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[ice angel]

just asking: kayo ba guys pag sinabi niyo sa close friend niyo na girl na siya ang dahilan kung bakit naki relation kayo sa isang girl na hindi niyo gusto. ano ang ibig sabihin ng guy sa close friend niya?

[jtansanco]

^ I don't get it.. Maybe he friendzoned the girl and ayaw niya magkagusto si girl sa kanya? Pero hindi rin e... Or maybe taken si close friend and the only way para di magselos si guy is to court some random girl.

[Lady Czarina]

hi guys im new here so be nice to me lol my question is can a younger guy like 5years younger than the girl would commit seriously to that girl the guy is good looking is it possible na magseryoso siya sa girl kahit pa there are lots of sexy and pretty girls out there pa TIA

yes! my brother is 11 yrs younger than his wife. nung bf gf stage pa lang nila, sis in law is in japan, my bro never cheated on her, he's the type pa naman na lapitin ng girls (and gays!) 7 yrs na silang married and they now have 2 chikitings..

[sacred cow]

just asking: kayo ba guys pag sinabi niyo sa close friend niyo na girl na siya ang dahilan kung bakit naki relation kayo sa isang girl na hindi niyo gusto. ano ang ibig sabihin ng guy sa close friend niya?

uhmm maybe he thought that the best way to get over you is to get under someone else...lol
which is really stupid kasi nagsettle siya sa babaeng hindi niya naman gusto

[jtansanco]

^ Friends with benefits naman pala e.. They seem to be the mature types so that means the guy is yearning for a wifey material since single dad na siya. He doesn't want to be single forever but wala siya magagawa, may family na si girl. But to think the girl is cheating on her husband... In short, not a good ending in any way you look at it.

[sacred cow]

@jtansanco: yes! very taken si girl. actually friends with benefit sila ni guy. and super magkasundo sila sa lahat ng bagay. upto now ganun p din sila. nashock si girl ng sabihin ni guy sa kanya na siya ang dahilan kya need nya magkagf.

@scared cow: ibig mo sabihin nadevelop si guy kay girl kaya nya ginawa yun? si girl may family. si guy is single dad.

not necessarily, kelangan niya lang ng pamparaos and someone to fill that void

[ice angel]

@ jtansanco and scared cow. she just got the answer today. ang sabi ng guy sa kanya kaya daw niya sinabi na siya ang dahilan dahil naisip niya na need niya magka gf para maging comfortable sila sa isat isa na tulad ng dati. maybe si guy at si girl ay nafafall to each other na. hay ang gulo ng situation. 

[leighleigh]

"Or are there any guys na would consider the deed okay, I mean, if the guy learnt about the deed, mas na L pa siya. OR would you rather know or ask your wife/gf to have a sexual affair to other guys? "

I am a lady and if my man asked me this, I'll be very disappointed.

There are couples who are into open relationships..it's a lifestyle that has its own sets of rules and it's a choice that the couple makes together.  If it's a lifestyle that you want, then find a partner who wants it too. 

[ravena]

mahirap po ba mag flush ng toilet?

[jtansanco]

^ Some guys prefer to save water so they don't flush. At least I'm not one of those guys since I flush and clean the toilet bowl all the time in my room.

[leighleigh]

maganda na boploks or pangit na street smart 

I know I know,  this is like the most cliche question of all..LOL, but it's always refreshing to hear new takes.

[sacred cow]

maganda na boploks or pangit na street smart 

I know I know,  this is like the most cliche question of all..LOL, but it's always refreshing to hear new takes.

the former, I doubt being only street smart without being physically attractive would attract any guy

[jtansanco]

^ Easy, yung maganda syempre. Can't teach anyone beauty.

[hisana]

Yes, beauty wins yet again. 

(This is off topic, but I just want to say that while men always choose maganda, pansin ko eh hindi naman impossibly high ang standards nila when it comes to beauty (di kagaya nating girls, who like to zero in on flaws). Hindi kailangan maging beauty queen or classic beauty or swimsuit model. Sometimes cute will do. Or even if medyo nakulangan sa cute department, pwede daanin sa pag-aayos. Slim down. Color your hair. Take care of your skin. Wear flattering, figure-hugging outfits! Nakikita ko yung mga sinasabing maganda ng ibang guy friends ko, at yung iba nadaan lang sa ayos. Just my two cents on the matter. There's this blog, The Rules Revisited, that can expound on this. Supposedly written by a guy.)

[sacred cow]

^ yup, tama yun

One fashion rule I'd like to share from "It's Your Move"

"If you are pretty, dress pretty. If you're average, dress to look interesting"

hisana, could you expound on zeroing in on flaws...I'd like to hear what women usually find a dealbreaker even if initially ok na sana yung guy

[jtansanco]

^^ Actually, we guys don't look for the drop-dead gorgeous type of girls. If she's "too beautiful" (high maintenance), we'd be more intimidated than interested. Plus, every person is beautiful in their own way. It's just a matter of preference.

[sportygurl]

yun love mo para sa babae na dati mo minahal ay never mo na ulit naramdaman sa ibang babae...kahit sa current gf mo o even sa wife mo. possible ba un ganon?

[jaymejorrol]

^ yap.. possible yan.. pero past na yun.. move on! kasi, when you think na mas better ang love mo from the past, then bakit kau ngbreak? since wala na kayo.. all you have to do is to focus sa current one mo.. hindi mo siguro naa-appreciate ang current love mo kasi makatali ka pa rin sa past.. or pwede ka naman mag-open up sa current partner about your likes and interests..

[Madness]

Or baka inlove ka lang sa thought pero hindi sa mismong tao.

Meron kase ganun eh. feeling mo inlove ka pa sa past bf/gf mo. pero pag binalikan mo saka mo lang malamaman na inlove ka lang sa thought na inlove ka pero hindi na sa tao 

kaya dapat move on na

[jtansanco]

yun love mo para sa babae na dati mo minahal ay never mo na ulit naramdaman sa ibang babae...kahit sa current gf mo o even sa wife mo. possible ba un ganon?

Yeah, that's possible. Your mind can make her the most perfect girl in the world and to think na ex mo siya, a part of you will always want to chase her back because she is "perfect" after all. Although in reality, she's not like that.