On Long Term Relationships

[angelzero]

makikisali lang. ako naman 23 na nagka bf. so malay mo sis young_maiden next year na. if you're turning 23 this year eh di baka this year na 

[young_maiden]

@ angelzero, Yes Man and jaymejorrol: thank you talaga.

hehe. sana talaga dumating na siya. mahirap kasi talaga magkalovelife for me. jerk magnet ako
eh. babaero mga lumalapit. kunwari mga single tapos yun pala may gf. yung iba one-night stands
lang ang gusto. yung mga matitino di naman interesado sa akin. nilalagay ako sa friendzone.
nakakasawa na.

saka law student kasi ako kaya puro aral ang ginagawa ko. halos walang time makipagdate. eh
ayaw ko naman na kung kailan lawyer na ako, naghahanap pa din ako ng bf di ba.

I'm turning 23 in June.

[jaymejorrol]

^ batang-bata pa sis! hehe.. kahit nagwowork ka na, minsan dun mo pa makikita si guy pero since gusto mo talaga mag-bf (though mejo makakaagaw ng time sa pagaaral mo, minsan sakit pa ng ulo.. hehe) parang mejo mahirap kasi sabi mo nga wala kang time makipag date.. unless ok sayo ang LDR.. para wala muna date.. text at chat lang muna..

[young_maiden]

gusto ko magkabf. hehe. pero di pa naman ako umaabot sa point na desperate na ako. kaya ko pa
naman maghintay for the right guy. sana nga lang dumating na siya bago ako maging lawyer. hahaha

Naku. Ayaw ko na pumasok sa isang LDR. hehe. di ako naniniwala dyan. LDR kami nung ex ko.
ayun, nambabae siya habang kami pa. pinili niya yung girl na lagi nyang kasama kaysa sa akin na
malayo sa kanya. Simula noon, di na ako naniniwala sa LDR.

May nagkagusto nga sa aking guy last year eh. Mabait at faithful. Di masyado gwapo pero pwede na rin
tanggapin ang looks. Ang naging issue ko lang sa kanya friend siya ng ex ko at saka magiging LDR kami
if ever patulan ko siya. Kaya ayun di naging kami.

[jaymejorrol]

^ hahaha! paano nga? eh sabi mo wala ka time makipag-date.. busy ka din sa pag-aaral.. kung hihintayin naman natin yung guy for you.. kelan pa? baka nga dumating sya pag lawyer ka na.. naisip ko lang na way is to hang out with friends and guys.. gala-gala.. baka may makilala.. kaso nga wala kang time..

[young_maiden]

@jaymejorrol: sa mga guys na kapareho ko na law students na lang ako naghahang out. hahaha.
mas madami pa akong friends na guys sa law school kaysa girls. hopefully may makakapansin din
sa akin soon.

@Yes Man: yes. wala naman talaga akong magagawa kundi maghintay. it is better to wait kaysa
pumatol ako sa hindi ko gusto o mang-agaw ako ng bf ng iba. darating naman yun kung di
inaasahan. thank u.

[chocnats]

Turning 3 years kami ni bf sa October tapos we'll be getting married April next year.

young_maiden: don't lose hope. Darating rin yung love basta di mo siya hahanapin at pipilitin. Hehe. Si BF nga, talagang di siya umaasa nun na magkaka-gf pa siya pero tignan mo, dumating ako sa buhay niya. Hahahaha! 28 years old na siya nun ah at first (and last) gf niya ako. Siya naman, second bf ko pa lang pero I consider him my first na rin kasi 3 months lang kami ng ex ko nun.

[young_maiden]

Turning 3 years kami ni bf sa October tapos we'll be getting married April next year.

young_maiden: don't lose hope. Darating rin yung love basta di mo siya hahanapin at pipilitin. Hehe. Si BF nga, talagang di siya umaasa nun na magkaka-gf pa siya pero tignan mo, dumating ako sa buhay niya. Hahahaha! 28 years old na siya nun ah at first (and last) gf niya ako. Siya naman, second bf ko pa lang pero I consider him my first na rin kasi 3 months lang kami ng ex ko nun.

thanks sis. stay happy and in love with your bf who is also your husband-to-be.

[jaymejorrol]

@jaymejorrol: sa mga guys na kapareho ko na law students na lang ako naghahang out. hahaha.
mas madami pa akong friends na guys sa law school kaysa girls. hopefully may makakapansin din
sa akin soon.

meron yan syempre! hehe.. just wait lang.. makakahanap ka rin ng someone (maybe a law student din) who can justify love for you.. hahaha!

[whatswithjuly]

pa-share din. turning 8 yrs kami ni bf this year. 20 lang kami nun naging kami and now we're both 28. hehe. we can say na nagmature talaga kami together. minsan hindi ko rin ma-imagine na ganun na kami katagal. payat pa ko dati nun naging kami hanggang sa tumaba ako haha. we're planning to get married next year. by that time, 9 yrs na kami. we have been physically together for 3 years tapos the rest ay LDR na. contrary to the post above, un samin nagwork naman. though i would say this type of relationship is not really for everyone. mahirap talaga. kahit hanggang ngayon, marami pa rin akong nafifeel na kulang pero i just learned to accept it kasi wala naman may gusto samin both na magkahiwalay. hindi pwedeng hanapin un wala naman. like, un mga dates, eat outs, and travel together..wag na hanapin hehe..

