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Problems about your child's Teacher
« on: September 17, 2012, 12:24:12 pm »

My son is in Grade 1 now and studying at the same school since he was in prep.
Wala naman kaming problem sa studies nya kasi he is always on top 5, atleast.
Come this school year, 1st grading his teacher informed us na nasa top10 sya tapos tatlo pa sila on the same spot.
Mejo napaisip ako bkit? I checked my son's tests and ok naman. :(

Naisip ko lang na baka may problema kami sa techer nya. Early July nag text si Teacher na hhiram daw sya ng money. 5k pa nga ang gusto kasi daw naospital yung nanay nya. I'm aware naman na bawal to sa school, pero sabi nya na keep it confidential daw. I asked hubby naman and pumayag naman, I lend her 2k lang para kung sakaling di ibalik e ok lang. September na pero walang bayad na dumating. Nagttxt na next time na lang daw nya bbayaran kasi negipit sya ek ek. Ang masama nagtxt nnaman sya na kung pwede ko daw sya pahiramin ulit ng 1k at sabay na nya bbayran pati yung 2k. I didn't reply.

Nung August naman, we had a vacation ang sobra sya makahingi ng pasalubong samin. As in gusto e Samsung Galaxy Y pa. Sobrang kapal lang ng mukha nya. Naiisip ko tuloy na baka pati sa ibang parents e nanghhiram sya at kung sinong galante e yun ang binigyan nya ng favorable grades / top.

What to do mga sis? Gusto ko na sya isumbong sa principal kasi I know my child's capabilities, kaso ayaw naman ni hubby ng problema sa school.

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Re: Problems about your child's Teacher
« Reply #1 on: September 17, 2012, 02:21:23 pm »
wala bang parents group sa school nyo, sis? PTA? you can report there first then pag wala pa rin action.. sa principal na.. or what you can do, after the school year na kasi baka bawian ka sa grades ng anak mo
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« Reply #2 on: September 17, 2012, 03:26:07 pm »
wow ibang klase. bat mo pina utang sis? naawa ka?

report mo na yan sa principal. dont delete your text conversations para may proof.

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Re: Problems about your child's Teacher
« Reply #3 on: September 17, 2012, 03:38:23 pm »
kapal naman ng mukha ng teacher na yan. tama ka TS.. palagay ko hindi lang ikaw ang inuutangan or inutangan nyan.
medyo mahirap nga ipaalam sa school kase baka personalin ang anak mo. PERO kung nakikita mo naman na matataas ang scores sa exams ng bata pwede mong i-question ang teacher if ever mababa ang grades na ibigay sa report card.

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Re: Problems about your child's Teacher
« Reply #4 on: September 17, 2012, 04:02:48 pm »
That kind of attitude from a teacher is very UNETHICAL. If the TS's kwento is true, she should be removed from that school. There is no justification from borrowing money from parents, unless best friends na kayo before at labas sa pagiging teacher-parent ang relationship nyo.
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« Reply #5 on: September 17, 2012, 05:43:14 pm »
Thanks for the replies mga sis. Eto nga nanggi3l ako. Pano na lang if other parents e mas generous sakin diba? Brains + suhol = Top 1.
So unfair!

Nasakin pa din yung sms conversations namin. Sobrang di ko maimagine na nangyyari pala ang ganitong sitwasyon sa schools.
« Last Edit: September 17, 2012, 08:19:20 pm by lilstar »
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« Reply #6 on: September 18, 2012, 09:47:02 am »
^sis wag ka sana magagalit pero ang unfair e kung may mas malaki ang naibigay na ibang parents?

Na brains + suhol = top 1?

Bale pag nagbigay ang ibang parents ng mas malaki sa naibigay mo e equals suhol pero pag ikaw nagbigay kasi tumulong ka lang?

