Sa panahon daw ngayon, kapag hindi ka malandi, talo ka talaga.

[Jamann]

Ewan ko pero i think ito yung pwede mong ituring na malanding babae: yung ex gf ng friend ko eh go getter. Alam na nga niyang may gilfriend dati yung friend ko at siya naman eh may boyfriend siya na nasa abroad that time, ayun nakipagsex pa sa kanya. Siya talaga ang gumawa ng paraan para maging close sila, pilit na niyaya sa inuman hangang sa nagsex sila. So to cut the story short, naging sila. Pero naghiwalay din after a few years. Niloko din siya nung girl, pinagpalit siya nung nagabroad din si friend. So I guess ito talaga yung classic na example ng malandi, yung gagawin lahat and walang pake kung may nasasaktang iba basta makuha lang ang gustong lalake.

Agree sayo sis,

Yung ngang ex ng boyfriend ko ngayon kaya sila nagbreak nahuli nya na may kasex si ex sa loob ng bahay ni ex. And nabalitaan daw nya na kung kanikanino lalaki pala nkikipagsex si ex nya. Tawa ko nga pag tinatawag nyang 'MAKATI' yun ex nya eh hahaha.

[mimiku]

^ ah yan talaga ang certified na malandi. I think kasi there is nothing wrong of flirting with other people, this goes to women and men basta alam mo kung saan ka lulugar at wala kang nasasaktang tao. Malandi ka kapag lahat ng gusto mo eh maf gf or bf or kung ikaw man mismo ay committed na rin. Minsan may katotohanan din ito, kung malandi ka mas marami kang alam kung paano paikutin ang partner mo and to tell you, madaming nagogoyong lalake or babae at iniiwan nila ang asawa or gf dahil dito. Reality hurts, pero ganyan talaga minsan ang buhay.

[Angelite]

Parang di kaya ng powers ko na mag initiate ng first move. Wait wait [textspeak!] ako.

[pretty_B]

paano naman yung mga lalaking nakikipag-anes pa sa ibang girls kahit committed na sila? yung ang reason eh...may free pass naman daw sya sa gf nya at napakaunderstanding naman daw ni gf basta sakanya pa din sya uuwi at the end of the day.

hays.

[ece]

paano naman yung mga lalaking nakikipag-anes pa sa ibang girls kahit committed na sila? yung ang reason eh...may free pass naman daw sya sa gf nya at napakaunderstanding naman daw ni gf basta sakanya pa din sya uuwi at the end of the day.

hays.

MARTIR. Ang tawag dun sa gf sis. Nakakaloka yang free pass na iyan ha! She doesn't deserve that kind of guy. Kahit pa anes lang ang habol ng lalake sa mga girls nya. Still, kung love nya gf nya, stick cya sa kanya.

Katakot mamaya may sakit pa yung ibang girls na naka anes nya.

[Girltalker2]

When guys say ok Lang sa gf nila lumandi sila sa ibang girls - I find it so untrue. Sabi Lang nila iyan para makaisa.

As for men saying malandi past gfs nila, Ewan ko. I really don't know. I'm just so skeptical on these men kc the fact na naging gf nila ibig sabihin at some point gusto rin naman nila yung malanding gf. Tapos now na nangaliwa ang gf, medyo ungentlemanly making kwento about the gf's sexcapades.
Again, that's a 'he said', which I usually doubt especially coming from men here.

[mebpa]

spot-on

[dawnperiwinkle]

i would say the subject is very true.

i used to like a guy before. he is a foreigner. feeling ko andun pa lang naman kami sa getting to know each other stage. im beginning to like him na pero syempre typical traditional filipina kasi ako na hindi ako nagpakita ng mga signs na like ko na siya. i treated him special just like his friends pero hindi pa extra special. ayun one day nalaman ko bigla na nag night out siya with his friends and hooked up with another girl. then they started dating. nagpaparamdam pa rin siya after i learned about it siguro tinitignan nya kung anong reaction ko. nahurt ako ng sobra but i did not show to him how i was so affected. i never confronted him kasi in the first place, fault ko naman na di ako nagpakita ng signs that i liked him kaya naghanap ng iba. sabi ng friends ko its obvious naman na he still likes me more than the other girl pero parang feeling nya wala siyang pag-asa sa akin tapos foreigner pa naman. i kept my feelings inside, acted indifferent to the girl he is dating. ngayon sila pa rin ng girl. naka move on na rin naman ako sa kanya.   i looked at it as we are not meant to be and he learned to love the girl na rin. its all about choices in the end.

anyway, whenever i had chances to have conversations with happily married men, at some point during our conversations pag nalaman nilang single ako, they would tell me, they wonder why I am single daw and i am a great catch. ang advice nila, i should go out in very small groups daw para mas madali akong ma approach kung may somebody interested to know me.  being "malandi" is not my thing talaga although i believe na mukhang yan na nga ang kalakaran ngayon.  marami ng guys ang ayaw mag effort kung meron namang mabilis mabingwit.  i guess its not yet time that i meet mr. right. kasi pwede naman na di ko nature ang manlandi pero once i meet mr. right, it would just come out naturally. who knows.

[Pink_Sugar]

Paano ba magkaroon nito? Hahaha meron talagang mga babaeng innate na pagiging malandi noh?

[killbill]

My gosh eh kung titignan mo nga mga pics ng girls sa tinder, yung iba kulang na lang eh maghubad, at ambabata pa. Kaloka.

