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[Fluffyheart]

QUESTION: pag ba si guy may gf na, tapos may crush syang iba (though wala naman syang ginagawang move dun sa crush niya, basta crush lang nia), may chance bang maging cheater sya in the future?

[jtansanco]

^ Come on... Lahat naman ata ng lalake may crush kahit may gf na e. The fact is, you're the gf. Now, if he ever cheats, then that means may mali sa inyo. Don't do something that will make him cheat. And don't get intimidated by the crush. You're the gf, she's JUST a crush.

[sacred cow]

QUESTION: pag ba si guy may gf na, tapos may crush syang iba (though wala naman syang ginagawang move dun sa crush niya, basta crush lang nia), may chance bang maging cheater sya in the future?

talk about hasty generalization. even girls get a crush on other guys even when in a relationship but wouldn't take it
further, you'd be delusional to think otherwise

[bubbles_sandy]

^hindi ba kami ma offend dapat to think na interested si bf sa iba? ewan ha pero at this point wala ako crush and didnt even bother to check the boys in our office.

[sacred cow]

hindi pa kami ma offend dapat to think na interested din si bf sa iba? ewan ha pero at this point wala ako crush and didnt even bother to check the boys in our office.

are you so threatened na ipagpalit ka, jeez you girls give your guys too much credit...feeling nyo naman magugustuhan din kaagad siya ng crush nya.
kung ipagpalit ka nga, at least alam mo nang hindi ka niya talaga mahal...better nang malaman mo agad kesa kung mag-asawa na kayo at dun niya gawin.
it's just like you crushing on brad pitt, lee min ho or derek ramsay, sa tingin mo dapat magworry bf mo dahil dun, gets? 

malay natin may nagkakagusto sa'yo sa office nyo, pero like you said nga...wala kang nagugustuhan. baka ganun din yung girl sa bf mo, so why worry?

[Fluffyheart]

^ Come on... Lahat naman ata ng lalake may crush kahit may gf na e. The fact is, you're the gf. Now, if he ever cheats, then that means may mali sa inyo. Don't do something that will make him cheat. And don't get intimidated by the crush. You're the gf, she's JUST a crush.

Hindi brod. It 's the other way around!   
Yes i like the guy too, pero I'm not hoping na mag cheat sya dun sa gf niya ha. I just wanna know kung may impact ba yung crush to the point na magcheat sya dun sa gf nia. And reading your reply, mukang hindi naman dadating sa point na yun. 
And i think i should be happy naman kasi ayoko ng cheater.  (sino ba naman may gusto)

[jtansanco]

^ Haha that's funny. Hmmmm.. I dare you to test him. Makipaglandi ka nalang sa guy. Enjoy torturing him.

[Fluffyheart]

^yun na nga. pano kung makuha ko sya? of course happy di ba?  hahaha. jk.
 kaso, syempre, nakakatakot baka ganon din gawin niya sakin pag nakakita sya ng ibang maganda. kaya i want to know kung dahil sa ganyang may crush na iba e may possibility na maging cheater sya in the future (be it in his relationship w/ his current gf, or future gfs).

[nessacosme]

I have this thing about my boyfriend's friends/officemates. since puro boys sila sa office, sa account nila, they have this group sa facebook na puro kabastusan ang mga nakapost and recently, they have contests pa sa mga girls sa floor nila..tipong botohan, paramihan ng likes..
what bothers me is ang babastos na nga ng words nila, tapos etong boyfriend ko, isa sa mga binbida ng mga kaofficemates niya..

may mga prizes pa sila.. toblerone, cash and kiss daw.. the last one would probably be a joke lang, pero.. nabobother kasi ako na ganon sila mag-act, knowing that some of them have families already..

normal ba yun sa mga lalake? am i just over-reacting? its not that i dont trust my boyfriend pero dun nagsisimula ang temptations.. dun ako nagwoworry.

hope someone could help..
thanks!

