Couples in LDR

[graZiousa]

Mga sis, hindi nagwowork samin ni hubby yong YM, FB etc.. sales man sya sa isang cigarette company. Syado syang busy sa trabaho nya ayaw ng storya kasi may hinahabol na kota...di naman matagalang magkita, every week umuuwi sya or ako ang pumupunta sa kanya. every night nag uusap...gnun lang kami..

[sweetpea_1104]

my husband works abroad, seaman for 5 years already. we've been married for 4 years na but mag-bf at gf kami for 9 yrs. i met him in college while he was taking maritime. from there, i already
set my mind that i should learn how to live with it.. na eventually we will not be together everyday not unlike most of the married couples.

mahirap na masaya kasi parang laging bago andun pa din yung kilig, hiyaan lalo na kapag bagong uwi. mahirap kapag paalis na at walang means of communication.

just to share with you, my husband is on their way to mexico right now from china. 30 days ang travel time, meaning walang signal which means NO Text, No Calls, No FB, no chat wala lahat.

Inggit ako sa mga husband at wife na magkasama everyday pero i don't think it will work for us kasi mahirap din naman kung andito lang kaming 2 nakatunganga haha!

[princessrio]

eto na kami.. magkasama na kami for almost 3 months. namimiss ko ang pinas from time to time especialy my family. pero masaya kami. kami lang mag-asawa at yung baby namin. he takes care of us more than i think he would. senyorang senyora ang peg ko! haha.. spoiled wife.

[simplykristine08]

^ good for you, sis. malapit ang Oman sa UAE, diba?

[princessrio]

yup.

[simplykristine08]

^ i am here in UAE with my family. LDR din before

[Halee]

Hindi naman nakakatulong sa mga tulad nating nsa LDR ang mga video scandal involving married/committed (man/woman) with the third party 

[simplykristine08]

^ napanood mo ba yung kay Wally Bayola with the EB Babe dancer?

[eklea]

^omg i was able to watch the vid, grabe kumirot puso ko! naawa ko sa mga dalaga niya anak i will be so much in pain if i'm one of them, much worst being his WIFE!

[simplykristine08]

^ ay sobra. ang sakit nun sa pamilya nya buti yung kay chito, pareho silang single at magjowa talaga.

[k_heart]

Grabe that wally scandal hanggang sa LDR Thread.he!he! pero yes,kawawa naman wife at kids nya.
Ni hindi man lang nya iniisip. Gumawa na nga ng kataksilan,may ebidensya na kita ng lahat.Kalurkey.

Going back to LDR topic, nung young pa ang parents ko, LDR din sila kasi marine engineer yung father
ko for a shipping company,worldwide yung travel ni father ko. Hindi pa uso ang cellphones.
Kaya slow mail lang communication. Dumadaan ang months bago sila makapag communicate.
Actually, napakaliit na nga ng mundo ngayon compared before. Almost 8 years din na ganun sila
before bumababa ang father  ko para magbusiness. In fairness, nakasurvive sila at never
sila nag-away sa babae. 

[simplykristine08]

^ na-open ko lang sis dahil sa post ni sis Halee. naisip ko baka may konek, yun kasi ang bagong chika ngayon

[Halee]

I really feel sorry for the wife and the kids.

By the way, I will meet my hubby at the airport on Sunday (very early morning). Kahit meet and greet lang okay na rin at least maibibigay ko yong gusto nyang pasalubong. Wish ko lang late yong sundo nila.

[simplykristine08]

^ true. to think 20yrs na silang married at dalagita na ang mga anak nya. ang sakit nun sa family nya anyway, goodluck sis. atleast mayakap mo man lang si hubby

[Myealexis21]

IMHO to be able to survive an LDR relationship you really have to LOVE and TRUST each other so much.  Kapag wala ang isang ingredient na yan, mahirap talaga.  I do struggle everyday about the trust, lalo na sa mga balita about cheating, tapos may mga kakilala ka pa na manggagatong... 

Block ko lang all the negative thoughts and pray everyday na kayanin namin yung ganitong set up.  I don't want to worry on things I don't have control over baka malosyang lang ako sa kakaisip at kakagawa ng mga scenario na ikatatakot ko. 

[sima]

In all relationships, communication is the key.  Maswerte na nga ang mga LDR couples dahil ngayon they can get in touch with their love ones in real time with the technology at hand.  Eh dati, you have to make voice tapes and write letters by hand sa yellow pad paper hahahaha.

Mahirap ang long distance relationship but if both parties are invested in the relationship, if both parties are willing to work for it, then the relationship will flourish.  If not, then the relationship will flounder.  Pero sana, kahit man lang every once in a while, both can physically see each other and rekindle the passion in person and hindi yung puro virtual na lang

[shayshay]

We maximize the use of the internet. Fb chat, ym, skype

[rea11]

Ldr since bf/gf then after a year nagpakasal kami Ldr parin till now kasi inaayos pa yung immigrant visa ko sa US hopefully next year makasama ko na sya though twice a year naman sya umuuwi and 3months ang vacation nya skype kahit sa iPhone or nasaan ako skype parin hindi kami nawawalan ng communication pag gising at bago matulog nag uusap kami.thank you sa technology malayo man parang malapit din

[freeswan]

ngayon na medyo may topak ang whatsapp, delayed ang notification ng mga messages, napadownload si bf ng Viber and Wechat. d pwede na mag aaway kami
dahil lang may topak ang app. Tapos every night kami Facetime. kahit pagod na sa work, basta mag say goodnight lang okay na yun.

[k_heart]

In less than 20 days, hindi na kami LDR ni hubby. will be going to US for his graduation together
with our kids. How time flies talaga! Thank you lord! : )