bars/club scene- how do you feel about it?

[amethyst028]

 

[merchee]

I'm not yet within that range but I stopped going since I reached 23 to 24. I felt na it's not for me anymore and "graduate" na ko clubbing since I started clubbing quite early. hahahaha.

Naalala ko pa before, we were at embassy we saw a lady (within  late thirties to 40's i think) and she got super energy pa at the dance floor. She's wearing skimpy skirts and spaghetti strap top ata with boots. nahiya ang suot ko that time buti na lang naka-smokey eyes ako and naka kulot ang long hair ko.  hahaha. Infairness to her, updated that time ang dance moves niya.

She actually created quite a scene and a friend said "I'm glad my mom stopped partying when she got married."

[iamshiela]

Ako rin I'm not within that range pero it's true, really skimpy yung clothes with sky rocketing heels! haha! Nashoshock din ako sa mga napapanood ko over the internet lalo na yung flippish episodes, where the host will get random chicks sa clubs and makes out with them. Tapos yung mga girls pumapayag naman to make out and all, take note ah, nakavideo pa.

[sistah!]

i stopped going to clubs and bars when i got engaged. my husband is not a party guy type kasi. he prefers quiet evenings at home or dinners at family friendly places. ok din sa akin at nakakainis mag-diet ng walang patid para magkasya ako sa mga form fitting dresses at high high heels na sinusuot ko dati.

but i have friends who are 30 or older pa and they're single. they still go clubbing and bar hopping and all. dati nung after ko ikasal, naiingit pa ako pag di ako nakakasama pero ngayon talaga, i dont know where they get their energy. and why? eh parang ang bata ng crowd ngayon na mahilig lumabas. kahit makakuha ng ka-date, parang ang awkward.

ay, im officially a manang. LOL

[Irtwisted]

I still go to clubs every once in a while. Mind you I'm still in my mid-20s but sometimes I feel left out. may mga kabataang parang galing lang sa bahay, naka maong shorts, white t-shirt, and flats. I can't imagine why the bouncer at the door let them in. This is in a well known club in The Fort ha.

If you're not comfortable with clubs for young-ish people, there are some high-end clubs for a more mature clientele.  Salon de Ning in Manila Pen is one. But of course, be prepared to spend, medyo high end din ang presyo. I've been there only twice but I love the ambiance. Pang mayaman hehe.

Now I prefer to go to gay/bi clubs kasi may drag shows. 

[angelzero]

i'm only in my late 20's and i'm over it. i enjoyed going to bars for quite some time pero yung steady inuman lang. hindi ko rin naenjoy ang club scene the very few times i went. siguro nga dahil din sa crowd. and the fact that you have to dress up like everyone else to fit in, not my thing.

[twelvth_goddess]

I'm 30 and I stopped craving the club scene a couple of years ago. I go to clubs paminsan lang but we don't stay for long anymore.

[Kady_14]

Ako rin I'm not within that range pero it's true, really skimpy yung clothes with sky rocketing heels! haha! Nashoshock din ako sa mga napapanood ko over the internet lalo na yung flippish episodes, where the host will get random chicks sa clubs and makes out with them. Tapos yung mga girls pumapayag naman to make out and all, take note ah, nakavideo pa.

My husband and I watch this online, super laugh trip namin 'to. (Mababaw kami. lol)

I agree re their suot. BTW I'm 30 and most of my friends, lipas na din sa party stage kahit na yung mga single pa. Kaming mga married na and with kids we go out with friends na lang dinner or lunch meets and not to party. I think last na nakapag bar ako 19-20 pa ako. lol.

After that more on bar with live bands na lang or comedy bars (laugh trip with friends) IMHO, dance clubs are really a hit for those really young like teens.

[lonelymiss28]

nung bata ako lagi kami sa bars, club ng mga friends ko ultimo gay bar pinapasok namin....maiba lang pero pag tumatanda ka na nakakasawa rin. itong anak ko naman nag bar 2 beses ayaw ng bumalik dami daw umiinom saka naiingayan....LOL!!!

[Prunella]

I'm not yet in my mid 30s  but I start to feel too old when I'm in a bar/club. Parang I don't belong there anymore.

[lonelymiss28]

^^she's 20. homebody talaga sya bata pa. mas enjoy nya manood ng tv shows at magbasa ng libro. sabi nya nga pupunta lang ulit sya ng bar pag kasama ako, dahil lagi ko nga sya sinasabihan na sumama sa mga friends nya and officemate.

