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[freelancer]

^we've been together for almost 4 years, his mom died recently and ang naging coping mechanism nya are the girls left and right! I'm not sure if he still loves me or I'm just good for his ego? or kelangan nya lang ako? He told me once na pag okay na kami pareho magpapakasal na kami. I know I'm the strongest and most stupid person on earth!

[jtansanco]

^ I see.. In his case kasi, he was able collect a lot and he's in the process of selection nalang. If you still want him, tell him to stop seeing the other girl or you'd break up with him. Let him choose kung lust or love ba gusto niya. Important lang kasi is mawala yung other girl because if maging kayo nga and he still keeps the other one, sira family niyo.

[freelancer]

^thanks a lot! OT na ata ako. I tried, pero ayaw nya, hayaan ko daw muna syang gawin yung mga gusto nyang gawin. ang importante ako pa din daw ang hinaharap nya sa pamilya nya. that is so low i know! ayaw din naman nya kong i let go. oh well! pero diba yung mga guys naman pag ayaw na nila ayaw na nila? i mean kahit ano pang meron kayo before once wala na talagang love titigilan ka na nila. tama ba?

[jtansanco]

^ Lucky guy over there. Parang ikaw talaga yung malakas yung tama sa kanya e. Buti nakakayanan mo yan. Well, technically yeah, but since mukhang fubu niya yung isa, ibig sabihin parang siya yung attached sa other girl. What does she have that you don't? Since you allow him to play around knowing that you know it now, what more if kasal na kayo? What if mag-away kayo? Then instead trying to mend things, maghanap lang siya ng fubu para matanggal niya sa isip yung problema.

[schumine]

Do men complain about women the way we complain about men?

[jtansanco]

^ Yeah. Just goes both ways..

Girls                                                                   Guys
Where are the nice guys?                                     Why can't we find any girls we like?
Bakit hindi niya ako pinapansin? (when in a fight)   Bakit hindi siya nagrereply sa texts ko?
Baka may landiin si guy sa boy's night out.            Baka may landiin si girl sa girl's night out.
Bakit panay gym, basketball, video games siya?    Bakit ang tagal niya sa CR?   
Ayoko may ibang close na girl friend si guy.          Ayoko may ibang close na guy friend si girl.

So, technically, it's just the same...

[cute_pompom]

Do you guys hate it if your girlfriend tells you that she doesn't want you to be friends with your ex? What will you do to assure her?

[jtansanco]

^ I don't mind. But if she doesn't want me to be friend with my ex, then she shouldn't be friends with her ex too. Can't really do anything to assure but tell her, "trust me".

[cute_pompom]

^ I don't mind. But if she doesn't want me to be friend with my ex, then she shouldn't be friends with her ex too. Can't really do anything to assure but tell her, "trust me".

If the guy deletes the ex's number, what does it mean?

[bluestocking]

^Guys are not into deleting numbers, fb, twitter as friends. It's either he has ill feelings, or resisting the urge to text his ex or pinagalitan ng current gf
Most likely, kabisado din naman number ni ex.

^^ Trust me seldom works. Ask the question back to the new gf, "How would you feel assured?" Make suggestions like, I won't allow myself to be in the same vicinity with her, I won't come to the party where the girl is if you're not okay with it.

[schumine]

what usually inside a man's mind?

[crazycoolchic19]

Guys question , bakit may mga guys na attached, married  and with kids yung girl  and happy naman si girl sa married life nya eh nililgawan pa rin ng single and married guys din? Or sadyang may girl na lapitin lang talaga?

[jtansanco]

^ I think same lang din with girls. Mas challenging kasi ligawan ang attached na compared sa single. These are people who love playing the "game".

^^ Anything goes depends on the situation.

If the guy deletes the ex's number, what does it mean?

He's trying to forget her. If I don't delete an ex or someone I want to forget, there's a tendency I'd text her. But if her number is not on my phone book anymore, I'd be lazy to text her and just not text her.

[cute_pompom]

If the guy's the one who broke up with the girl several years ago, does that mean that he's totally over her? Do guys easily recover if he was rejected by the girl he liked and dated once? Like is it possible for him to forget that girl after a couple of months and if he started dating again after? 

[schumine]

Bakit yung lalake ang sweet bigla bigla iiba mood. Ano ba problema niyo?

(gigil lang) hahahaha..

[jtansanco]

^^ A guy can completely forget a girl if he has set his eyes on someone new already. But if he hasn't met anyone else, then there's still a chance he'd still be thinking of the most recent girl he was attached to.

^ Kung naging sweet kami, dapat lambingin niyo rin kami. What we give to you, we should also receive the same.

[schumine]

nilambing ko naman siya in return. inborn na sakin un.bigla nalang nagiba ng mood.

[cute_pompom]

If your girlfriend will be giving you an anniversary gift, what would you like to receive?

[jtansanco]

^^ Bigyan mo ng smack kisses. Haha but i don't know... Baka bad mood lang talaga.

^ I have no idea.. I'm not really a materialistic guy so I can't really answer this question personally..

[schumine]

LDR e. ang hirap lang din talaga

When your bf tells you "2 years na lang matatapos na rin kapatid ko, malaya na ko". Does this mean your not his priority now?