Sinasabihan nya akong "Mataba, nag away tuloy kami

[imbisibol_]

Same Lang Tayo sis, lagi din ako sinasabihan ni hubby na mataba na daw ako, 5 feet flat height ko and 65 lbs ang weight.

please tell me you mean that in kg, not in lbs because if you think you're fat, then i'm off the scales.. 

[April30]

please tell me you mean that in kg, not in lbs because if you think you're fat, then i'm off the scales.. 

Hehe, sorry sis, you're right. It's 65 kgs. Not lbs. [email] peace!

[imbisibol_]

April30-

threadstarter- losing weight is certainly attainable.  i've packed in the pounds myself after our wedding, but i can get away with it (to a certain degree) because i have small face.  but within the last 13 days, i've managed to lose 9.6 lbs. 

my .02s which may or may not work for you:  no breakfast, no carb lunch (sometimes a slice of cheese lang), fasting on some days, splenda on everything, no dinner, and of course- hitting the gym for 50 minutes every other day (or everyday if i can keep my lazy demons at bay).

but like what somebody else has mentioned- please want to lose weight and look good mainly for yourself, and not for the husband (that can be a close second).  it feels good to slip into size 0 clothes and have people give you a second look as you're walking by. 

[ebiko]

hay sis,

baliktad naman tayo, ako mismo ang nagsasabi kay hubby na "ang taba-taba ko na, ang hirap ng bumili ng damit, etc., etc." -- ang sinasabi ni hubby -- "ibig sabihin niyan, hindi kita ginugutom ng pagmamahal ko"   

[kalaiyaan]

Buti nga ikaw sis hubby mo nagsasabing mataba ka, ako mga kaopisina ko. (bwisit) im 5ft 7.5 inches 63 kilos. Hindi naman ako mataba talaga pero para sa kanila mataba na ako. ( mga itsik na payat kasi)
kung ikukumpara kasi before ako magbuntis na 57kilos lang ako. talagang lumaki ako ngayon, napunta sa hita (lolz) hindi naman ako mahilig sa unhealthy foods at tumatakbo naman ako, pero sadyang mahirap paliitin ang hita at pwet. LOLZ

to TS eat healthy at stay fit. Para magandang magdala ng damit

[eeekar]

Sa akin eh ok lang na i-judge ako ng ganun kung physically fit si hubby.
Pero if hinde, then try to lose the weight together.
Then give yourselves a romantic date whenever you reach your goal

[tannya]

motivation yan for me sa pagpapapayat ko now to look even better

[stylishmomy]

There was a survey done across the US that helped uncovered the inner lives of men, and it was compiled in the book For Women Only.

There were 2 survey questions about a wife's appearance

“Imagine your wife/significant other is overweight, wears baggy sweats when you are home, and only does her hair and make up to go out. She hates being overweight, but nothing much changes and lately you’ve seen her eating more sweets. What goes through your mind? [Choose all correct answers]

This is the result
note to mod: That's a jpeg file, not an article. So I'm not advertising a post. oki?

“Is this statement true or false? “I want my wife/significant other to look good and feel energetic. It is not as important that she look just like she did the day we met. It is more important that she make the effort to take care of herself for me now.” [Choose one answer]

This is the result

The truth is, when you make an effort to take care of yourself (kahit para sa sarinling kaligayahan mo lang), he will feel loved.

interesting results sis, thanks for posting

I agree na we need to take care of ourselves, di lang para satin but most importantly for our husband. I've reached my biggest at 165lbs-180lbs after giving birth to my 2nd child and now Im 120lbs and Im just about your height. That was FAT, I asked hubby before if I was fat, his answer was "no honey you're okay, that's the baby weight" but we definitely cant keep fooling ourselves na it's baby fat if our child is already 3 years old!

He never told me to lose weight, he told me "if you want to lose weight, then do it dear, I am not forcing or demanding you" that didnt motivate me since nag fifeeling ako na I still look okay which was far from the reality.

Dont feel bad if you're husband is telling you the truth sis, you should be happy and take that as a motivation to lose weight. We have to admit the fact that men are visual creatures. Im sure our husbands are not demanding/expecting us to get our pre baby body back but at least, we shouldnt let go of ourselves and just be okay with being heavy.