[jtansanco]

^ Madali lang yan. Landian mo. Since alam mo naman may gf, if pinatulan ka niya, then cheater siya. Leave him be. But if you flirted with him and he was able to resist, then he's a good guy. Hintayin mo nalang makipagbreak siya sa gf niya bago ka magda-moves. Haha

[Madness]

pero aminin ... nakaka flatter din sa girls diba @fluffyheart?

kung wala lang siyang gf ... hayst! matagal na ba sila ng gf niya?

meron kase yung crush na parang brad pitt crush at meron namang crush na gusto niya talaga. yung tipong abot kamay. isang move na lang bibigay na (kase gusto ka rin niya) so feeling ko yung mga ganun na crush, may tendency talaga na magcheat.

kase naman boys, hindi na lang makuntento sa isa. hehe. 

[Fluffyheart]

^^ so kaya may naglolokong bf, kasi may palay na lumalapit sa manok. Haha.

^ hmmmm yes to think i like him din naman. Yun nga lang accdg sa post sa taas "SHE'S JUST A CRUSH". Kaya kung tayo si gf, no worries na kay bf. Ang mag worry ka pag si crush na yung nang da moves. 

Sayang talaga may gf na. Haha. Wala pa silang 1 year kaya for sure nasa kainitan pa ng relasyon yung dalawang yon. 

I think brad pitt crush lang naman since hindi pa naman kami formally napapakilala. Puro malagkit na tinginan at palihim na sulyapan lang ganun.  Hahaha.

[entwife]

I read this somewhere. Baka masagot yung mga ibang questions

WE ALWAYS HEAR 'THE RULES' FROM THE FEMALE SIDE
NOW HERE ARE THE RULES FROM THE MALE SIDE

THESE ARE OUR RULES!

PLEASE NOTE. THESE ARE ALL NUMBERED #1 ON PURPOSE!

1. MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS.

1. LEARN TO WORK THE TOILET SEAT. YOU'RE A BIG GIRL. IF IT'S UP, PUT IT DOWN. WE NEED IT UP, YOU NEED IT DOWN. YOU DON'T HEAR US COMPLAINING ABOUT YOU LEAVING IT DOWN.

1. CRYING IS BLACKMAIL.

1. ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. LET US BE CLEAR ON THIS ONE:

SUBTLE HINTS DO NOT WORK!
STRONG HINTS DO NOT WORK!
OBVIOUS HINTS DO NOT WORK!
JUST SAY IT!

1. YES AND NO ARE PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE ANSWERS TO ALMOST EVERY QUESTION.

1.. COME TO US WITH A PROBLEM ONLY IF YOU WANT HELP SOLVING IT. THAT'S WHAT WE DO. SYMPATHY IS WHAT YOUR GIRLFRIENDS ARE FOR.

1. ANYTHING WE SAID 6 MONTHS AGO IS INADMISSIBLE IN AN ARGUMENT. IN FACT, ALL COMMENTS BECOME NULL AND VOID AFTER 7 DAYS.

1. IF YOU THINK YOU'RE FAT, YOU PROBABLY ARE. DON'T ASK US.

1. IF SOMETHING WE SAID CAN BE INTERPRETED TWO WAYS AND ONE OF THE WAYS MAKES YOU SAD OR ANGRY, WE MEANT THE OTHER ONE.

1. YOU CAN EITHER ASK US TO DO SOMETHING OR TELL US HOW YOU WANT IT DONE. NOT BOTH.
IF YOU ALREADY KNOW BEST HOW TO DO IT, JUST DO IT YOURSELF.

1. WHENEVER POSSIBLE, PLEASE SAY WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO SAY DURING COMMERCIALS.

1. CHRISTOPHER COLUMBUS DID NOT NEED DIRECTIONS AND NEITHER DO WE...

1. ALL MEN SEE IN ONLY 16 COLORS, LIKE WINDOWS DEFAULT SETTINGS..
PEACH, FOR EXAMPLE, IS A FRUIT, NOT A COLOR. PUMPKIN IS ALSO A FRUIT. WE HAVE NO IDEA WHAT MAUVE IS.

