Your thought of this

[*dream*]

Ikaw kahit anong gusto mo ok sakin because i love you.
Nandito lang ako sayo kahit kelan. Pagisipan m ng mabuti kasi ayoo magsisi ka bakit ka umuwi ng maaga...

Guys i need your reaction to this line kasi im planning na to go back in manila for good dahil homesick na ako pero takot ako baka di rin ako sure na mapapangasawaan k [textspeak!] current bf k eh kaya ako independently working as a flight attendant

[Mr.Punch]

^He's just laying the groundwork.  He doesn't want to be blamed if things go wrong.

[ladychris17]

^^ hi sis, I'm not a guy, but as a fellow woman, let me just say a few words of advice.
Please never let a man affect your career decisions, just do what you think is best for you.
If he wants you to settle down because he wants to marry you though, shouldn't he propose? Diba yung ganyang phase, it gets sorted out when marriage is already in the talks? Mahirap kasi to make a move for him because you're expecting something tapos your expectations aren't going to be met din pala.

[jazzmheen]

Dapat kung uuwi ka, dahil gusto mo na talagang umuwi, not bec. nape-pressure ka sa bf mo or nape-pressure ka na kailangan mo na magpakasal. I think the guy just wants to be supportive on what you want and what your heart desires. He wants you to make the right decisions and grow as a person.
Pinapauwi ka ba ng bf mo para magpakasal na kayo?

[jazzmheen]

ay, ndi pala ako guy ha.. sorry naman napa-reply ako sa topic mo eh. LOL! 

[Girltalker2]

Ikaw kahit anong gusto mo ok sakin because i love you.
Nandito lang ako sayo kahit kelan. Pagisipan m ng mabuti kasi ayoo magsisi ka bakit ka umuwi ng maaga...

But the question is anong gusto nya? 

Ano ang mga plano nya? Meron ba?  Kung magresign ka, kaya ka ba nyang buhayin? Or drawing lang.

Guys i need your reaction to this line kasi im planning na to go back in manila for good dahil homesick na ako pero takot ako baka di rin ako sure na mapapangasawaan k [textspeak!] current bf k eh kaya ako independently working as a flight attendant

We were in the same boat when I got married. Kwento ko lang what happened sakin (not a happy ending). Hindi naman necessarily ganito mangyari sayo, but I agree sa sinabi ng iba, you should not forgo your career options for him.  Dapat willing din sya mag compromise especially kung love na love mo din ang work mo.

But again, there are happy endings as well.  In making such decisions, you should be open na puede maging tama decision mo at maging happily married ka in the end, but there is also this possibility na baka things won't work out. And if they don't, you should still be able to pick up yourself and not blame him entirely if it did not work out.

So, here's my story.  I was working abroad before and earning around $5k/month in my 20s. And lahat ng kinikita ko ay sa akin lang kasi I do not have to send money home. Matagal na kami, around 10+ years mag bf, he promised me the moon and the stars kasi kita ko naman ang pagpursige nya para maikasal kami.  And I went home to get married. Kasi gusto ko. Yes, nakaka homesick especially if you have a significant other na hindi mo kapiling. So I went home, resigned from my job.  He said kasi sya bahala. And at that time, I am not willing for him to go with me abroad na ako magpapakain saming dalawa.  In the end, he did earn well kasi masipag sya.  He can buy a house and kaya nya magtaguyod ng pamilya.  Ang nangyari nga lang sakin eh sa sobrang successful nya, hindi lang ako ang binahay nya. 

[magicflakes]

Ikaw kahit anong gusto mo ok sakin because i love you.
Nandito lang ako sayo kahit kelan. Pagisipan m ng mabuti kasi ayoo magsisi ka bakit ka umuwi ng maaga...

Guys i need your reaction to this line kasi im planning na to go back in manila for good dahil homesick na ako pero takot ako baka di rin ako sure na mapapangasawaan k [textspeak!] current bf k eh kaya ako independently working as a flight attendant

“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.”


― Lady ga**

[ijj2k]

But the question is anong gusto nya? 

Ano ang mga plano nya? Meron ba?  Kung magresign ka, kaya ka ba nyang buhayin? Or drawing lang.

We were in the same boat when I got married. Kwento ko lang what happened sakin (not a happy ending). Hindi naman necessarily ganito mangyari sayo, but I agree sa sinabi ng iba, you should not forgo your career options for him.  Dapat willing din sya mag compromise especially kung love na love mo din ang work mo.

But again, there are happy endings as well.  In making such decisions, you should be open na puede maging tama decision mo at maging happily married ka in the end, but there is also this possibility na baka things won't work out. And if they don't, you should still be able to pick up yourself and not blame him entirely if it did not work out.

So, here's my story.  I was working abroad before and earning around $5k/month in my 20s. And lahat ng kinikita ko ay sa akin lang kasi I do not have to send money home. Matagal na kami, around 10+ years mag bf, he promised me the moon and the stars kasi kita ko naman ang pagpursige nya para maikasal kami.  And I went home to get married. Kasi gusto ko. Yes, nakaka homesick especially if you have a significant other na hindi mo kapiling. So I went home, resigned from my job.  He said kasi sya bahala. And at that time, I am not willing for him to go with me abroad na ako magpapakain saming dalawa.  In the end, he did earn well kasi masipag sya.  He can buy a house and kaya nya magtaguyod ng pamilya.  Ang nangyari nga lang sakin eh sa sobrang successful nya, hindi lang ako ang binahay nya. 

Grabe sis that's super ouch! To think na sinakripisyo mo ang trabaho/career to be with him, yan pa ang ginanti sa iyo.
Sana lang naappreciate man lang nya ang effort mo to be with him and para mas um-ok ang relationship nyo.
Tigas ng mukha nya para gawin yun! (sorry sis, bigla ako nainis, lol)