru fB (yun ba gamit? FB? )

'Birds of the same feather f*ck together' hahaha!! orgy? hehe choz! yung about sa fb.. siguro mejo delikado dun.. web based kasi yun.. worldwide ang peg nun.. but if its only in a group, be sure na secured talaga and closed group kayo.. para kayo-kayo lang makaka-access..

and like i said, bigyan ng limit yung pagiging manyak.. baka nagiging serious na yung actions.. hindi na macontrol..

[brendzy]

depende sa mga guys. pero kadalasan ganyang nga. so long na di sya mambabae...but of course, that habit may lead into something. Just my thoughts.

[jaymejorrol]

^ nako.. madalas talaga yan.. lalo na pag kasama mo mga udyok-monyo.. matutukso ka talaga gumawa ng kung ano-ano.. yung dating patingin-tingin mo lang baka maging serious actions na talaga.. alam mo naman ang tukwo.. ako hanggang imagination lang pagiging manyak ko eh.. haha!
good imagination + cr = solve! if you know what i mean.. that's how i deal with temptation..

[TuscanSun]

not normal but common. i wonder how they would react if it is their sister who is the topic. KJ mode.

[jaymejorrol]

^ yung tipong sister nya pala yung pinagpa-pantasyahan ng tropa.. talo-talo na ata yan.. nasobrahan na sa kamanyakan pati kapatid ng tropa tinatalo na.. tsk tsk.. bad move.. laglagan yan

[NickSparks]

I think so. Boys will be boys..sort of their playtime

yes

[mmiiccss]

Manyak talaga magkwentuhan mga lalake

[timetraveller]

Yung boyfriend ko akala ko ang tino tino, ang bait bait... yun pala nakikipagkwentuhan din ng bastos sa tropa nya. Haayyy. Tapos one time nahuli ko na they were talking about this girl, na parang gusto nila ikama mga ganon. Sometimes I feel cheated on pag ganun eh 

Minsan nga, I want to ask him, paano kung ako naman ang pinagkkwentuhan ng ganon ng ibang group of guys. He wouldn't want that of course, may mapatingin nga lang sa legs ko pag naka-shorts ako umiinit na ulo nya eh.  pero diba, kung ayaw nya ng ginaganun ako, dapat hindi rin sila nanggaganun ng mga tropa nya ng ibang girls?

[anon]

^its a herd mentality thingy. Kahit gano pa ka tino or bait BF mo, basta kasama na mga menyek, mahahawa yan

[quinone]

Is it normal for guys to be all so manyak pag magkakasama sila?
-Not all the time syempre, pero YES.

in my opinion kasi hindi naman dapat nating girls pinakeke-alaman ang mga usapang lalaki, pati facebook at cellphone rin. ma-syado nating binibigyan ng meaning lahat ng bagay na ginagawa ng guys e wala naman yun. as in walang kwenta at ibig sabihin para sa kanila, ganun lang sila talaga. ang nangyayari nagkaka-issue lang sa relationship when hindi naman dapat.

in the first place, kung lahat ng babae iti-treat ng bf o hubby natin na parang tayo, magseselos naman tayo. the most we can do is iwasan maging kabastos-bastos sa paningnin ng ibang guys, para hindi tayo maging topic ng maniac usapan nila.

[chichi143]

I think it is.
I have a lot of male friends and they do this all the time.
There was someone in the office, not my friend, who i think is not good looking.
(IMHO) He came up to my new colleagues (both male) on my first day while they're smoking
and went all "I am so gonna need to 'do' all my girls because i'm going crazy already!"


I tried my best to shut my mouth. I'm the new girl so I need to behave first. hahaha
But in my mind, I want to roll my eyes and then tell him. 'Yes sir, I believe you. Pls tell me
more about it."

Some can pass as show-off to other guys I think.
Yung mga gustong maki-'IN'.

[Myealexis21]

Oo normal yan! I was always one of the boys (hindi ako tomboy ha hehe) and got to hear and witness how they talk kapag sila sila na lang.  They talk of girls they got into bed with and the girls they want to do it.  How pretty the girl, how big the b**bs and yummy the b*tt and sexy the legs...blah blah blah... payabangan pa yan LOL!

But one thing na naobserve ko ha, they never talk about girls they have been serious with, or yung plano nilang seryosohin.  Or rather if they talk about girls na sineryoso nila or seseryosohin nila, walang kamanyakang halo. 

[Girltalker2]

Heto na naman ako, sa Pinas lang ba iyan or sa ibang lahi?  Mga bastos ba talaga mga lalaki in general?  Parang wala silang nanay or sisters or anak na babae.