Sa panahon daw ngayon, kapag hindi ka malandi, talo ka talaga.

[pepurpink]

^ oo sis, grabe talaga 

bahal na sa kanila si karma.

 

[maigrichonne]

Wow, the stench of self-righteousness is strong in this thread!

Whether you're an 80-y/o virgin or a 28-y/o who slept with 10 guys already, I don't care! I see you and respect you all the same. Kung gusto mong lumandi, go lang! Basta not married ha?

I'm in my late 20s and had only one guy in my life. It was just a short-time affair. I rarely approach guys in a flirty fashion but when I met him, GO! Sayang ang chemistry and desire. Who cares if it won't last? Who cares if people judge you? Judgmental, hypocrite people have nothing better to do anyway.

I think people obsess too much on other people's actions and perceptions and like to put people into comfortable classifications. Everybody deserves respect. Yes, even those who were forced into the trade flesh. I can't believe we're no5 in the World Economic Forum's Gender Equality Index and yet we have such outdated ideas that perpetuate shaming of other women, ideas that could validate and legitimate the harassment and sexual abuse of some women. This is the same culture that believes it is the woman's fault if she gets raped because she went to bar and had a good time. This is the same culture that believes it is rightful that a woman gets harassed because of her dress and the way she looks.

The WEF ranking is misleading because the majority of women here still haven't gotten beyond the confines of their sexist thinking. A lot of people complain about patriarchy but in many cases, it is women who reinforce this outdated patriarchal beliefs.

Personally, I think the hate towards such women is inner envy mixed with strange fascination and disgust at the same time. They can do what they want and do not care about other people's opinions. Why not get out of your comfort zone and try making landi to your hubby or bf? Who knows? You might end up enjoying it?

Then again, kung ang style mo talaga ay tahimik lang at kebs sa mundo, okay lang din. Tahimik lang naman ako normally and not into flirting. Kanya-kanyang trip lang naman yan eh. Kung iniwan ka sa mas malandi, siguro di lang kayo magka-wavelength ng bf/hubby mo. That simple.

[sacred cow]

^ well said, I concur

[sugardrop]

Wow, the stink of self-righteousness is strong in this thread!

The WEF ranking is misleading because the majority of women here still haven't gotten beyond the confines of their sexist thinking. A lot of people complain about patriarchy but in many cases, it is women who reinforce this outdated patriarchal beliefs.

Personally, I think the hate towards such women is inner envy mixed with strange fascination and disgust at the same time. They can do what they want and do not care about other people's opinions. Why not get out of your comfort zone and try making landi to your hubby or bf? Who knows? You might end up enjoying it?

Couldn't agree more.

[joevicko]

agree much! for me ok lang maging malandi basta sa asawa/jowa mo lang.. sure panalo ka!!

[sugardrop]

I remember what a former male co-worker once said, "Be a lady outside, but do not be afraid to be a wh*re in the bedroom with your husband." Medyo harsh lang with the w-word used but I think it kinda makes sense. It doesn't mean landiin mo every single guy you cross paths with though.

[cloudzy_09]

If your in the right age and single go ahead and flirt enjoy your youth have fun kasi pag nag asawa ka na hindi na puwede yan. Pero do it in a classy way at huwag yung may asawa

[momoxhien]

hahaha taama..pero hindi ako malandi
yung ibang girl lkasi ngaun lahat gagawin para makuha yung boy na gusto niyaaaaa...

[pretty_B]

my girl friends are encouraging me to make LANDI after the break up with my bf. *conyo* LOL. paanong landi kaya? hahaha.

[fredprinz]

I'm a certified malandi but I only flirt with single ladies. Sayang lang panahon sa mga committed ladies, wala din naman ako mapapala usually, baka mabaril pa ko ng asawa/husband.

[killbill]

Good luck sakin kung san ako kukuha ng lakas ng loob para lumandi. Pag bf ko na anything goes. 😅

[argento]

Mas gusto ko na yung malandi kesa sa maarte 

[red_yesha]

ha?! ano ba yung lande?? charot!!!
basta ako friendly lang.. minsan

[Pink_Sugar]

Yung malandi ba eh pang long term or short term lang? Kasi for sure nakakasawa din yun. Lol

[fastlove]

Palagay ko  short term..  nakaka sawa mag landi   paulit ulit ...

Yung malandi ba eh pang long term or short term lang? Kasi for sure nakakasawa din yun. Lol

[Pink_Sugar]

^naimagine ko sa una lang nakakatuwa yun, pag tagal tagal eh nakakairita na.

[magno4]

FYI lang mga ate. magkaiba ang pagiging malandi sa pagiging welcoming.
you can flirt in a way na hindi bastusin tignan, kase most of the guys pag nakita nilang mukhang masungit or snob yung girl (nakasibangot, taas kilay, sama tumingin etc). nawawalan sila ng confidence to initiate the conversation. unlike those girls na mukhang friendly. in other words, sa aura niyo pa lang alam na namin kung mag fe failed kami or not if we are going to approach you.

  sang ayon ako sa sinabi mo bro..

[Jamann]

 Sa panahon daw ngayon, kapag hindi ka malandi, talo ka talaga.

--- Hindi rin sigurp mga sis, hehe meron pa din mga guys na gusto eh yun simple lang pero medyo wild hahahaha

[pretty_B]

simple lang pero medyo wild

HAHA!

[mimiku]

Ewan ko pero i think ito yung pwede mong ituring na malanding babae: yung ex gf ng friend ko eh go getter. Alam na nga niyang may gilfriend dati yung friend ko at siya naman eh may boyfriend siya na nasa abroad that time, ayun nakipagsex pa sa kanya. Siya talaga ang gumawa ng paraan para maging close sila, pilit na niyaya sa inuman hangang sa nagsex sila. So to cut the story short, naging sila. Pero naghiwalay din after a few years. Niloko din siya nung girl, pinagpalit siya nung nagabroad din si friend. So I guess ito talaga yung classic na example ng malandi, yung gagawin lahat and walang pake kung may nasasaktang iba basta makuha lang ang gustong lalake.