Ganun din naman sa mga lalaki. Syempre natural lang ma-attract ka sa attractive. Alangan naman sa pangit (personality wise and physically)
Yup natural na maattract sa attractive, obvious naman sa amin pa lang na mga lalake. what I'm saying is, sa girls bukod dun sa guys that she considers attractive, nagiging lalong attractive ang isang guy kapag other women also find him attractive. which explains why a lot of men have the dilemma (like your husband) na kung kelan nagkaasawa, saka naman lumalapit ang chicks.
sa guys on the other hand, hind factor kung maraming nagkakagusto...minsan nga ayaw pa ng lalake sa babaeng andaming may gusto kasi madalas lumalaki ang ulo o minsan ayaw na ring sumawsaw, take a girl surrounded by guys in a club, pwedeng isipin ng guys that either si girl sobrang landi or hanap na lang siya ng available or kung feeling niya mas lamang siya dun sa mga nakapaligid...lalapit siya.
Hindi naman lahat. And I believe hindi din naman siguro majority ng babae ganyan?
Sharing a successful man... only bimbos do this. Or yung mga walang means na gusto ng pera. I-refute ko man ang sinasabi mo, marami akong nawitness na ganyan sa Manila. And I feel sad about this. Parang inadequate tuloy ang mga Pinay, which should not be.
Guys na nagpapaasa? Ditch them.
Guys na may babaero tendencies? Forget about them. Pero bro, may katotohanan sa sinasabi mo kaya nga naglipana ang mga babaero sa Pinas. kasi ang daming nangungunsinti. Mga matiisin na asawa at mga lintang willing na willing magpakabit kahit may asawa na yung lalaki.
Yup hindi nga lahat, pero marami. I'm not saying na successful man = mayaman. I meant an alpha male, someone na who has his life together , someone na maraming babaeng may gusto, rather than faithful nga pero bum naman at walang direksyon ang buhay.
A guy with power and status to a woman is like a girl who has a killer body with big boobs sa guy
(pero siyempre hindi naman lahat ng guys mahilig sa big boobs pero mas marami preferred, just like girls will prefer someone na may sinabi/sikat sa lipunan ang guy niya (e.g. lawyers, doctors, artista, rockstars) a leader (marcos, putin) or a hero (e.g. pacquiao, azkals). Sabi mo rin that you are dismayed by the fact that a lot filipina women seem to be only going after rich men, but they are just acting out on their instincts to find a mate who could provide security and shelter kapag nagkapamilya sila. Women are hypergamous and would seek to find the best guy they can get, and obviously yung mga exotic na makikita mong nakadikit sa foreigners can't find a better deal anywhere else.
Briffault's law also states "All women associate with any man only so long as they derive a benefit from the association" whether it be attention, money, security, companionship or having their sexual needs met.
I agree find a good guy that does not lie or cheat. And we ladies just have to stay and maintain ourselves at huwag magpabaya sa sarili.
Pero kasi kulang pa finding a good guy. My dilemma is how to keep them away from temptation? Kahit pa gaano sila kabait, minsan sa dami ng mga malalandi around and willing mistresses, di ko na alam pano sya ilayo from these kinds of women.
don't be complacent, always work on yourself (like keeping yourself fit and beautiful) para wala siyang reason maghanap ng iba,
make him realize that you are the best girl he can get...make yourself so attractive in a way that other guys would still want you that he'd be
so paranoid, he won't have time to look at other girls...hehe
