how do i know he's interested

[fxy111]

hi guys!

two years ago, i was introduced to a guy by my sister and her boyfriend pero hanggang hi and nice meeting you lang.

a month ago, my sister said na she will set us up but i couldn't remember who he was pero sabi ng sis ko na he remembers me. pero masyado naging busy so walang date na nangyari

last friday we were introduced again and he said "nice meeting you again". we spent the rest of the night just talking. and i had this feeling na pwede siya for me.no numbers were exchanged and sabi ng sister ko "ang hina talaga ni guy"

wednesday, he asked my sister's boyfriend for my number although he said na "for referrals sa business ko"

'til now, walang paramdam..

he's 38, has had a girlfriend, works in advertiding (graphic designer), no facebook,twitter or instagram. according to my sister he's super torpe

question: should i keep my hopes up?

[April30]

If he don't have the guts and you do, then make the first move...

[ice angel]

Yup make the first move... Try to be friend with him first.

[jtansanco]

The other two posts are right.

Super torpe guys will never make the first move. If you like him, you make the first move and I'm sure he'll take care of the rest. Nothing wrong with it.

[fxy111]

thank you for replying:)

um,how do i make the first move na hindi super obvious na i like him. never pa kasi naka experience ng torpe na guy eh.

[jtansanco]

^ Do you have his number? Since he got your number for *business reference*, then ask something random related to his advertising. Have him quote you something or ask if you could see his portfolio since he is a graphic artist just to break the ice. Start somewhere there until you can talk about personal stuff.

Btw, during the "date", was your sister there or it's only the two of you? If your sister's there, he's definitely conscious of the words he says.

[fxy111]

hi jtansanco.

nope, i don't have his number.he asked for it from my sister's boyfriend.
my sister wasn't there and it wasn't really a date,date.wedding of a friend lang.

asked my sister to fish sa boyfriend nya pero she said na he already has my number if gusto nya magparamdam he will. so yun.

[jtansanco]

Oh geez... Plus, he has no social networking sites so it's difficult to research on him. Guess all you can do is wait. Weird naman kung ikaw pa mag-effort to get his number. Magugulat nalang siya how you got his number.. Anyway, don't rely on him to contact you. Keep your other options open.

[fxy111]

i know right? 

thank you!

[ross24]

If he's not doing something to contact you maybe he's not really interesetd? IMHO lang sis
Di ako naniniwala sa torpe and he's had gf's na pala before so alam nya kung pano magreach out sa girl kung type nya. Wag ka umasa sis, move on

[April30]

Yeah, maybe walang torpe pero merong guys na takot sa rejection. Kaya kahit gusto nila yung girl, they were hesitant to court her thinking na ayaw ni girl sa kanya.

[fxy111]

If he's not doing something to contact you maybe he's not really interesetd? IMHO lang sis
Di ako naniniwala sa torpe and he's had gf's na pala before so alam nya kung pano magreach out sa girl kung type nya. Wag ka umasa sis, move on

yun na nga iniisip ko eh. yung other sister ko tinanong sa boyfriend na friend ni guy kung may update, sabi "nandito kasi yung cousin ng balikbayan,ine-entertain nya " parang hello diba? kaya nit keeping my hopes up na pero yun nga it's been ages since i felt that kilig with someone.oh well nalang.

[fxy111]

Yeah, maybe walang torpe pero merong guys na takot sa rejection. Kaya kahit gusto nila yung girl, they were hesitant to court her thinking na ayaw ni girl sa kanya.

nasa kanya na yung bola eh...so ayun bahala nalang.oh well.

[jtansanco]

^^ Sorry ah pero medyo malabo siguro yan.. Entertain the balikbayan? How hard is it to text someone? 5 seconds? Pa-blind date ka na ulit para makalimutan mo siya.

[fxy111]

^^ Sorry ah pero medyo malabo siguro yan.. Entertain the balikbayan? How hard is it to text someone? 5 seconds? Pa-blind date ka na ulit para makalimutan mo siya.

haha.i know! how hard is it to send a message?

thanks!

[April30]

Oh we'll... Talaga sis. Yan mo na sya, maybe there's something better for you...

[fxy111]

Oh we'll... Talaga sis. Yan mo na sya, maybe there's something better for you...

oo nga eh...thank you:)

[TuscanSun]

he is not torpe. he is a closet gay.

[fxy111]

he is not torpe. he is a closet gay.

hmmm why do you think so? i'm curious.

[April30]

he is not torpe. he is a closet gay.

Ako din I'm curious...