ok lang ba mas ahead yung age ng girl kesa sa guy? hind ba panget tignan?

[xien shi]

i need your opinion sissies

[littlemisskikay]

All is fair in love sis. Pag love mo ang isang tao, wag mong intindihin ang iisipin or sasabihin ng iba. 

[xien shi]

hehe  kahit na 8 years yung age gap? ang hirap hirap ang dame insecurities when it comes to this 

[littlemisskikay]

Sakin, sinet ko yung 'age bracket' ng mga icoconsider ko na guys. -5 to +5 years (from my age)

Ok lang yung 8 years

Kahit anong bagay, may masasabi ang mga tao sa paligid mo. It's up to you kung magpapaapekto ka sa kanila. If I ask you now, hihiwalayan mo ba yang guy pag sinabi ng mga tao dito sa GT na panget tignan? If kaya mo syang hiwalayan dahil sa sinasabi ng mga tao, baka hindi mo talaga sya love kasi kaya mo syang i-let go sa simpleng bagay lang.

OMG, don't listen to me. May pagka-idealistic kasi ako

[bluewingedangel]

my sister is 8 years older than her hubby, they're happily married with a beautiful daughter. it keeps my sister on her toes, ayaw nya magmukhang matanda kaya beauteous sya palagi. keber sa sasabihin ng iba, they love each other that's what matters.

[17arci]

Age doesn't matter, wag lang sana senior ka tapos of minor age pa sya during the relationship. Hehe.

[brendzy]

Ok lang yan sis. bakit yung mga artista di ba? dolphy and Zsazsa  and others di ba?
Kebs lang as long as mahal nyo isa't isa, and as one of our sissy says:

Age doesn't matter, wag lang sana senior ka tapos of minor age pa sya during the relationship. Hehe.

[imhoturnot]

^dolphy and zsa zsa?? - the topic is for the other way around.. 

anyway, depende din.. sabi ko sa sarili ko never ako papatol ng mas bata kase bet ko talaga older guys than me..

pero kung mahal mo naman sis at ang importante MASAYA ka.. gorabels lang!!!

[aquacharly]

Age doesn't matter, wag lang sana senior ka tapos of minor age pa sya during the relationship. Hehe.

Hahaha.    Crime na yan: corrupting a minor.

AGE is just a number.  There is nothing immoral nor illegal about a woman with a younger  man.
Let the world gossip. Basta ok relationship nyo -- they can all die of envy.  hehe. 

[anonymous0124]

Not really. It's the maturity/compatibility. My parents are in this set-up

[Maldita AKO]

Age doesn't matter, wag lang sana senior ka tapos of minor age pa sya during the relationship. Hehe.

haha. naalala ko tuloy ang tito ko..he's 50 and the girl is 15 i think.

anyway, in my case 7years ang age gap namin. i'm older than him.  Nung una talagang nahihirapan ako mag-adjust samin kasi ang laki ng gap namin at sinabi ko na talaga sa sarili ko nun pa na hindi ako magbboyfriend/asawa ng mas bata kasi pero ang end up sa kanya ako bumagsak.  Happy naman ako sa kanya. kaya lang minsan nahihiya ako pag nalalaman nila mas matanda ako kesa sa kanya

[lornadahl]

I'm in a relationship wherein 4 years akong ahead. I used to have reservations din. But I gave it a try and it seems ok naman. I guess babae pa rin talaga ang nag-ha-handle ng relationship eh.

[anon]

8-year gap isnt too much. Papasok lang yung "panget tingnan" issue if the woman looks much older than her age, and the guy looks much younger than his. Issue lang naman talaga ito if the couple is too sensitive with what others think...

[Perfume_Lover]

hindi naman yan basta you love each okay lang yun problema lang yung ibang tao pero kayo parin naman ang magmamahalan at hindi nila kayo pinapakain kaya wala silang pakialam

[escobarina420]

there's no such this as age, as long as you really love the person. My bf and i for almost 4years will tie the knot soonest, knowing he's 8 years older than me. As i said, No boundaries

[Girltalker2]

Sakin, sinet ko yung 'age bracket' ng mga icoconsider ko na guys. -5 to +5 years (from my age)

Ok lang yung 8 years

Pero minsan di mo masabi kung tinamaan ka ni cupido. 

my sister is 8 years older than her hubby, they're happily married with a beautiful daughter. it keeps my sister on her toes, ayaw nya magmukhang matanda kaya beauteous sya palagi. keber sa sasabihin ng iba, they love each other that's what matters.

I think this is very important.  To be able to maintain yourself.  My opinion kasi on this - life is harsher for women when it comes to aging.  Mas mabilis malosyang ang mga babae.  35yo girl vs 35yo guy, the girl can easily look in her 40s kung hindi nya minemaintain ang sarili nya samantalang yung guy, can just look like 35yo.  Ang definition ng hindi pagmaintain sa girl - is yung hindi nagm make up, hindi nag e exercise.  Pero ang definition ng hindi pagmaintain sa guy is mag overeat ng taba na food at uminim ng uminom such that may beer belly sya.  You see the difference?  The girl has to do EXTRA EFFORTS to MAINTAIN herself.  Thank God nalang may mga creams at SKII.  Just imagine a world without makeup, toners, moisturizers and sunblock!  Pero pag iisipin mo ang mga guys wala naman nilalagay. Bakit mas matagal sila magmukhang lolo? 


Yes I have seen a lot of couples na mas matanda tingnan ang babae (kahit magka age sila).  And isa ako sa mga nagsasalita about it.  Pero pakialam ba nung couple?  Sino ba naman ako?  Ang importante they are happy with their relationship at higit sa lahat mahal na mahal ka ng guy.  Importante yung MAHAL NA MAHAL KA NG GUY.  Kasi para sakin, men are visual creatures, kung hindi pa sila mature, they would tend to wander around. And if insecure yung babae sa itsura nya and feeling mommy sya or elder sister, dito na lumalabas ang mga issues within the relationship. 

The other issue about younger men din is men, in general tend to mature later in life, compared to women. In general lang naman, so I am sure there are outliers. 

So just watch out for these danger cues. Maintain your youthfulness through drinking lots of water, exercise, no smoking, no drinking, sleep right, eat right, put moisturizer sunblock and lotion daily, I'm sure you can still look like in your 30s [younger] kahit 50yo ka na at 42yo sya. Then make sure he is mature enough also to handle the relationship.   

Ok lang yan sis. bakit yung mga artista di ba? dolphy and Zsazsa  and others di ba?
Kebs lang as long as mahal nyo isa't isa, and as one of our sissy says:

Sis iba naman kasi kung babae ang mas bata.  Mas masagwa talaga tingnan kung babae yung 50yo and ang lalaki ay 25yo.

[junetwentythree]

If you're 24 and he's 16 then it's child molestation.
If you're 30 and he's 22, it may or may not work.
If you're 38 and he's 30, the likelihood of it working out increases.
If you're 45 and he's 37, he's probably mature enough to definitely make it work.

Moral of the story. Age DOES matter.

[hisana]

If it's just a matter of panget ba tignan or hindi, I agree that this is a somewhat shallow reason to let go of someone you love just because of other people's impressions of you and your guy.

And IMO, there's not too many people out there who still have this mindset na dapat mas matanda ang guy, so don't worry. Though syempre if you yourself have deep-seated reservations about this kind of set-up that you cannot overcome, eh wala na kami magagawa dun. It all boils down to preferences anyway.