DO OPPOSITES ATTRACT?

[graezieylicious]

Do you believe in this? Like a book smart or highly intellectual guy will fall for a smart and strong personality girl?

[x-y]

Yes, it works for a short time. But when you are in a relationship na... both should compromise because if they don't, the relationship won't work kase nga, you're opposites.

[graezieylicious]

Yes, it works for a short time. But when you are in a relationship na... both should compromise because if they don't, the relationship won't work kase nga, you're opposites.

But i think mas spicy ang relationship pag opposite ang personalities, may excitement. May kilala ako na couples na successful naman ang relationship although opposite sila.

[Cluelesschx]

i really believe in this. kasi parang unconsciously hinahanap natin yung makaka complement sa personality natin or yung me characteristics na gusto natin na sana nasa atin.

like me, maingay talaga ako. ang napangasawa ko is super tahimik.

ang husband ko mahiyain so nacomplement ng pagiging malakas ng loob ko.

little by little, na a-acquire o nadedevelop namin ang ugali ng isat-isa

dati dati mahiyain talaga siya na tipong kahit mali ang ibinigay na order, sasabihin niya hayaan na ;ang o di bale na lang kasi puwede din naman, ako yung i fight for my rights hehe ngayon kaya na din nya nangunguna pa nga sa akin minsan

yung kaingayan ko nabawasan na kasi nakikita yung inner calmness niya chos 

[graezieylicious]

i really believe in this. kasi parang unconsciously hinahanap natin yung makaka complement sa personality natin or yung me characteristics na gusto natin na sana nasa atin.

like me, maingay talaga ako. ang napangasawa ko is super tahimik.

ang husband ko mahiyain so nacomplement ng pagiging malakas ng loob ko.

little by little, na a-acquire o nadedevelop namin ang ugali ng isat-isa

dati dati mahiyain talaga siya na tipong kahit mali ang ibinigay na order, sasabihin niya hayaan na ;ang o di bale na lang kasi puwede din naman, ako yung i fight for my rights hehe ngayon kaya na din nya nangunguna pa nga sa akin minsan

yung kaingayan ko nabawasan na kasi nakikita yung inner calmness niya chos 

really? we have the same attitude sis..im not a boring person kasi im not a party girl pero pag nasa party ako nagiging life of the party ako..napapansin talaga kahit hindi ako nagpapapansin. Ayun nga parang ang naattract sakin is yun shy type, boring and book smarts...at yung hindi napapansin. gets?

[x-y]

But i think mas spicy ang relationship pag opposite ang personalities, may excitement. May kilala ako na couples na successful naman ang relationship although opposite sila.

Siguro sis they both compromise talaga

[yajale_22]

i believe that opposites do attract..ganito kame ni bf eh..sya yung maingay, maloko, komedyante etc..ako naman, tahimik lang..na attract daw sya saken kase bihira daw syang makakilala ng babaeng tahimik..yung mga friends nya kaseng girls loud daw..attracted din ako sa kanya kase like ko yung mga boys na kwela kasama..

[spacemonkey]

not necessarily opposites.

my boyfriend and i are pretty much the same, some differences here and there, but we're both dominant, alpha people, according to friends, thats why when we fight--- we FIGHT, which i actually like.

imagine being a strong person, then having a boyfriend whos a doormat when it comes to arguments? UGH.

[px17]

Yes. Kami ni bf total opposites pero meron parin naman kahit papanong pagkakapareho. Minsan kasi pag sobrang parehas kayo mag aaway lang kayo e. Siguro isa sa pagkakapareho namin ni bf both competitive minsan napipikon pa ko pag natatalo niya ko sa arguments kahit sa laro pa.

Other than that magkaiba na kami. Introvert ako siya extrovert. Madami ding bagay ang iba ang pananaw namin.

[angelzero]

opposite lang kami when it comes to being shy (me) and outgoing (him). pero everything else we're similar. pero yung pagka opposite namin helps us to learn from each other. like i learned to express myself more, sya naman to be a bit cool when things are heating up to a fight.

