Do you miss your wedding? What are the things that remind you of it?

[ilykeee]

Mga sis namimiss nyo parin ba yung wedding nyo? Ako kasi everytime na maririnig ko songs ng The Script or any music na nagpapaalala sa wedding nalulungkot ako. Gusong gusto kong magpakasal ulit haha. I miss the preps, I miss the actual ceremony, I miss everthing about it. It makes me sad pero sige parin sa pakinig ng mga ganyan na music. hehe. Ganito rin ba kayo?

[peenitokss]

hi sis, i do!

i always watch our video pag naaalala ko. Then magre-reminisce na. From the pagpapaalam sa parents, to pamamanhikan, sa stressful wedding preps, sa mismong wedding ceremony, at sa reception. saya lang! hehe

[ilykeee]

^nalulungkot ka rin ba sis or masaya lang talaga naaalala mo? actually ako kasi hinde ko parin kayang manuod ng wedding video ng iba kasi nalulungkot ako dahil na mimiss ko. hehe weird ko lang...

[peenitokss]

masaya ako sis.. why naman nalulungkot ka? may gusto kaba gawin non na hindi mo nagawa? or may kulang ba sa wedding?

[ilykeee]

^wala naman, siguro sobrang namimiss ko lang, sarap balikan (di maka move on  ). Wala naman akong hinde nagawa pero siguro pag titingnan ko ngayon maiisip ko na may mas maganda pa akong plano. hehe wala lang. siguro senti mode lang ako pag nakakarinig ng mga music na related sa wedding. 

[peenitokss]

ah okay.. panoorin mo na lang din video sis at mga pics nyo. Para kiligin ka instead na malungkot.

[ilykeee]

^baka namiss ko lang then na confuse lang ako na malungkot yung feeling kasi dati feeling excited tapos ngayon hinde na. Yep later panuorin ko ulit yung vid namin. Thanks sis! 

[caramelli]

hindi naman sa namimiss, masaya lang talagang alalahanin minsan lalo pag naririnig ko yung mga music na tinugtog from bridal march hanggang sa reception. minsan din kapag nakakita ako ng pic sa laptop ko, hindi ko maiwasang hindi ibrowse yung iba pang pics that day. ang sarap lang sa pakiramdam.

[tinytins]

same here sis! kakakasal lang namin last Jan. 16 pero namimiss ko na.  Gusto ko rin balikan yung wedding day kung pede lang.  Ang saya lang talaga that day.  I miss walking down the aisle, wearing my gown, wedding ceremony, seeing all my family and friends together, picture taking at reception.  Hindi pa namin nakukuha pics namin...waiting pa kami.  Tapos bumalik na ko overseas at start na work today pero yung hubby ko nasa pinas. 

[dec212012]

Mga sis, buti nahanap ko tong thread na to.. Kala ko ako lang yung weird.. Super miss ko din yung wedding as in gusto kong ulitin.. hihi.. Nung pumunta ako sa wedding reception namin after ng wedding to get yung cashbond, super naiyak talaga ako.. and yung pumunta ako sa church para kunin yung marriage contract, naiyak din ako.. Dec 21 2012 yung wedding namin last year pero until now naiiyak pa din ako kapag nakikita ko yung SDE namin pati yung mga pics namin..

[prix]

pasali mga sis.. namiss mo ko din yung wedding namin, last nov. 2011 pa yun pero gusto ko ulit ulitin.. hehe.. minsan nagrerequest ako kay hubby na panoorin namin yung video pero inaasar lang nya ako, wag na daw kasi baka umiyak lang daw ako.. hehe.. i miss everything about our wedding.. the preparations (kahit kapapanganak ko pa lang non), walking down the aisle (biglang umulan nung saktong binuksan na yung pinto.. hehe.. sign of blessing yun para sa akin), wearing my gown (kaya super ingat ako sa gown ko), mga music sa bridal march ( pinabagalan yung lakad ko kasi medyo mabilis daw.. ), wedding ceremony (solemn talaga, i love it!), picture taking with my friends & family (para kaming isang baranggay.. hehe..) reception (kahit konti lang nakain ko dahil sobrang busy sa mga program) & last is yung message namin sa isat isa (umiyak si hubby.. hehe.. kaya sinabihan ko tuloy sya ng "ang tunay na lalaki, di nahihiyang umiyak" ahaha..

[peenitokss]

^^ ako naman sis pag pinapanood ko video namin tapos yong part na nag smile ako sa video or nagtitinginan kami ni hubby, bigla ko mare-realize na napapangiti din ako. sa picture taking, pag naka smile ako, napapa smile din ako habang nanonood hahahaha

[ilykeee]

ang sarap balikan db mga sis, yung feeling na nagaabang ka sa labas ng church, tapos pag walk mo sa aisle biglang maiiyak ka na lang kasi nakita mo na yung lalakeng papakasalan mo sa dulo nag-aabang. At yung moment na mag-papaalam ka sa parents at bibigay na nila yung kamay mo sa h2b, priceless parang ibibigay ka na talaga wala ng bawian, hehe. At yung makita mo pati mga guest naluluha dahil sobra silang touch nung nagbibigay na kayo ng message sa isa't isa, it's not everyday na mawitness mo yun, maapreciate mo talaga after kasi back to normal na lahat, once lang talaga nangyayari yun at sobrang iba ng feeling pag nandoon ka na. 

