DO OPPOSITES ATTRACT?

[Pink_Sugar]

Yes, we're 11 years already at magkaiba sa karamihan ng mg ugali at bagay-bagay.

[fabuleuxmoi]

No, I don't think so. My Psych professor once said na yung mga taong nagsasabi na opposite sila ng isa't isa kaya sila attracted to each other just don't realize that they have more things in common than the opposing personalities they recognize. I don't know how true this is but I agree with her.

[princeza08]

in some way. kami ng hubby ko, opposite kami, like sya tahimik lang, ako laud. ganon lang.

[Layla]

Yes, in personality. But for me, we need to have a common ground -- shared interests/goals/values etc.

[zarazan]

No, I don't think so. My Psych professor once said na yung mga taong nagsasabi na opposite sila ng isa't isa kaya sila attracted to each other just don't realize that they have more things in common than the opposing personalities they recognize. I don't know how true this is but I agree with her.

I agree with this actually. Siguro marami nagsasabi "quiet siya, ako loud" or vice versa. Pero that's just one. One out of the many that you guys may have alike. Ako I can sense mas marami kami similiarities instead of "differences".

[iseenessie]

I prefer to be with someone na who have lots of things in common with me, na meron din namang minor differences with me. Gusto ko meron kaming interests na magkaiba din. The things we have in common will automatically bond us. The differences will help us grow and become more intimate with each other. Kasi we get to explore din the things na di pa namin nasusubukan. The things na we will learn from each other, yun na yung magpapalalim ng relationship.

[roxy14]

^ Relate sis! I want us to have slight differences para may mai-try ako na hindi ko pa nai-ttry. May matutunan kami sa isa't isa. Medyo opposite kami. He's an introvert and I'm an extrovert. Masiyahin ako sobra tapos siya tahimik lang and very private. Bandang huli, naadapt ko na yung ugali niya na pagiging private pagdating samin.

[cynthric08]

I believe in opposite attracts! kung pareho kayo in every single way baka u will never learn from each other. Make sure also na yung differences nyo ay complimentary hindi conflicting, kasi mahirap yun

[Myealexis21]

based on my experience to a certain level yes.  Pero not entirely opposite that you don't share anything in common.

[IloveMybabs]

yes opposites attract

Hubby is so tahimik and mysterious type, madami sya kakilala dahil sa work pero he only have 4 guy friends na he consider as friends talaga. he is workaholic and doesn't like to go to party pero minsan umiinom sila kasama mga officemates namin.. ako naman sobrang vocal and kahit saan ata ko magpunta an dami kong friends which is pinag aawayan namin before kasi hindi nya maintindihan bakit ako may mga friends na guy, pero ngayon hindi na then i love going to clubs and party.

now i cant imagine kung yong napang asawa ko eh katulad ng ugali ko haha

[hon3ykow]

yes,and beside lahat tayo unique so magkakaparehas lang sa values,beliefs etc

[MaraMeow]

Naniniwala ba kayo na opposites do attract?

[simang]

Ako i dont. Pero it doesn't necessarily mean naman na like poles attract.

Based kase on my own experience, pag polar opposites, yes sa simula it's okay and exciting even, pero darating yung point na magka-clash at magka-clash kayo.

Mas naenjoy ko yung relationship ko with someone na mas gets ko yung mga trip. Mas marami kaming pwedeng gawin/pagusapan na mas enjoy kame parehas without compromising each other's values.

[zarazan]

I also don't believe in this. May mga ugali siguro kayo na "opposite" pero in the end, mas marami parin dapat kayong similarities especially pag long term relationship hanap niyo.

Kasi by the end of the day, you're gonna look for your comfort zone. Even sa tao.

[amethyst028]

for a relationship to stand the test of time dapat same kayo sa mga importanteng bagay like family values, spiritual beliefs, how you handle money, same goals etc.

for me i don't want someone who very similar to me, mas gusto ko yung patner who compliments me. yung tipong yung weakness ko yun ang strength niya and yung strength ko ang weakness niya. that way we can help and support each other.

[Respect]

There’s some truth to the notion that opposites attract, but you will see, only on the surface. Couples might come in a tall and short pair or a loud and soft-spoken dyad. But when it comes to searing and scorching a burning flame, it all starts with a match. 

[aquacharly]

^Right. You must SHARE the same values & priorities for a good long-running commitment. 

But well, it's hard to ignore The Spark of Opposites.  There's curiosity, the undertone of danger,  the promise of adventure, the pull of The Strange.   Hahaha. 

Life is short. Enjoy, but keep out of harm's way. .

[MaraMeow]

But well, it's hard to ignore The Spark of Opposites.  There's curiosity, the undertone of danger,  the promise of adventure, the pull of The Strange.

^Haha so true

[alice_alice]

Kung similar walang problema kasi nagkakasundo na rh. Aos yun.

Pag opposites naman okay yun para saken, you get to see/experience other things, atsaka para di magclash give and take lang naman yan eh, compromise atsaka maging understanding.

[roxy14]

pwede siguro. ganito kaming dalawa ni boyfie. ako yung chikadora type siya yung shy na nasa isang tabi lang pero nagkakasundo kami. pero siguro in some way may mga similarities din kami and not exactly opposites.