[patchi2012]

it seems. coz based on our relationship, what i admire most sa husband ko are yung mga qualities na wala ako. he's the most well driven, well focus, confident, goal oriented and intelligent. what binded lang dahil we're both family oriented. though we're both introvert naman, kaya parang dun kami nagkasundo, pero mas malala sya kase kahit childhood friend wala syang masyadong ka close, unlike me na my friends since elem + highschool e yun pa din circle of friends ko lang. i talk a lot too lalo na pag too excited ako, while husband is matipid, 20 na sinasabi ko 1 palang sa kanya, he's really a man of few words. pero iba na ngayon na influence ko na ata. he seldom magalit din, kaya yan ang gusto ko sa kanya.

Tama ang mga sis dito na what matters most-- both compromise, both understand each other.

Kung meron man kaming pagkakaiba, at the end of the day, still we are this two halves that together makes a magical whole

[det060403]

in our case... Yes! Opposites do attract! We just work on our differences!

[sumirehana]

Not polar opposites, but bf and I have a lot of differences XD

Medyo hindrance yung opposing qualities namin at first, but it's also what helps us become better. Yung lacking on my part, he fills in, and vice versa. We learn to compromise too and decide not just for ourselves but for our partner's sake as well. Feel ko because of our differences, we've really grown as individuals and to be more understanding

Pero syempre, may away pa rin once in a while, spiked by our opposing characteristics and interests XD

[kawen]

Yes I think so.. in my case, we are exact opposites, I just can't imagine if the two of us are talkative, maybe there's no one listening anymore and we end up fighting... I'm bossy, he's submissive, again imagine if the two of you are both bossy, clash na naman... well it's good to have someone different from you, you get to learn how to like what he does and vice versa.. it just compliments the relationship.

[jtansanco]

Yeah, I prefer someone way opposite than me. It helps spice up the life. Problem is, it's just difficult to cope with one another.

[angelzero]

I believe opposites attract as long as you have chemistry too.

[nikki09]

Kami ni h2b naman is oppossites in terms of personality. I'm the Alpha sa amin most of the time and mas malakas loob ko sa kanya. We are happy nga na magkaiba kami kasi kung same ng ugali ko si h2b hay naku baka warlaloo na kami everyday at hindi kami tatagal ng ganito At least walang sumasabay sa mood swings ko hehe

Sa food naman he likes spicy, ako hindi masyado (may moment lang). Super like niya din ng Fish na may sabaw while ako Fried stuffs naman, hindi rin pala siya kumakain ng Beef (maliban sa burger patty & corned beef). Pero we learn how to compromise sa food kapag kakain kami sa labas. Maarte din pala siya sa street foods, may moment pa na super gusto ko na talaga kumain ng fishballs sa kalsada, hinatak ko siya at pinanuod niya lang ako kumain haha!

Dahil din sa differences namin natuto kami to value, understand and respect each other. Nag-grow din kami in a better way. Because of him mas natuto na ako magpasensya lalo na sa sales ladies sa malls & cashiers sa fastfoods. Siya naman he's trying to be less mahiyain hehe.

Ang same lang sa amin is ang kakulitan at parehas kaming may sapi 

[j.adore]

Yes
Me and my Fiance are similar in some things but opposites in a lot of other things. We complement and balance each other out. The key is to compromise dahil di pwede isa lang ang masunod sa mga bagay na magkaiba kayo.

[iamsuperizch]

Yes.  We've been together for 6 years (LDR) and ilang beses na din kami muntik na maghiwalay because of our differences and distance but thank God kami pa din.  Napa-iyak ko na din siya sa sobrang inis sa akin, haha!   As long as you truly love each other, no matter how different your personalities are, it will work.  I think yun din yung main reason why we're still together: 'coz we both want to spend the rest of our lives together.

[babyboo.0326]

Do you believe in this? Like a book smart or highly intellectual guy will fall for a smart and strong personality girl?

this sounds like us! 

he's the quiet type, soft spoken, smart, intellectual, funny guy. ako naman, i'm the more vocal type, straightforward, speaks her mind type of girl. siya yung tipong kahit galit na, will just say something but in a low tone pa. ako naman, pag nagalit ako sa ibang tao, i will really make away.

but when it comes to us, i'm malambing and touchy-feely. he's the same. kaya siguro we click is because although we have differences, there are other qualities na similar kami that's why it neutralizes things