[crazycoolchic19]

Parang graduate na ko sa clubbing and bar, not my thing anymore..ayoko mapuyat., i reserved my energy na kase...baka mabawasan ang beauty pag laging puyat hehe

[tomatostellar]

in my mid 20s, I don't like "clubbing" pero I like attending gigs (as in w/ the bands and stuff)
pero the last time I was in a bar I also kinda felt out of place. parang mga college students ata yung mga nagbbar,

[mikoarai]

I'm still in my early 20's and I still do love clubbing, pero at the same time I can feel narin na hindi na ako katulad ng dati ang energy level ko lol pero late narin talaga ako na addict sa clubbing scene. Maybe mga senior year na ng college kaya that time every week talaga (friday and saturday nights) hindi na ako umuuwi sa amin kasi may part 2 pa  pero kahit ganun talaga I still felt lively naman sa weekdays pero recently hindi na. If ever I go out I try to go out friday night para talaga rest days ko ang weekend.

Now, I do love bar scenes narin like just chilling with your friends. Dati kasi hindi ko feel and mukhang boring but now I appreciate it, so maybe this mean I'm also graduating in this kind of scene pretty soon? 

[sixteen16]

hindi ito ang type kong place pero naenjoy ka naman ang kabataan ko. bilang lang sa daliri talaga ang punta ko sa bar/club. hindi talaga ako nag-eenjoy dito.. naiingayan ako sobra. minsan lang ako pumasok sa ganitong place pero memorable pa hehe.. gumawa ako ng eksena because i saw my ex with my close friend (maja at kim lang ang peg)..

now that i'm in my late 20s, hindi mo na talaga ako maaaya sa ganitong place. i prefer sa tahimik na lugar.. hindi ko kaya makipagsabayan sa kanila sa pesexyhan at sa pagiging wild nila sa dance floor.. i can wear those type of dress pero hindi para sa bar/club. i can wear those outfit sa adult themed party.

[spacemonkey]

i used to be a hardcore party girl, that the only times i'd be home was to take a shower and change.

my bff and i were always invited to parties because i was a fun drunk and she had all the drugs. it was a pretty stupid lifestyle, but back then, it was fun... then one day, i just got sick of it and realized how much money i've saved up from not going out to party.

that lifestyle just became boring and routine to me --- buy outfits every week, try to look nice, go to clubs, pretend you like the house music, pretend you think you're hot shiit, talk to random people, pretend you like them, get drunk on shiitty booze, give your number to a few guys, then go home only to realize you've spent and wasted so much money just for one night, and it wasn't worth doing at all. rinse. repeat.

i went back to a club one time with my boyfriend because one of our younger friends was having a party... it was the most awkward thing we've done and we swore never to go clubbing again.

it felt weird getting hit on by guys you know are younger than you, it felt weird being surrounded by highschool/college kids, and it felt awful looking at myself thinking -- i dressed up like a slut tonight for these KIDS?!

music was fuucking terrible too. i can't believe people still listen to hip-hop and think its cool. i mean, seriously... 

[jaemi33]

^spacemonkey - sis that's what I'm going through right now. I used to be like you a hardcore party girl, I mean I think I still go out pero it is lesser na talaga compare before. Parang talagang it became a boring routine and now I'm really craving something new, so I try to stay away from invitations. Pero temptation parin siya sa akin, so I think I'm not yet 100% over yet. Honestly, I'm craving to go out this weekend pero still iniisip ko na sa una lang masaya then pag uwi ko super pagod lang aabutin ko. Plus, ayaw ko rin na pag lalo na ako tumanda ang only past time activity ko is clubbing, so I'm trying to change my routine now. I'm single rin kasi kaya siguro I have a lot of time for myself instead of spending time with someone like bf to stay away from parties kaya siguro minsan mahirap rin ireject yung mga invitations. 

[sassa]

I used to be a hard core party girl. Started at the age of 12! Hard rock cafe, insomnia, temple bar, basement, blue onion, embassy, encore, republiq now Opus and Skye na lang.

I dont do drugs and one night stands. My friends and i just like to dance and flirt with boys haha but that was before. Now, i just go out mga once every 2 to 3 months and ayaw ko na ng maingay. Kaya opus and skye na lang. By the way im 26.

[mooncake and leaves]

never really liked it. i outgrew it before i had a chance to like it, if that makes any sense.

[theshopaholicprincess]

Not yet on 30s pero I stopped going to bars / club long long time ago even I still don't have my baby. Nung mga younger days, yes pumupunta at nagkakayayaan pero ayoko na rin kasi minsan makakasagap ka pa ng gulo or batuhan ng bote. Mabibilang din sa kamay kung ilang beses ako pumunta ng bars/club. Na enjoy ko pero hindi talaga ako yung tipo na pang morningan ang peg sa club. Ubos biyaya din pati pag lagi ka laman ng bars dahil sa drinks palang at food halos wala ka maiipon.

Isa pa yung mga closest friends ko di na rin trip mag clubbing. Mas prefer namin mag get together sa coffee shop or dinner sa resto for catch ups and great meals. Or better eh mag out of town / backpacking / overnight bonding sa resorts