[khriseeee]

I will always think back fondly of our wedding day, but do I miss it? No! It's so stressful planning a wedding! I'm glad I'm done and over with it!

[aquacharly]

Do I MISS my wedding?   No
Why will I miss it when there's this marriage and family that I gotta attend to with all my heart and energy everyday? 

Do I miss the preps and all the hoopla? No, there have been, are, and will be more parties/events with as much importance. 

So, unlike ILYKEEEE. -- no, ayoko pakasal uli.  One wedding has enough memories for me.
Do I cry in remembering? Nope.

Baka ILKEEEE misses it & cries in remembering it all 'coz she loved being the star of that show.
All I can say is:  one can be the star of a show every day;  just so long as you don't regard your wedding as the only worthwhile show. 

[ilykeee]

^Thanks for your honest opinion sis aquacharly
 

Do I MISS my wedding?   No
Why will I miss it when there's this marriage and family that I gotta attend to with all my heart and energy everyday?

Pag namiss mo naman yung wedding doesn't mean na all day na lang yun naiiisip di ba.
When we say na we miss something doesn't mean it will took alot of time and energy para lang isipin yun all day di ba? hehe. You tend to focus on the day itself or the event and compared it with marriage which is different. Malalim na usapan na yun when we talked about marriage stuff.

Do I miss the preps and all the hoopla? No, there have been, are, and will be more parties/events with as much importance. 

I get your point, stressful talaga ang pagaasikaso at pagpaplano at gastos pa yun, pero for some people yun yung namimiss nila, yung pagiging abala. Nag-iiba iba rin kasi ang tingin natin sa pagpaplano ng isang event depende sa kung anung situation ng bawat isa, like for example if you have kids, iba na talaga ang priority mo, yung pag prepare na lang ng parties for them. Anyway we are talking about the wedding preps naman which cannot be compared to other events/parties na pwede planuhin.

So, unlike ILYKEEEE. -- no, ayoko pakasal uli.  One wedding has enough memories for me.
Do I cry in remembering? Nope.

Some people cry when they remember it because of joy and some because of the negative things and bad memories. hehe

Baka ILKEEEE misses it & cries in remembering it all 'coz she loved being the star of that show.

Nope I do not cry when I remember it, and I did not say I miss it because "I loved being the star of that show" hehe I miss everything about it kasi masaya yung experience ko nung nahihirapan kami magplano ng hubby ko, magkasama namin pinlano na walang tulong mula sa iba. It's special kasi una yun event na paplanuhin nyo nung single pa ang bawat isa.

All I can say is:  one can be the star of a show every day;  just so long as you don't regard your wedding as the only worthwhile show. 

The topic is about wedding, and if you misses it, and the things that remind you of it. Ofcourse there will be more event and parties na darating at paplanuhin but that's a different topic na, we are talking about the wedding in particular. Some people remember it kasi fresh pa yung memories from that experience some don't remember it often kasi matagal na. Some people remember it from time to time, kasi may mga bagay na nagpapaalala sa kanila like when they here a song, the smell of flowers, certain scent of a perfume, na yun yung maaalala mo and it feels good na magreminisce

I definitely respect your opinion, naghahati talaga ng opinion ang mga tao and it changes as time goes by, depende sa experiences, responsibilities and priorities ng bawat tao on how they will see things but one thing's for sure that we valued it and will cherish it pag naaalala mo. 

[aquacharly]

ILYKEEEE --  we do not have to debate about our perspective nor reactions. You asked for reactions, you did not ask for people to just agree with you.  So, be prepared for differences in perception or reactions.  No need to belabor such nor prove one view is the correct  one.  Walang correct answer kasi mga IMO category yan. 

Now, if you think my manner of answering was rude -- please complain  to the mods. (MODS read and assess before you slap your warnings.). 

If my comment came across to you as being judgmental -- please be assured there was no such intent. My reactions remain, as is, the way I chose to interpret the topic you raised.  Anyway, hahaha, I subscribe to what Kimmy-Dora said:  "Walang basagan ng trip".  So if people like to spend time going over it all -- fine, it s none of my business. Fine, kahit buong linggo nila  gawin -- none of my business. 

[ilykeee]

As long as we stick to the topic ok lang to have different opinion. Sometimes elaborating things, at may mga side comments di napapansin na naliligaw na pala yung point. 

[aquacharly]

People think differently, it's not a crime, it's no big deal.
Some  people put topics in context - it's not a crime, it's no big deal.
Some  people upgrade the level of discussion, some lower it - it's no big deal.  I do both, at my pleasure.
Some people take it all literally, it's nt a crime, I don't judge/debate.

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[ilykeee]

Pag nagbackread ka sis sa first post mo, you will see na you mention me at nagrespond lang rin ako sa sabi mo about me na "baka" according to you. If you just say your opinion about the topic and not mention me I will not respond to it naman, natawag mo lang ang pansin ko kung baga. I have nothing against you and your post, yung iba rin naman nagrespond hinde rin naman agree with me, it's fine naman, as you said kanya kanya tyo ng opinion, what made me reply, for me, sana you don't have to explain things about how I feel just express your own.  Peace po.
 

Baka ILKEEEE misses it & cries in remembering it all 'coz she loved being the star of that show.
All I can say is:  one can be the star of a show every day;  just so long as you don't regard your wedding as the only worthwhile show.