I decided on my own na it's time to do something about the weight, it's not easy but it's really worth it because of it, I got my hubby to change his eating habbit as well, we jog together and he even helps me with my workout. I am definitely a happier, less insecure wife now.

Good luck sa weight loss sis and you can ask your hubby to help you out

[miss resilient]

keri lang naman pero ibig bang sabihin pag sinlaki ka na ng aparador di ka na niya mahal? parang ang babaw naman nun huh! physical lang ba basis ng love niya sa yo..it is not acceptable for me.

[cream_puffs]

ako naman pag sinasabihan akong tumataba e binabara ko na lang yung hubby ko. sinasabihan ko, at least ako naranasan kong maging payat. ikaw forever ka ng mataba mula pagkabata ;P tapos ayun tatahimik na lang sya

try mo na lang sis magbawasbawas ng rice saka meat at softdrinks. unti unti magiging sexy ka uli. kahit abutin pa ng 10 yrs ang pag-diet. haha. slowly but surely ba 

[EllaBratin]

Sinasabihan din ako ni hubby ng mataba, at sinasagot ko siya ng Oink Oink... 
Hindi namin napag-awayan ang issue na ganyan pero syempre, nagka-impact rin yun sa akin kaya nagda-diet na ako. 

[glamorosa_09]

keri lang naman pero ibig bang sabihin pag sinlaki ka na ng aparador di ka na niya mahal? parang ang babaw naman nun huh! physical lang ba basis ng love niya sa yo..it is not acceptable for me.

The message is not like, "You're fat, I don't love you anymore."
It's more of, "You're fat, the way you look matters to me. But it seems like you don't care about what's important to me. You keep on eating like there's no tomorrow pa rin." Something like that.

As a wife, gusto rin natin presentable yung husband natin. Pag sloppy yung suot nila, we ask them to change. Pag balbas sarado na, we ask them to shave. But if they refused to, what can we do? Do we stop loving them? Of course not.

Yun nga lang sa fat, it cannot be changed, it has to be reduced with discipline. Mas mahirap. But if the wife refused to, what can the husband do? Wala rin. LOL! Forever syang mabother at makuntento sa patukso tukso na lang or better yet accept nya na misis nya.

Hindi naman sa hindi ka na mahal dahil kasing laki mo na ang aparador nyo. Naba-bother lang sya na nakikita kang kasing laki ng aparador kaya lagi nangungulit. Ganun naman di ba, pag naba bother ang isang tao over something nangungulit sya or minsan nag-na-nag na. But of course if you learn to accept yung bothersome na yun, hindi ka na mangungulit.

So whether magpapapayat si wife or not, kung alam nyang importante sa hubby nya yun at nabobother sya na malaki si wife, desisyon na ni wife yun, kung dededmahin nya si hubby or she will do something about it.

Pero ikaw ba? Gusto mo bang dedmahin ka rin ng hubby mo pag bothered ka about something?

[bitt3rswit]

Para sa akin mas gusto ko nga na sabihin sa akin ni hubby na mataba na ako kesa wala siyang sinasabi at hinayaan niya akong tumaba at maging bola. Imagine niyo na lang I gained 10 lbs. from 115lbs to 125lbs.. Ako na mismo nag sasabi sa sarili ko na ang taba taba ko na.

Inaasar ka lang ng hubby mo sis. kaya gawin mong positive ang situation. mag exercise ka na lang at isama mo siya. para at least may quality time pa rin kayo.

[gepayat]

sis baliktad tayo, ako ang nagsasabi sa husband ko na mataba sya. pero sa totoo lang parehas kami nag gained ng weight after ng kasal. madalas sagot sakin ng husband ko, hindi mo na ba ko love kase tumaba ako.. sagot ko sa kanya, siyempre love na love padin kahit tabachingching ka..

yun sayo sis try mo nalang din biruin si hubby mo. or sagutin mo sya na wag sya mag alala na kahit nag gain ka ng weight maganda ka padin. then tell him na bigyan ka lang ng tamang tiyempo or panahon na iready ang sarili para makapag diet. mahirap kase biglain ang body baka mang hina ka.