Pasensya na, wala ako intensyon na kwestyunin ang desisyon nyo na magbigay ng pera, na pumayag sa "request" ng teacher na gawing "confidential" ang panghihingi at pag aabot ng pera kasi syempre sariling kilos nyo yan. Ayun nga lang sana marealize mo sis na hindi lang si teacher ang nagkaroon ng lapse in judgment sa sitwasyon na ito. Pwede pa naman matigil yun paghingi-hingi nya na d makakaapekto sa grado ng anak mo.

In the first place, hindi pa naman tiyak kung apektado nga ang grado ng anak mo. Pwede mo yan ipacompute sa harap mo kung irereklamo mo sa school admin.

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« Reply #7 on: September 18, 2012, 09:53:36 am »
ako naman sis when i read your story, nakalimutan ko about your son on the top list, i was more concerned of the teacher being so unbecoming.

baka naman talaga matatalino mga batang yun at mas lalong tumalino kaya they maintained or climbed up on the top. without suhol?

I think hindi rin comforting nag pautang ka , unless nga as mention by another sister, magkaibigan kayo ng teacher so you helped. Im not questioning your intention pero kaka turn off lang ang guro na ganun, and i think it would have helped if you've seek advice na agad. just unprofesional at panget sa reputation ng school di ba?

pero ang concern baka personalin ang anak mo? maybe the authorities at that school can intervene. both you and your son will be protected at malay mo pati ibang parents.


« Last Edit: September 18, 2012, 09:57:42 am by pinkpotato »
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« Reply #8 on: September 18, 2012, 10:30:27 am »
^i guess haps dyan ako na-lost sa scenario na ito, unethical ginawa ng teacher na pangungutang bakit hindi agad naireport sa school admin? Sa totoo lang, kahit pa friends sila ni TS before pa hindi pa rin maganda na mangutang ang teacher. Unfortunately, ayaw ko man maging salbahe sa paningin ni TS, hindi rin maganda ang magpautang sa teacher ng mga anak natin lalo na if may nalalaman pang confi-confidential ang guro
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« Reply #9 on: September 18, 2012, 11:02:07 am »
Thanks sa mga replies mga sis. Looking back, naisip ko din na sana di ko pinautang si teacher in the 1st place. Pero when I was on the situation, that day, naawa din ako. Although inisip ko na mali yun, pinautang ko sya thinking na HINDI na sya uulit at HINDI ganun kakapal ang mukha nya. Nagsisisi nga ako. Reading her SMS makes me want to report this issue sa school.

Last saturday, binigay ang card ng anak ko. Nag text nnaman sya kung san daw ba ang Blow out ng anak ko? Sukdulang kapal ng mukha na para bang gusto nyang ipameryenda ko pa sya.

Actually mga sis gusto ko na nga talaga ireport pero ayaw ni hubby ng gulo. Alam nyo yung andito na ko sa dulo ng pasensya ko at malapit na sumabog? Feeling ko isang maling text lang ni teacher e masusumbong ko na talaga sya.
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« Reply #10 on: September 18, 2012, 11:09:20 am »
^sis wag ka sana magagalit pero ang unfair e kung may mas malaki ang naibigay na ibang parents?

Na brains + suhol = top 1?

Bale pag nagbigay ang ibang parents ng mas malaki sa naibigay mo e equals suhol pero pag ikaw nagbigay kasi tumulong ka lang?


Thanks sa reply sis. Narealize ko lang yan sis nung nalaman ko na nasa Top 10 ang anak ko. Bigla ko na lang inanalyze na "BAKA" gawain talaga ito ni Teacher kahit sa iba pang parents, kaya SIGURO na apektuhan ang standing ng anak ko e dahil humingi din sya sa iba at napagbgyan.

Tama ka sis, ipapacompute ko ang grades ng anak ko sa admin to double check.
 
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« Reply #11 on: September 18, 2012, 11:55:55 am »
Aba at talaga nag ask pa ng blow out.

Sis lilstar iconsider mo rin baka ikaw lang ginaganyan nyang kairitang teacher na yan. Ang kapal ha.


