bff and ex are couple

[cute101]

Hi sissie. Newbie here. Just want to share to you my mala-showbiz/teleserye story of my lovelife. I had a long term relationship before and it ended couple of yrs from now. After the break-up, we still have a contact to each other and i may say na meron pang "something" between both of us. We hang out several times, meron pang mushyness etc. No strings attached kumabaga casual relationship lang.He used to tell me na i'm still special for him. Until such time, i found out na he likes my BESTFRIEND. Eh siyempre nahurt ako, nagalit. Then he made me believe na crush lang talaga and wala siyang balak to court her kasi he's concerned with our friendship. Nalaman din ni bestie na nagalit ako then she told me na "you have to trust me. I wont do such thing to you".
Naniwala ako. And until the day comes na my ex had to cut his ties with me kasi he need to grow bla bla bla. I respected his decision whole heartedly. Tapos eto na, bigla ko nalang nalaman na my bestfriend and him are dating! Grabe. Para akong binagsakan ng heaven and earth. I admit i still love him that time. Eh kasi naman sino ba naman di aasa sa mga ginagawa namin diba?
My "ex bff" talked to me, blaming all this stuff to me. I know it's been so many years na since we broke up, but the thing is bestfriend ko siya and i know it's an awkward situation if my ex and my bff are couple. Prang di nila ako nirespeto not even our friendship na parang sisters na kami. Ang sakit lang kasi nawalan na nga ako ng boyfriend, nawalan pa ko ng kaibigan. Until now, i cant afford seeing them. They are now officially a couple pero hinahayaan ko nalang. Karma is fast. I know they're not gonna be happy, ever.

Sorry guys if mahaba. Feel free to comment

[donzski_doinks]

sabunutan natin si bff! >
seriously, she doesn't respect your friendship. because if she does, she would consider your feelings kapag nalaman mo na sila na. she is selfish. sorry sa masasagasaan..it's just that I believe in the rule: "do not date a friend's ex."

[khayzee]

omg naman si bff mo. i hope you dont get to see them that much or di ba maiiwasan na makita sila? its hard to move on kung lagi silang makikita..

[Helsinki]

OMG ang sakit naman nito. Sana makahanap ka na ng ibang bff. Ill pray for you girl.

[break_free]

Yung BF mo is an *censored*! Hahaha Ooops sorry! Pero sana hindi na siya nagpakita ng ka-sweetan sa iyo kahit split na kayo, ayan umasa ka tuloy sa wala. Next time, pag may nagparamdam ng ka-sweetan sa iyo or anything DO NOT fall agad thinking na it's 'something' basta do not assume agad.

Anyway, tapos naman na di ba?
The fact na both single nung maging sila eh out na po ikaw doon, although masakit talaga yun lalo na BFF mo pa. Yes pangit tignan sa society pero who are we to judge them? Again, both single sila so no kaso kahit saan mo tignan talaga.

Good news sis, makakahanap ka pa ulit ng new BFF in the future! For the mean time, tanggalin mo muna sila sa life mo and move move move on. Another good news sis, at least nalaman mo na hindi ka ganun ka love ni guy, at ganun din ka weak si BFF para pumatol sa ex-bf ng bff niya di ba? Kesa mangyayari yan kung kelan kasal na kayo. In a way ay blessing in disguise din kahit masakit. Pray ka din sis and stay pretty and healthy.

Hoping for your happiness and fast recovery sis.

[cherry*coke]

I'd be be hurt too if i was you. But as you know, hindi naman sinulot ng bff mo ang ex-bf mo sayo. Although she knows that you still love him. Mahirap din siguro on her part kasi kailangan niya pumili sa inyo ng ex mo. If she chooses you, it's tough for her cause she has to hold back her feelings for your ex. While you and your ex ay hindi naman din nagkakabalikan or magkakabalikan pa. Siguro mas matimbang padin for her, her own happiness. Sayang lang kasi if their relationship would be temporary, hindi nadin basta mababalik ang friendship niyo.

I understand if you feel betrayed and hurt cause nagsabi pa si bff na just trust her. Pero baka naman she meant it when she said that. Mahirap lang talaga kalabanin ang feelings pag andiyan na. Though sana nga iniwasan niya na talaga si ex bf in the first place. Oh well, just wish them well sis. Try not to have hard feelings, kasi nakakapangit yun. Be positive nalang para makaattract ka pa ng guy that's better than your ex.

[tomatostellar]

welcome to GT Kim Chiu :p

~naku masakit nga talaga yan. similar story sa barkada namin, bff made you believe pa na she wouldnt act on it. sana naging honest na lang sya if she's starting to fall w/ your ex. kahit pa may unspoken rule about not dating your ex friend/bff, hindi naman siguro talaga mapigilan yun kung meron talaga diba.
anyway, sana makahanap ka na ng Xian Lim mo :p and be the bigger person, just let them be

[gab54]

haha, parang Kim Chiu at Maja ang peg. Pero seriously, nakakainis ang nangyari! Kapal ng mukhang ni ex at bff 

[may12]

Actually ako I believe na okay lang magkaroon ng relationship ang ex at ang bff...
Kaya nga team Maja ako dun sa nangyari sa kanila ni Kim. 

