Sa panahon daw ngayon, kapag hindi ka malandi, talo ka talaga.

[FOURever]

Natalo ako ng malandi. Tinignan ko sya, di sya maganda. Minsan, natetempt akong lumandi dahil kaya ko naman, pero hindi kasi my friends (first ex and bestfriend na guy) they make sure na i wont stoop down to the level of being malandi.. I dont need it daw and just be friendly lang daw if i want to interact with other people and meet other men since i have a good personality naman daw.. So no matter how tempted i am na itry yun, di na lang. I'll do it with a class na lang in short, be open and be friendly..

[Issabella]

Depende pa rin sa guy. Si hubby then bf nilandilandi ng isang girl kulang na lang maghubad sa harap niya. Desperada to the extent na pinangalandakan na siya ang magiging asawa. Hindi pinansin ni hubby at hindi ko alam kung biro ng tadhana o sinadya niya pero 3 years after naging gf ng younger brother ni hubby (matindi daw manligaw according to BIL, yes - siya nanligaw kay BIL) and that year din nagpabuntis. Gusto ko pa ituloy kwento pero hindi na saklaw ng topic.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

Hindi naman gaano. Saktong landi lang. Wag naman yung tipong conservative masyado na boring ka na sa paningin ng boys. Kunin lamang ang tamang timpla. Parang kape baga. Kung malandi masyado, ikaw naman ang talo eh, buntis dito buntis dun ka. Sira ang kinabukasan. Oks ba?

[alexandrea]

Wala namang masama sa tamang landi. Di na kasi uso ang pakipot ngayon. Mind games kasi yun eh. Bad yun.

[iseenessie]

There is nothing wrong with flirting. It is fun naman diba? As long as you don't come across as a very desperate woman. And it is a good way of testing the waters. Pero personally, I think you should be careful pa rin. May mga guys kasi who would take advantage of the situation. If hindi ka sure if the guy likes you then flirt mildly lang to see if he is interested. If he is then good for you. Just make sure he is not a serial flirt kasi baka hindi lang ikaw ang nilalandi nya.

To be quite honest, I am not good at flirting. The fact that I am too direct makes it hard for me. And madalas the guy is flirting with me na pala but I still don't get it. This kind of makes it hard for me to land dates. But when I do, it is always with men who are up to my standards.

What I am trying to say is, you don't have to try too hard. You can just be yourself and you will attract the type of guys you deserve. The kind of guys that get you, that you actually want. If you have to try too hard, then maybe it is not worth it. Or maybe hindi lang talaga interested yung guy. Kasi if he is, then I don't think he will let you do all the work. Besides, I have noticed that most of the time, flirts tend to attract unwanted attention from men who are of unsavory character. But that is just me. I could be wrong.

[ragnar_danneskjold]

What I am trying to say is, you don't have to try too hard. You can just be yourself and you will attract the type of guys you deserve. The kind of guys that get you, that you actually want. If you have to try too hard, then maybe it is not worth it. Or maybe hindi lang talaga interested yung guy. Kasi if he is, then I don't think he will let you do all the work. Besides, I have noticed that most of the time, flirts tend to attract unwanted attention from men who are of unsavory character. But that is just me. I could be wrong.

@iseenessie: This is a very good advice. We men can sense desperation in women and the hungriest of us are always in the lookout for prey. Just be yourself, let the real you shine at seseryosohin ka ng guys.

The flirting can wait...after dinner... in the bedroom. lol

[zarazan]

I don't think its LANDI when you're going for someone na? Like example, may guy na hindi naman taken, edi go for him. Be friendly. Open up! Pero pag sa lahat ng lalaki ka touchy or "too friendly", then yun ang malandi? Pag touchy ka pa din sa taong taken na, yung hindi mo gets limit mo, then yung ang MALANDI?

[baliwsayo]

This is too negative. Endearing naman wag naman malandi.

[bluegintonic]

Masyado namang nakaka-capture ng attention ang title ng post na ito, I just had to read it 
For me malandi is like flirty and easy to get (loose).Marami naman levels ang pgiging flirt.I think the topic pertains being sexually easy to get, tama ba?

