Married : MAR 2002 - NOV 2012

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A wife that is well-loved, spoiled at the same time for 10++ wonderful years.
Blessed with 2 beautiful kids.

"Everything happens for a reason." ~ I have loved this quote for years until the day where I can't reflect why did God take my husband

Widowed at 32.

Are you holding the same status?

[k_heart]

Aww,hugs to you sis! : (
Not on the same boat as you are. Happily married to my OAL. Praying for you sis!

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Thank you sis. Will never forget that I was happily married but life can be so surprising at times. Embrace the husband and say your ILYous everyday. 

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There's also a thread here sis, na same boat as you are. Hanapin ko lang ha!

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Really? It would be good to see/read how others are coping...

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^ i have an officemate/ friend who is in the same boat as you are.After months of battling the sickness at a hospital,her hubby has joined our creator last October. 1 year palang silang married at no kids yet. although matagal na silang partners. She celebrated Christmas outside the country kasi sad na sad sya talaga. and according to her everytime na sad sya,may makikita syang butterfly kahit nasan sya.

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Sis, if you don't mind, feel free to share your experience with us. It can be therapeutic! : )
God Bless sis! : )

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I'm sorry for your loss sis.
Just keep on praying, staying with your friends.

"We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope."
..is my quote for you for today.
It will take time and effort for you to recover pero I hope someday makilala ka ng isa pang makakasama habang buhay. You're bata pa naman eh.

If you need kausap, just pm me.

[patchi2012]

I'm sorry for your loss sis, i can't find the right words to say talaga since i wasn't in the situation, but magpaka tatag ka, since you have kids who are counting on you too. For sure that 10yrs na magkasama kayo you've collected good memories together na maging inspiration for you and magbigay ng strength in times of pangungulila. For sure sis, he'll be with you in spirit. May God be with you in this difficult times.

right now, i want to hug my husband, pano ldr kami, 6mos palang na married.

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@k_heart
thanks for sharing sis. i really appreciate this. if i have the means, nagpakalayo-layo din siguro muna ako. but we have celebrated the holidays with my family in batangas (hubby's side and mine).

@break_free
that's what i do now. although i told God na hihintayin ko yung reason kung bakit nangyari 'to. masakit but iniisip ko na lang na hindi nahirapan hubby ko but i miss him so much. walang day na hindi ako umiiyak. eveywhere i look, talagang may isang bagay na magpapaalala saken na he's just there. i still can't tell kung kaya ko pang magmahal ulit...

@patchi2012
thank you also sis. yup, wonderful memories talaga 'cause kami yung family na hindi sanay na magkakalayo kaya din siguro sobrang sakit. where's your husband? nagwowork ba siya abroad?

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I am so sad for you sis, I got married din in 2002, and I am only a year younger than you are. Alam ko ang feeling na mahal na mahal niyo ang isa't-isa and i cannot even imagine the pain of losing your husband so early. What happened sis, if you don't mind me asking? Naisip ko din ang mga anak mo, for sure they are too young pa to lose their father....

Totoo talaga na you should express your love to each other everyday. I will pray for you and your children.

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^ massive heart attack sis. malungkot and masakit lang because like what you said it was too early. madami pa kaming plans eh... pero ganon talaga siguro. so glad that i was able to love him that much. he lived a very happy life.

you have kids na?

[caterpillar-girl]

I’m not in the same situation sis, but my fiance was. You see, before I came in the picture, he was married. He and his wife were together for 8 years as boyfriend girlfriend. Then she got pregnant, and when she was 8 months pregnant, they got married in church. They got married December. By January, she was dead. She and their baby girl. Both died during childbirth. Wala pa silang one month mag asawa patay na buong pamilya niya. He was a widower at 29.

I’m so so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain, sis, but as my fiance would say, hindi mo pa katapusan. Abot langit daw yung sakit na pinagdaanan nya, but look, he’s getting married again. To me.

Virtual hug to you sis. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through But I will pray that you endure this difficult time and come out on the other side much stronger and with as much love to give not only to your children, but to yourself and other people who may still come into your life.

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^ Thank you sis. This is one reason why I decided to write this. Iba din yung feeling ng nakakuha ka ng comfort/kind words sa ibang tao aside from friends & family that surrounds me. Alagaan mo yung fiance mo ha? Sobrang kelangan ka niya... Good luck sis!

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^^ Pano pala kayo nag-meet sis? Hirap din siguro nga sa guy kapag siya yung nawalan ng asawa / anak...

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sis, meron akong friend naaksidente sa motor hubby nya sa mismong birthday pa.  Pinilit nya magmove on para sa 2 kids niya na parehong bata pa.  Sabi ko nga sa kanya hindi ko kaya pag sakin nangyari iniisip ko pa lang naiiyak na ako haayst

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^ 2 years ago, our classmate passed away and sobrang naiyak din ako for his wife. I even told myself na kapag saken mangyari yun, mahihirapan talaga ako but last Nov, hubby was taken back away from us. Thank God, nakakaya ko yung situation namin ngayon but talagang super hirap. Everywhere I look siya yung naalala ko. We've been through a lot eh. I married him when I was only 22. Most people thought that I was pregnant and were both in a hurry pero talagang it was just in the name of love. At least, yung kay hubby, natural death naman but it's just too early. I know mas masakit kung accident... How long have you been married sis?

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^ massive heart attack sis. malungkot and masakit lang because like what you said it was too early. madami pa kaming plans eh... pero ganon talaga siguro. so glad that i was able to love him that much. he lived a very happy life.

you have kids na?

Yes, we have 2 kids, aged 10 and 7, and I am currently pregnant with our third. How old is your husband?

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36 sis

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single pa ako sis..5 years lang sila nagsama at 1 year pa lang patay hubby niya.