Ex-GF's pictures downloaded by Hubby from FB

[mamichula]

If this happens to me okay lang sakin pangit naman ex nya eh. Baka he downloaded it to use it panakot sa ipis.

[yang]

honestly, if it happen to me ill be definitely pissed. first thing im gonna do is confront my husband and relate to him how this kind of things tinge a nerve on me. mahirap na if it to him wala lang.. kailangan alam nya at maintindihan nya a few things na makakahurt ng feelings ko.

[YanYanYanYanYan]

Dadownload ko pic ng x bf ko at gagawin kong wallpaper 

Teh, wallpaper ng Desktop, Laptop, Cellphone gawin na ring Screen saver!  Take note naka boxers lang ha!

Gantihan na lang yan kesa kausapin mo magaaway lang kayo. Just do the same to let him know exactly how you feel. Smartest move.

[Lizi]

hello mga sis...sobra akong naka relate sa topic na ito...kakajoin ko lang kasi sa hubby ko dito sa oz at grabe ang mga nakita ko sa laptop niya,mga pictures lahat nang ka chatmate andun pa kahit yung iba ang sagwa pa tingnan,tinanong ko cya bakit di naman niya binura yun eh alam niya parating ako eh sagot nya mga collection daw niya yun at huwag dw ako magalit at picture lang yun,kasalanan ko pa daw bakit kinalkal kong laptop nya kaya nakita ko yun,ang masakit pa hanggang ngayon ka chat pa niya ang mga ito kaya sinabihan ko isa isa sa kanila na huwag na nila pansinin asawa ko kung hindi nila gusto malagay sa youtube mga kaluluwa nila...

Sakit naman ng fate mo madam, bakit nataon ka sa mga lalaking ganyan. May barkada din akong ganyan ang asawa balahura, kahit nung mag-bf/gf pa lang sila mahilig ng makipag-chat yung guy. Until now kinasal na sila gawain pa din. Shempre, masakit sa side ng girl yun kasi bakit kelangan pa ni hubby ng ka-chat diba? Kung bored siya pwede naman kayo gawa ng time sa isa't isa at hindi kung kanino pa. Yung mga chat kasi it can lead to any kind of conversation, alam naman natin na ang mga lalaki kahit anong mangyari ang usapan napupunta minsan sa dirty talks. E diba cheating na din matatawag yun? 

[misscapitalletterc]

I recently found some pictures of my hubby's ex-gf in our laptop.  Downloaded from FB and naka bathing suit ang ex.  Should I be upset?  When i confronted him, he said it wasn't really a big deal but then why download, right?  He did this maybe a year ago and i only found out this weekend.  I'm pretty sure there have been no contacts between them but it makes one wonder.  Advise please......we're currently not talking right now. Hay.

I have this kind of dilemma. We are now married, before when we were gf/bf pa sa FB ng hubby ko naka tagged naman yung picture nung girl sa FB nya nakapost with two piece swim suite and all. I feel pitty for me and na insecure dun sa girl (ex) knowing na she got a nice body and skin. And inis naman sa husband ko. Altho tinanggal niya yung account nya sa pagka tagged but then inis talaga ako.. My husband and the ex had a baby and tinanggap ko naman yung situation. They did not end up and WE END UP and get married .. But until now may mga pictures pa rin yung girl sa computer nya with their Kid. But I don't nagged him na regarding that tho na iinsecure talaga ako.. Kahit sabihin ng husband ko na nothing to worry about it kase ako yung legal.

[Dhee-Dhee]

Badtrip naman to! Una, walang FB account hubby ko, well as far as i know, haha! Pero if ever gawin nya to, malaking gulo talaga. Nakita ko naman na mga ex nya, minsan nga may dineny pa syang ex nya. Sorry sya, alam ko ata kung san ako maghahanap.. Wala naman ako nakitang maganda sa mga naging ex nya. Pero parang mas nakakainsulto ata kung panget na nga tapos nidownload pa nya. Sampal sa mukha ko yun! 

