Gusto mo ba ikaw ang BOSS?

[bronze]

minsan gusto ko kasi i have this dominant nature pero takot ako sa bf ko kapag nagagalit siya, 3 years younger siya.

[MrsKolca]

Si hubby ang boss sa work. Pero ako ang boss sa bahay. Hehe.

[TysLolakins]

i let him feel he's the boss and i want other people to think he's the boss.  but i run the show behind the scenes ha ha ha ha.
all decisions regarding the household, finances, taxes, legal stuff, ako.  then i let him deal with the small stuff.  that's how we roll.

[gharz412]

Hindi naman pwedeng ganun buti kung nasa company kayo. It should be a two way para maging maayos ang relasyon ninyong dalawa. It takes two to tango, ika nga.

[simang]

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Opinionated ako on things that matter to me, and he knows that, and he likes that I say what's on my mind. He doesn't like it when he asks me something and I answer "ikaw bahala", or "kahit ano". He appreciates that I give him concrete answers. But I make sure to make him feel like the man in the relationship. Simple example, although I know how to change light bulbs in the house and been doing it myself ever since, I now ask him to do it for me, so he feels that his role in my life as an independent woman is still significant.

I like how TysLolakins put it, because that's how I do it as well.

[sofistikada_1230]

actually no though being dominating is really my personality. so it would be nice to have someone who would control me for a change.

[The5thElement]

kahit makasama mo yun magdominate syo, meron ka pa rin say or opinion for sure...hindi ka pa rin papatalo..magaaway lang kayo at magtatalo...

actually no though being dominating is really my personality. so it would be nice to have someone who would control me for a change.

[stebsy]

Minsan gusto KO magpaka boss. Minsan gusto ko may boss ako. But try to consider what's feasible for both of you. Take the win-win situation.

[gabriel kate]

nope!ayoko yung ako lang ang masusunod dapat give and take lang,,,kasi minsan sunod sila ng sunod pero deep inside nasasakal na pala sila.ouch .mas maganda yung balance nagdedesisyon ka at the same time nagdedesisyon din sya.... 

[twix01]

50-50 respect for each other.. kaya marami nag aaway at nagbbreak dahil dyan! just my 2 cents. when i was young kasi gusto ko lagi ako masusunod lesson learned

[iphoneu2nyt]

Sa bf ko ngaun sa tingin ko naman pantay lang kami... pero mas gusto ko sya yung boss... un nga lang hindi nangyayari... pantay lang talaga...

[wildorchid]

Gusto ko lalaki ang boss sa relasyon. ☺ Katulad sa pagdedesisyon, paguusapan namin pareho pero sa bandang huli, sya ang may last say.

[kvandenhaak]

Dapat walang boss. Dapat lang me room for compromise. And both should be able to decide on little things without consulting each other, within reason of course.

[stebsy]

Before I want to be the boss. Ngayon ayaw ko na LOL Ask muna each other if do like this? Shall we get this? Do we need this blah blah blah.... Kasi pag may pagkakamali magtitinginan na kami and parang, ay ako ang nag desisyon nyan palpakis. HAHAHA pero my jowa is positive naman most of the time kaya he doesn't rub it in my face. It's okay we can do otherwise next time.

[MoonshineLady]

during my past relationships, i was the boss. sabi nga nila nanguunder daw ako at matapang sa lalaki lol! kaya pla iniwan nila ako lol! but when i met my husband, aba hindi umubra ang pang uunder ko. tiklop ako sa asawa ko hindi talaga sya nagpapaunder sakin. which i really really like. dun ko narealize na kung meron mang bossy na babae its bcoz hinahayaan nung lalaki. dapat sa lalaki hindi nagpapaunder. i let my husband be the boss in almost everything but if there is something i dont agree to, we try to compromise and then support each other na lang whoever wins hehe!