Fun Topic lang: Gaano parin kahalaga ang virginity nowadays?

[mochinimir]

Sa Generation ngayon, parang go nalang ng go ang mga kabataan.. Not thinking ang mga darating na pwede pang mangyari sknila.

[aquacharly]

IM, virginity is no longer the issue....but promiscuity.   Hahaha

[angelzero]

baka mahalaga pa rin ang virginity to some people who are seriously following their religion's teachings. i have a friend kasi ganun eh. she remained a virgin before she got married. and she's the religious type. pero di ko nilalahat. that's just one person hehe

[pauleenaubrey]

In my own opinion, mahalaga pa rin yung virginity, siguro nasasabi ko lang dahil virgin pa ko, kami ng fiance ko pareho pa ring virgin. we've been in a relationship for 10 years and 7 months at ikakasal na kami next year, madalas na-tetempt na talaga kami na gawin yun pero nangako kasi kami sa isa't isa na yung virginity na namin ang pinaka-gift namin sa isa't isa after ng wedding namin. Maraming chance talaga na pwede na naming gawin yun,pero pinipigilan talaga namin at iniisip na lang namin na sayang naman yung pinaghirapan namin na i-preserve yung virginity namin ng sobrang tagal. Maraming hindi naniniwala samin, pero pag nakilala na nila kami ng lubusan, naniniwala na sila na nagsasabi talaga kami ng totoo. hehe. lahat ng friends namin excited sa wedding namin kasi alam nila may magaganap na memorable talaga after ng wedding. hehe! pareho kaming religious ni fiance, yun na rin siguro yung isa pang reason kung bakit hanggang ngaun nkakapag-pigil kami.hehe. as of now, kuntento na kami sa kiss at hug, Naka-relate ako sa post ni angelzero.

[redhead69]

Super mahalaga siguro for me? Pero i dont know. Itong bf ko binigay nya na lang sakin just like that?! wtf ewan ko maybe i need to talk to him bakit niya binigay sakin agad yon hahaha. Siguroooo sabik siya? siguro love lang talaga niya ko? Ewan ko tanong ko rin talaga sa sarili to kung important pa rin talaga to. Well i feel so lucky na sa akin niya binigay yun

[sportygurl]

just curious. ayaw nyo pa rin pasukin ang bagay na yon, but do you guys dry hump? o hindi pa kayo umabot sa ganon kasi nga natatakot kayo na baka di nyo ma control ang sarili nyo.

[superbubly]

since member ako ng NBSB importante ang virginity talaga pero sabi nila pag nandun ka na nga hindi mo na daw mapigilan, okay baka nga bumigay ako buti na lang NBSB pa rin ako

[crazycoolchic19]

Noong generation ko i dont mind virginity ..,basta bibigay ko sa taong mahal ko kahit di pa kami kasal., Ngayon, as a mother natatakot ako for my daughter, iba na kasi ngayon ..very open, very public na ang topic na sex even sa fb may mga  nababasa anak ko.

[tulips]

i think this is relative to the person. choice nya. i personally give high regards on virginity. it is a precious gem you can give your husband. well, to some guys it is not important but for those males who want to be the first, it is a gift to cherish and nakaka-taas ng ego.

me and my friends belong to one church and i can say that we did not entertain guys until we graduated in College and have work. the temptation would be easier to resist if you have support group.

once we entered a relationship, it means we are marrying that man. and we let the man know in the first place that it is our dream--to marry our first boyfriend. so kung di pa ready yung guy, he would not dare enter out of fright. haha. masyado bang ideal? that is why, our bf/gf stage lasts only for months and for 1year or two, engaged na. bakit pa patatagalin eh antagal mo na ngang hinintay ang God's perfect choice mo?

[pauleenaubrey]

once we entered a relationship, it means we are marrying that man. and we let the man know in the first place that it is our dream--to marry our first boyfriend.

sobrang naka-relate ako dito sis. first bf ko sya, first gf nya ako, at willing kami parehong maghintay until our wedding day na isuko ang bataan. hehe. at proud kami pareho na nagawa namin yun sa loob ng almost 11 years. malaking tulong din talaga kapag si God ang nasa center ng relationship nyo.

[anonymous0124]

It depends on the persons' values, I guess but it can't be denied virginity is not valued as sacred compared before. But for me, YES it's very important and should
be only given to one person whom you are going to marry.