[Girltalker2]

i would say the subject is very true.

i used to like a guy before. he is a foreigner. feeling ko andun pa lang naman kami sa getting to know each other stage. im beginning to like him na pero syempre typical traditional filipina kasi ako na hindi ako nagpakita ng mga signs na like ko na siya. i treated him special just like his friends pero hindi pa extra special. ayun one day nalaman ko bigla na nag night out siya with his friends and hooked up with another girl. then they started dating. nagpaparamdam pa rin siya after i learned about it siguro tinitignan nya kung anong reaction ko. nahurt ako ng sobra but i did not show to him how i was so affected. i never confronted him kasi in the first place, fault ko naman na di ako nagpakita ng signs that i liked him kaya naghanap ng iba. sabi ng friends ko its obvious naman na he still likes me more than the other girl pero parang feeling nya wala siyang pag-asa sa akin tapos foreigner pa naman. i kept my feelings inside, acted indifferent to the girl he is dating. ngayon sila pa rin ng girl. naka move on na rin naman ako sa kanya.   i looked at it as we are not meant to be and he learned to love the girl na rin. its all about choices in the end.

anyway, whenever i had chances to have conversations with happily married men, at some point during our conversations pag nalaman nilang single ako, they would tell me, they wonder why I am single daw and i am a great catch. ang advice nila, i should go out in very small groups daw para mas madali akong ma approach kung may somebody interested to know me.  being "malandi" is not my thing talaga although i believe na mukhang yan na nga ang kalakaran ngayon.  marami ng guys ang ayaw mag effort kung meron namang mabilis mabingwit.  i guess its not yet time that i meet mr. right. kasi pwede naman na di ko nature ang manlandi pero once i meet mr. right, it would just come out naturally. who knows.

IMO, so long as you live by your values, I see nothing wrong with it. If the guy chooses the malandi type over you so he can get laid, then so be it. That just means hindi sya para sayo.

Maraming malandi at cheap, especially sa pinas. Kaya marami din guys na malandi at nangangaliwa. You wouldn't want to be a victim right? I bet si girl ng foreigner eh todo bantay at maximum performance lagi kasi alam nya once may higit pang malandi sa kanya, sya naman ang talo. The problem din with foreigners in our country, hirap sila pagkatiwalaan Kasi anytime they can just leave at di magpakita.

[pret_ty68]

i would say the subject is very true.

i used to like a guy before. he is a foreigner. feeling ko andun pa lang naman kami sa getting to know each other stage. im beginning to like him na pero syempre typical traditional filipina kasi ako na hindi ako nagpakita ng mga signs na like ko na siya. i treated him special just like his friends pero hindi pa extra special. ayun one day nalaman ko bigla na nag night out siya with his friends and hooked up with another girl. then they started dating. nagpaparamdam pa rin siya after i learned about it siguro tinitignan nya kung anong reaction ko. nahurt ako ng sobra but i did not show to him how i was so affected. i never confronted him kasi in the first place, fault ko naman na di ako nagpakita ng signs that i liked him kaya naghanap ng iba. sabi ng friends ko its obvious naman na he still likes me more than the other girl pero parang feeling nya wala siyang pag-asa sa akin tapos foreigner pa naman. i kept my feelings inside, acted indifferent to the girl he is dating. ngayon sila pa rin ng girl. naka move on na rin naman ako sa kanya.   i looked at it as we are not meant to be and he learned to love the girl na rin. its all about choices in the end.

anyway, whenever i had chances to have conversations with happily married men, at some point during our conversations pag nalaman nilang single ako, they would tell me, they wonder why I am single daw and i am a great catch. ang advice nila, i should go out in very small groups daw para mas madali akong ma approach kung may somebody interested to know me.  being "malandi" is not my thing talaga although i believe na mukhang yan na nga ang kalakaran ngayon.  marami ng guys ang ayaw mag effort kung meron namang mabilis mabingwit.  i guess its not yet time that i meet mr. right. kasi pwede naman na di ko nature ang manlandi pero once i meet mr. right, it would just come out naturally. who knows.

Kahit nga sa mga pinoy madalas ganyan na rin lalo na sa mga guys na masyadong matataas ang pride at yung mga takot sa rejection ayaw na nila mag effort doon na sila palagi sa sigurado sila. Pag ganun it just means na hindi para sayo yung guy.

[~yufa~]

agree

[bubbles_sandy]

ngkakaubusan na ba ng lalaki na kahit alam na ng girl committed yung guy eh todo papansin pa din?

[kikaygirl5810]

Tawa much sa topic...lol

Relate kasi yung friend ko na di naman kagandahan pero hinahabol ng mga lalaki dahil sa kalandian nya..

Ang Bola pinag aagawan din...Pero tandaan kaya pinag aagawan ng mga lalaki ang bola dahil gusto maka shoot! Baka ganun ka din...

lol

[mimiku]

Madaming ganyan ngayon. My fiance, naikwento niya lang, kahit noon na sila pa ng ex gf niya, may mga girls pa rin na nagpapahaging sa kanya. Alam naman na nila na may gf siya, worst, karamihan sa kanila may bf na rin. Nakakainis na may mga ganung babae, pero what can we do. Karma na lang sa kanila kapag naglandi pa sila ng may asawa or girlfriend na.

[fionnah325]

^ pero ang natutunan ko talaga sa wife ng ka workmate ng partner ko yong sinabi niya na dapat marunong ka din lumandi kasi useless lang yong pagiging maganda mo kung hindi ka anman malandi meaning to say maganda ka nga pero hindi ka naman malandi ay talo ka aprin sa mga malalandi hehhehe

[jha_10]

nice topic! 

Need na talaga yata maging malandi kasi nagkakaubusan na din ng mga totoong lalaki. Kaya ang dami na ding single na girls ngayon.hehe

[fionnah325]

^ tama dapat minsan landiin nalang natin talaga partner natin pra hindi na maghanap pa ng iba ehheheh

[bubbles_sandy]

ang mahirap if yung partner mo mismo nagpapalandi din  it takes two to tango!