Pero sayo kasi, iba eh... pinaasa ka pa ng bf mo na may something pa sa inyong dalawa. At nung nalaman pa ng bff mo na nagalit ka, sinabihan ka pa niya na hindi niya magagawa sayo 'yon. So may karapatan ka talaga magalit at masaktan. Grabe lang sila. 

[sarsingkit]

welcome to GT Kim Chiu :p

hahaha. sobrang tawa ko
and yes Kim Chui, my advice for you is to move on dahil wala naman na talagang ibang choice. But no-no talaga sa kin to. At a certain point, I can tolerate kabits eh pero for your bestfriend and and ex to be a couple, I just can't. It is just to awkward. I immediately cut ties with them and hope to never see them again. It may sound bitter pero more than bitterness is the ultimate awkwardness and betrayal ng bestfriend. In the first place, pangit ka ba kaya wala ng ibang guy? My friends and I always make this joke/promise na we are all beautiful and smart and we can easily snatch a guy without having to resort to dating exes. hindi rin naman marami ang ex so konti lang ang taong iiwasan.

[px17]

If the same thing happened to me I would really curse them! haha Tama mga other sis dito bitter na kung bitter pero your bff betrayed you. IMO, nagpromise siya just to make you feel better pero she really doesn't mean it. Para kasi sakin mas okay ng kalimutan ko own happiness ko kesa mawalan ako ng bff. Mahirap humanap ng totoong kaibigan kesa makahanap ng boyfriend.

Anyway sis wala ka ng magagawa, just move on. For now be thankful nalang kasi nalaman mo na who's true and who's not. Don't forget to take care of yourself! Time will come dadating rin sayo ang right guy. 

[graZiousa]

Sis paganda galore ka, there is no ugly women on lazy ones. Yon ang pinakamagandang revenge e. pag nakita ka nila na super ganda, blooming and happy ka win win situation yan for all of you.

Hindi magandang tingnan nga naman na maging couple ang bff at ex mo, super awkward. Pero hindi naman natin pwedeng pigilan if they are meant to be. masakit man kasi nga pareho silang parte at naging parte ng life mo.. Move on fast.. and in order to do that have a date, meet new faces...explore!

[aquacharly]

If you really loved him still, you would have reconciled with him shortly. Hindi mo na pinatagal na friend-friends lang kayo, hanggang tumagal at sa  napako na sa cocote nya wala na syang aasahan more than deep friendship from you.
IMO, but what do I know anyway? -  you were stringing him along while you opened yourself to scanning the landscape for a better catch/love.  Kala mo hawak mo sya sa ballz, este , heart -- you could keep him close by on a leash.  Forever? 

Si BFF mo naman, close as sisters you may be -- well, sisters covet what the other sister/s has/have, di ba? Human nature, basic.   Akin na your Barbie, mas sexy your Barbie... Ganong drift.

IF you will take the High Road and puff out your big heart --  Let It Go.
Be happy for them.
You didn't really want him anymore, until ...  She poached him, feeling mo grrrr kasi well -- you didn't want to let go kahit na you didn't want him na. Possession is addicting.   

Sure, hard to take that kind of stance. But well, are you run of the mill or a cut above the rest?   
Being pragmatic about it: what can you do?  Might as well play it out classy.  Bitterness ages the face fast.

Hindi ka naisahan dito.  But if you will think that, you will carry that burden.
See, if you had a better love/new bf  before they hooked up -- I can perhaps bet my driver's ears you won't give a sh1t when they finally hook up. Isipin mo pa they are conveniently consoling each other for losing you -- kasi priority mo na your new bf.   

Just saying. Peace!

[t_r_i_s_h]

welcome to GT Kim Chiu :p

natawa ko dito. sorry..

anyway, for me foul to! as in, okay lang kung friend...but bff oh my. wrong!

[wangwang]

If you really loved him still, you would have reconciled with him shortly. Hindi mo na pinatagal na friend-friends lang kayo, hanggang tumagal at sa  napako na sa cocote nya wala na syang aasahan more than deep friendship from you.
IMO, but what do I know anyway? -  you were stringing him along while you opened yourself to scanning the landscape for a better catch/love.  Kala mo hawak mo sya sa ballz, este , heart -- you could keep him close by on a leash.  Forever? 

Si BFF mo naman, close as sisters you may be -- well, sisters covet what the other sister/s has/have, di ba? Human nature, basic.   Akin na your Barbie, mas sexy your Barbie... Ganong drift.

IF you will take the High Road and puff out your big heart --  Let It Go.
Be happy for them.
You didn't really want him anymore, until ...  She poached him, feeling mo grrrr kasi well -- you didn't want to let go kahit na you didn't want him na. Possession is addicting.   

Sure, hard to take that kind of stance. But well, are you run of the mill or a cut above the rest?   
Being pragmatic about it: what can you do?  Might as well play it out classy.  Bitterness ages the face fast.

Hindi ka naisahan dito.  But if you will think that, you will carry that burden.
See, if you had a better love/new bf  before they hooked up -- I can perhaps bet my driver's ears you won't give a sh1t when they finally hook up. Isipin mo pa they are conveniently consoling each other for losing you -- kasi priority mo na your new bf.   

Just saying. Peace!


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