Edited to add: that's good sis, narealize mo ang mga bagay2x. Para maconfront mo ang issue head on. Mahirap na, baka akalin ng teacher na yan na personal atm machine ka nya.
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« Reply #12 on: September 18, 2012, 12:02:19 pm »
^ yan din ang point ni hubby e, pano daw if kami lang talaga ang tinitext nya, samin lang sya feeling close? samin lang panatag ang loob? Eto pa sis, ako ang tipo ng parent na di pala kwento e. Pupunta lang ako sa school pag may meeting at pag magbbyad ng tuition pero di kasi ako "friendly", pero di naman ako snob, sakto lang. kaya nagttaka ako san nya hinuhugot ang pagka-feeling close samin.  ::)
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« Reply #13 on: September 18, 2012, 12:14:08 pm »
^naku d naman siguro sya panatag syo sis, baka kasi ikaw inuna nya sa random choices nya ng posibleng biktima. Tapos nagbigay ka so feeling nya ikaw na ang bagong western union nya.

Again wag ka magagalit sa sasabihin ko, baka dating mayaman ka sis sa school kaya ikaw ang natarget.

May mga ganyan tao talaga nanarget ng biktima based sa instinct nila. Ako kasi d pinapalakad mag-isa ng mister ko kasi ogag magnet raw ako.


Anyway, aware na ang schools sa ganitong scenario (kasi panahon pa dati may mga ganito na, kaya nga naging joke yun benta/bili ng tocino kay teacher) kaya pinagbabawal ang usapan between parents and teachers na walang formal appointment or d saklaw ng teacher-parents conference. Sa ibang schools, gaya sa school ng anak ko, may circular talaga na binibigay sa umpisa ng school year na dinidiscourage ang texting between teachers and parents.

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« Reply #14 on: September 18, 2012, 12:37:39 pm »
^ sis sa dating, wala akong dating e,  ;D joke. kasi sis 5 houses from us, school na ng anak ko so most of the time halos naka pambahay lang ako pagpumupunta sa school >.<

pero aware si teacher na nag-oout of the country kami madalas. Hmmmm baka isa yun sa reason. =.='

bakit ba naman kasi may mga taong mahilig mag modus., may mga tao naman nabibiktima. Wala pa naman manloloko kung walang nagpapaloko. Malamang napakagat kami sa bitag nya kaya kala nya e western union na kami. :((
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Re: Problems about your child's Teacher
« Reply #15 on: September 18, 2012, 04:04:46 pm »
Sis, pwede nyong kausapin yan na walang gulo. It does not mean na pag kinausap nyo sya or kinonfront, gulo na. Kung maayos kayong makikipagusap, nasa teacher na yan kung gulo ang hanap nya or hindi. At saka, wag kayong matakot sa gulo or confrontation. dahil darating ang araw, may mga taong sasagad ng pasensya nyo at ng kabaitan nyo and you need to put a stop on that. Hindi naman tama yan.
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« Reply #16 on: September 18, 2012, 06:58:14 pm »
^ thanks sis. Totoo yan na minsan nassagad din ang pasensya. Pag naulit pa talaga ito kakausapin ko na din si teacher in a nice way. Wala naman sigurong di nadadaan sa mabuting paguusap. Otherwise, itataas ko na to sa school admin.
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« Reply #17 on: September 19, 2012, 08:47:10 pm »
sis kausapin mo na..baka kasi may ibang parents pa na nabibiktima niya. At dapat sa tingin ko itaas mo na sa school admin, kasi karapatan mo yan as a parent.. :)

at labag yan sa code of ethics ng teachers..pwede nga siya matanggal sa school ee..

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Re: Problems about your child's Teacher
« Reply #18 on: September 20, 2012, 12:52:05 pm »
Kung may ma-meet akong teacher na ganyan, I'd immediately report her to school officials. I can't trust a teacher of questionable character to guide my child properly.
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