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1 .. YOU HAVE TOO MANY SHOES.

1. I AM IN SHAPE. ROUND IS A SHAPE!

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[sixteen16]

thank you jtansanco and jaymejorrol! naintindihan ko na.. nature pala talaga ng guy ang ganon. naging selfish lang ako at makitid ang utak hehe.. kasalanan ko bakit nauwi sa hiwalayan but we are ok now.. i asked for forgiveness..

thank you sa example mo jaymejorrol dahil ganyan sya.. parang sya yung tinutukoy mo sa example mo.. thank you ng marami..

[sportygurl]

best friends kayo ni girl bago kayo naging bf/gf. nung hindi pa kayo, lahat naiikkwento mo sa kanya, lalo na tungkol sa mga babae na type mo. ngayon na kayo na, kung may crush ka o type na ibang babae, ikkwento mo pa rin ba sa kanya o hindi na?

[Chinito]

ikikwento ko pa din. pero i aassure ko pa din na mas gusto ko siya at mas love. D

[jtansanco]

^^ Kwento pa rin but not to the point na magseselos si girl. Parang, I will tell her na crush ko yung isang girl but I will also tell her the flaws ni crush and tell gf na buti nalang siya yung gf ko. Something like that.

[jaymejorrol]

thank you jtansanco and jaymejorrol! naintindihan ko na.. nature pala talaga ng guy ang ganon. naging selfish lang ako at makitid ang utak hehe.. kasalanan ko bakit nauwi sa hiwalayan but we are ok now.. i asked for forgiveness..

thank you sa example mo jaymejorrol dahil ganyan sya.. parang sya yung tinutukoy mo sa example mo.. thank you ng marami..

glad we/i could help.. nasabi ko lang talaga ang katotohanan at nakikita ko sa ibang guys sa paligid ko.. kahit ako ganyan din eh.. but still dapat maging open parin kayo sa isa't-isa.. andun parin dapat yung transparency kahit papano para mas mabuo ang trust..

^hindi ba kami ma offend dapat to think na interested si bf sa iba? ewan ha pero at this point wala ako crush and didnt even bother to check the boys in our office.

depende yan kung paano pinapakita ni bf kung gaano nya ka-crush si girl.. kapag gumagawa sya ng moves para mapansin sya like texting, meeting, chatting.. i think mag imbistiga ka lang muna.. pero kapag tingin mo nag-iba na sya, nawalan ng time for example.. ma-bother ka na..

[jaymejorrol]

best friends kayo ni girl bago kayo naging bf/gf. nung hindi pa kayo, lahat naiikkwento mo sa kanya, lalo na tungkol sa mga babae na type mo. ngayon na kayo na, kung may crush ka o type na ibang babae, ikkwento mo pa rin ba sa kanya o hindi na?

oo.. ganyan ako.. kinikwento ko kung may crush ako.. MAS OK NA MALAMAN NYA SA AKIN KESA MALAMAN PA SA IBA.. hahaha! iba kasi ang dating nun pag ganun di ba? at least una palang alam nya na.. and may tiwala sya na hindi ako naglilihim sa kanya.. wala naman masama kung may crush ka as long as hanggang dun lang yun.. and kung sa tingin mo mahuhulog ka sa crush mo, ikaw na tong mag pigil sa sarili mo.. tukso yan eh..

QUESTION: pag ba si guy may gf na, tapos may crush syang iba (though wala naman syang ginagawang move dun sa crush niya, basta crush lang nia), may chance bang maging cheater sya in the future?

there is a chance.. lalo na kung may ginawa kang mali.. opportunity yun para mas mapalapit sya sa crush nya.. kaya as long as crush pa lang talaga ang meron sya sa girl, maging challenge yun sayo para mas makuha ang attention nya.. stay sweet and pretty..

grabe.. 4 days na bakasyon dami na palang post.. haha.. puro late na replies ko

[bubbles_sandy]

ilang days normally nakakatagal ang guy ng walang sex?