[Maldita AKO]

In my own opinion, mahalaga pa rin yung virginity, siguro nasasabi ko lang dahil virgin pa ko, kami ng fiance ko pareho pa ring virgin. we've been in a relationship for 10 years and 7 months at ikakasal na kami next year, madalas na-tetempt na talaga kami na gawin yun pero nangako kasi kami sa isa't isa na yung virginity na namin ang pinaka-gift namin sa isa't isa after ng wedding namin. Maraming chance talaga na pwede na naming gawin yun,pero pinipigilan talaga namin at iniisip na lang namin na sayang naman yung pinaghirapan namin na i-preserve yung virginity namin ng sobrang tagal. Maraming hindi naniniwala samin, pero pag nakilala na nila kami ng lubusan, naniniwala na sila na nagsasabi talaga kami ng totoo. hehe. lahat ng friends namin excited sa wedding namin kasi alam nila may magaganap na memorable talaga after ng wedding. hehe! pareho kaming religious ni fiance, yun na rin siguro yung isa pang reason kung bakit hanggang ngaun nkakapag-pigil kami.hehe. as of now, kuntento na kami sa kiss at hug, Naka-relate ako sa post ni angelzero.

ganyan din yung 3 friends ko parehas silang 10years magbf-gf then pag kasal dun na nila binigay virginity nila.  kahit hanggang ngayon masyado pa rin silang mala-maria clara

[rochelle1025]

Virginity is overrated. And this is coming from someone who married (and left) her first and only BF. Sexual compatibility is important.

[molybdenumstudios]

Personally, I think keeping your virginity should be a personal choice rather than something that society should dictate--or something to inherit from your parents. If your parents are setting an example that they only gave up their virginity after getting married, it means that it's all up to you whether virginity should be a gift to your husband or not. But... but... if your parents did not set a good example... patay tayo diyan.

Well, being a virgin and keeping it means that you're setting an example.

[marichel]

As per my observations, parang di na masyadong issue ang virginity ngayon. Napakaliberated na mostly ng mga tao ngayon (di ko nilalahat ha). Pati sa mga friends ko, parang wala na lang sa kanila.

But for me, virginity is very special and important. Gusto ko sa future hubby ko lang siya ibigay. Haha.. sana mapanindigan ko lang. Yung mga friends ko kasi, sobrang mga liberated. They make kuwento kuwento to me and make fun of me most of the times for being a virgin. Minsan nga naiisip kong, ang 'odd man out' na ngayon is still being a virgin kahit lampas 20 na. Para bang kapag lampas 20 ka and they've learned na virgin ka pa, parang dun pa sila mashoshock! hahaha... Iba na talaga yata ngayon.

[Baby Madeline]

It can't be denied that the present society is more accepting of people who decides to give up their virginities outside marriage. People now are more liberated as compared to before na kulang na lang they wear the scarlet letter (especially unwed mothers).

When I was 16 years old, I told myself that I want to be a virgin until my wedding night. I interpreted kasi the "Thou shall not commit adultery" commandment as having sex with someone who is not your husband or your wife. Ganun ka-strict yung interpretation ko dyan and it helped me a lot to hold onto my belief. And I prayed for it every night. That's why I strongly believe that God really gives what your heart truly desires.  I didn't have a boyfriend until I graduated from college. We're a couple for 6 years before we got married this year. And yes, we both are virgins until our wedding night.

Sexual compatibility? Luckily for us, we were able to tell that we're sexually compatible by just our first French kiss.  Mushy, but true. He's not impotent, I'm not frigid. I think we can work out with that since we both love each other and we will commit to satisfy each other in all the aspects of marriage. Lahat ng bagay nakukuha sa practice 

[molybdenumstudios]

^ Wow, it's a good thing that you proved to everyone that being liberated is NEVER an excuse to give up your virginity. Well, I am at the same boat as you sissy. For one, I swear to give up my virginity to a guy who accepts me for who I am... and who truly loves me.

[joevicko]

yes sis, madami din ako naging bf bago si hubby, 4 sila lahat, and lahat yun good thing, never nag aya na gawin namin yung bagay na yun, takot lang nila sa tatay kong Judge noon sa RTC Manila hehe (RIP) namiss ko tuloy bigla tatay ko hehe.. pero di ko din masabi pag andun na sa ganung sitation. buti na lang talaga takot din ako sa magulang ko that time

[Crazylabel]

IMO, maganda ang idea na gift nyo na ang virginity nyo sa isa't-isa when you get married pero madami akong kakilala na naghiwalay dahil di sila sexually compatible at nauuwi lang sa pambababae or panlalaki dahil di satisfied sa partner nila