[emilyenchanted]

kami ng bf ko ten years na but it seems di factor yung "sawa" in our case kasi six of those years were spent as LDR. he finished med school pa kasi. when he passed and looked for a hospital where he could have his residency training, he chose one in my province so we can be together. i still live with my parents but im loving the feeling na every time i want to see him, nandito lang cya. we plan to  be wed early next year. basta, im so thankful i have him in my life. BTW, we are each other's first c:

[j.adore]

3.5 years together at twing magdate kami excited pa rin na parang first date Wala kaming sawa moments at totoo yung "I love you more today than yesterday" phrase sa amin.

How? I think it's because we started out as real friends where we had some years to get to know one another without intentions. Also, we're just really honest with each other and share everything. I think yan yun on top of the love and being THE ONE

[jaymejorrol]

kami ng bf ko ten years na but it seems di factor yung "sawa" in our case kasi six of those years were spent as LDR. he finished med school pa kasi. when he passed and looked for a hospital where he could have his residency training, he chose one in my province so we can be together. i still live with my parents but im loving the feeling na every time i want to see him, nandito lang cya. we plan to  be wed early next year. basta, im so thankful i have him in my life. BTW, we are each other's first c:

nice love story.. humahanga ako sa mga LDR na tumatagal.. and yung part na hospital in your province pa pinili nya para mas malapit sya sayo

[emilyenchanted]

^ thanks sis. twas not easy actually may mga bumps din along the way but we're still with each other till now kaya yun one of the things I'm thankful for c:

[sassymyangel]

I had 2 boyfriends. I broke up with the first one after 2 years, then i broke up again with the second one after 1 year, and guess who's my boyfriend right now?

The first one. Yes it's rude. But i'm proud of him. I made mistake, actually ako ang nang iwan sa kanya for this rude guy that was 7 years older than me. Naisip ko kase na it's better if my boyfriend is year ahead thn my age which was terribly wrong! He left me because yes he's 26 and I am 18 that time and gees he wants to get married which was a big no no for me. Because I'm just about to graduate college that time. So ayun, i think  nakahanap sya ng babae na kaedad nya and ready to settle na din. He left me, bastos diba, after I sacrificed my first relationship for him, ganun lang yun. And i am proud to say, YEAH! what goes around, comes around. I say hi to my karma. Well, atleast i've learned my lessons, in a hard way nga lang.

That's the moment na binalikan ako ng ex ko after knowing na wala na kami ng pinalit ko sa kanya. Nanligaw sya ulit, we get to know each other again and tried to catch up. Ang ginawa nya pala habang break kami, nag bar, nangbabae, inom, gimmicks, short time r'ships and things like that, sabi nya inshort, nagsawa sya. Para pag dumating daw yung time na pwede na nya ko kuhain ulit, sawa na sya sa buhay binata.

Fairy Tale right? PS, this boyfriend of mine is Gorgeous, Gym rat and have a good Sense of Humor. We were supposedly turning 8 years this year but because we broke up and had been away for almost 1 year and a half, 7 years na lang, and counting.

One lucky girl here

[jaymejorrol]

^ nyek.. nagbabalat-kayong girltalker lang po ako.. hahaha! well.. hindi talaga natin maiiwasan yang bumps na yan.. and nasa atin din kung tatanggapin natin ito positively or negatively.. syempre may makukuha tayong lessons sa mga problems and arguments.. and kinaya nyo naman di ba? sa panahon kasi ngayon ang mga kabataan bibihira na lang ang nakakapasok sa long-term relationships.. paano konting misunderstanding war agad.. haha!

[charm01]

Turning 7, but I do not think it can go beyond since walang improvement. Just a company yun lang..

[simplecathy143]

Malapit na kami mag two yrs ni bf.. Actually first na naging kami almost 7 yrs ago na.. super away-bati kami that time then after 5 yrs nagkita ulit kami became friends at ayon nagtry ng another chance.. Nakakatuwa na mas ok na kami ngayon.. Minsan nga tinatanong ko sakanya what if hindi kami nagkakilala he just answered "Wala ka ng magagawa kasi ikaw na yung nakadestiny para sakin" Hmm, sarap lang ng feeling.. Alam ko madami pa kamille pagdadaanan pero lam ko kakayanin namin to

[emilyenchanted]

Turning 7, but I do not think it can go beyond since walang improvement. Just a company yun lang..

ayy sad na man sis but at least you know that for yourself now. hope you'd get past the seven year itch.

[jaymejorrol]

Turning 7, but I do not think it can go beyond since walang improvement. Just a company yun lang..

why naman? sayang yun.. baka mapag-uusapan pa naman.. baka minor issues or misunderstandings lang na lumaki.. unless may 3rd party talaga.. or what?