[lavinia48]

If it's a year ago and hindi pa kayo mag-asawa nung na-download nya yun (and nakalimutan na lang nya tanggalin nung mag-asawa na kayo), then that's fine. Pero if na-download nya yun nung mag-asawa na kayo...no offense, pero hello? ok lang sya? bakit di na lang ikaw kunan nya ng pic wearing a bathing suit?! He needs some de-briefing, girl!

[mooncake and leaves]

Maybe he likes having a visual reminder of the kind of fish he could bait. And let's face it, more often than not, the end of a relationship doesn't really mean the end of attraction. Lalo na if the ex is still hot. I wouldn't take it lightly--it is offensive (because you saw it hehe)--but if you're wondering what his reasons were, they're probably way more indecent than you're willing to accept. But consider also that, it is a tall order to expect that your partner will be 100% faithful to you in every aspect of his life. It's a nice thought but the fantasy world of a committed horndog is all that horndog has. So have a little patience and like they said with the iPhone: "When Apple was worrying about the iPod killer, the solution they came up with is to create the iPod killer themselves-the iPhone." You don't have to pose in a bikini but maybe work on your sexy time skills. Wear your man out lol so he won't go out looking for it outside your relationship. It doesn't guarantee loyalty but it's more productive than anger.

[whitetulip]

well i can relate to this. it was years ago when my ex is ask if i can send him photos na naka 2pcs ako take note he's currently in a relationship that time. you can imagine my reaction. halong inis and shock sa sinab niya.

yes super offensive ginawa niya. but let's face it  minsan kahit wala ng feelings yung guy sa ex niya minsan he imagine padin niya yung body ng ex niya. lalo na kung sexy talaga.

try to forgive him and tell him na sobrang naoffend ka para ma maintindihan ka niya.

[Lizi]

if only this forum has "LIKE" button i've probably rape abuse it with your statements sissies 

[muy003]

Aquacharly, ameeen!!! What he did is wrong, he should know this. Dont let him turn the table and put the fault on you, sabi nga ni aquacharly, for being narrow minded at selosa..

Hindi okay yung ginawa nya, last year nya pa dinownload, were you married then? Eh kahit nga hindi pa kayo kasal, di pa rin okay eh.

Nagdownload ng picture ng ibang babae, non celebrity, wrong mistake! Picture ng ex pa, wrong mistake again!! Tinago pa sa laptop nya, dinownload talaga, di lang viewed, maling ...

[MYANGELL]

sis, what happened na? ng usap na ba kayo ulit?

[IloveMybabs]

kung saken nangyari yan sis magpapa parlor ako magpapa ganda mas lalong magpapa sexy..

hindi man ako makikipag flirt sa ibang lalake.. i will make sure na mapapansin nila ko..
para matuto yong asawa ko na pahalagahan ako.. i mean look what you already have and what you might lost if you continue to fantasize your ex!

lahat ng babae maganda in their own way dont let someone make you feel less..

[misscapitalletterc]

If it's a year ago and hindi pa kayo mag-asawa nung na-download nya yun (and nakalimutan na lang nya tanggalin nung mag-asawa na kayo), then that's fine. Pero if na-download nya yun nung mag-asawa na kayo...no offense, pero hello? ok lang sya? bakit di na lang ikaw kunan nya ng pic wearing a bathing suit?! He needs some de-briefing, girl!

I already confronted him about it. At last tinanggal na nya yung pictures, but for me he should delete all those prior to entering the married life. Now, medyo okay na kami in terms of that issue, I already forgive him. He said na hindi nanaman nya tinitingnan yung mga pictures na yun and it was there more than a year. But still nandun pa rin yung insecurity paminsan. I think its a common in us girls. I maybe wrong pero now I am not checking FB na para hindi ko makita yung ex nya. Coz they still are friends sa FB.

Anyhow the way I see is that it was PAGSUBOK we will still had lots of things to come in our married life. What matters most is that we should communicate and listen to each other. Whether to him it was just nothing but for me his wife it means a lot. At the end of the day ako pa rin ang wife nya at sya pa rin ang husband ko.. 


He told me that I am free to delete the pictures of his ex sa computer nya and all I need to do is to tell him lang.