[IronLady]

Tama masyado catchy ang title.. Ang pagkakaintindi ko lang dito.. Ang malandi eh yung touchy at flirty pa dib kahit taken na si guy.. Kaya yung gf nya kahit maganda o mabaet eh talo.. Lolz!

[pret_ty68]

Most of the time totoo. Sa panahon ngayon madalas hindi na nagpupursige ang lalaki pag nakikita nilang medyo tagilid sila back out agad hanap na nang iba. Unlike noong araw na kahit pa harangan nang sibat pag gusto ka gusto ka talaga.  Ma ego na kasi karamihan nang lalaki ngayon kaya for fear of rejection mas gusto nila na yung babae na ang nagpapakita na gusto sila.

[sunako16]

 

sabi ng asawa ko ang mga malalanding babae ay pang KAMA lang..
kaya kung malandi ang girl tas pinansin ni boy LUST lang ang naiisip nung guy..

unlike sa mga girls na nice and behave.. yun ang wife material.. PANG MATAGALAN ika nga hehe..

kaya naman kapag may nanlalandi sa hubby ko, dedma lang siya kasi sobrang TURN off siya sa malandi..

[Noylabmay]

Hindi naman to the point na baba na ang pag katao mo....

Sabi nga ng nanay ko yung mga relative namin na hindi na nakapag asawa " wala kase silang landi sa katawan" to the point na boring at walang kabuhay buhay pag kausap mo

Dapat sa personality yung me konting spark ka nman na ipapakita pag me kausap ka
yung mag mumukhang  interesting ang personality mo at hindi cheapipay

[monbla]

I agree. Iba naman yung hindi malandi sa hindi talaga interesting.

although gets ko naman kung kailan nag-aapply ang sabi-sabing ito (at kelab hindi), minsan nagsasawa na rin ako pag dinadahilan to ng girls. Hating on other girls habang in denial of their own faults. Parang form of sour graping na

[prettygretchen]

Hindi kailangan lumandi para makakuha ng matinong lalaki.

[sunako16]

Hindi kailangan lumandi para makakuha ng matinong lalaki.

haha natawa naman ako sis

[lisse]

Talo? depende kung ano ba yung contest!  if paramihan ng sexual conquests, IMO syempre panalo yung malandi. pero when it comes to love and serious relationships, I don't think men will favor a woman who's been around and back many times. I'm not saying na hindi na sila makakakita ng para sa kanila, there's always hope, sabi nga nila. but IMO mapagiiwanan na sila ng milya-milya nung mga hindi pinili maglandi just to find a decent man.

[Ireneeeeee]

Hindi kailangan lumandi para makakuha ng matinong lalaki.

I swear by this golden rule: Try to be a good girl to attract a good man. (although try lang.hahaha) Kapag naging kayo na, hala sige itodo mo panglalandi sa kanya ;p (like try mo makipaglaro ng apoy haha!) just keep in mind to always stay classy and never trashy (mala- miley na trashy)!!!

On the other hand, a little flirting is always a must to keep your target interested besides projecting a sexy aura (sexy naman kasi hindi laging physical lang e. Feeling sexy is really all in the mind.) Kasi ang mga guys napapagod din kapag sobrang kang pakipot. Pero hindi naman porket sinabi pwede ka na mangflirt flirt eh itotodo mo na. Keep the mystery pa rin kahit nagpapakita ka rin ng motibo (in a very subtle way).

[prettygretchen]

iba kasi ang malandi e. for me pakang karot ganyan hala kung sino makainuman kahit sino na lang carry na hayun ang malandi.

Ang flirt lahat tayo gusto yan, yun kilig kiligan.

Nung nakikipagdate ako ang rule ko ganito, baka lang maka tulong.

1. Pag nag text mga 5-8mins ang interval ng reply ko.
2. Pag nag offer ng date 1st-hindi pwede, 2nd-resched natin may family gathering kami eh 3rd ayun movie and keep him hanging!

Ginagawa ko yun first rule until now sa mister ko lalo na pag badtip ako sa kanya. Hahaha!

[lisse]

^haha, peg ko din yung 1st rule mo sis! hala pag ginawa ko yan sa mister ko may follow up text na yan kung nasan ako, tapos after 2 mins if no reply pa din ako he will ask na if galit daw ba ako sa kanya lol!