Are you tired? Waiting for someone?

[oshiawase]

I think I now know why I am single.

I always compare myself with others, a sign of being incomplete.

For instance, just recently, a NBSB friend met someone at work with whom she started flirting with. And the guy is really a "catch", at least as far as her stories go. And then, while I am happy for her, I started being jealous of her, and began questioning the whole Universe (why, Lord, why her?).

Then, I felt bad about myself and realized that maybe, this is precisely why I am not "attractive" to other people...because I am so full of this grudge.

[lovely_carrot]

I gave myself a deadline to recover or move on, thankfully it happened in less than a year. Sabi after that sulking and sh!t, I told myself na this time "ako naman" attitude ang gagawin ko for 2015.

Just to share, this post "woke me up" from my misery:

"He may still love you. He probably does. He probably doesn't know what he wants. He probably still thinks about you all the time. But that isn't what matters.

What matters is what he's doing about it, and what he's doing about it is nothing. And if he's doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn't do anything.

You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life."

Beautiful insight no? 

[pret_ty68]

^
http://www.femalenetwork.com/girltalk/index.php/topic,279157.0.html

[Filipinasadhart]

I'm tired waiting na naman pero pag nakikita ko yun mga friends ok Puro problema sa hobby Nila lumalakas ang loob ko huwag magmadali. I mean choose the right guy for me yun di ako Iiwan sa ere. Magtutulungan kame habang buhay. Ganon! Drama... hehe

Nakakastress Lang minsan kase nga I'm still single. Nagkaroon naman pero Medyo choosy na ko sa ngayon pinipili ko na yun lalake gusto ko.

[newsoul]

Minsan may lumalapit naman kaso married na..Big NO NO!

so true...

[ooh-la-la]

so true...

naku! nakaka relate rin ako jan.. hehe

[japanesedollph]

I am so tired. Malapit na bday I feel so incomplete... I know Hindi lang yan yun makakapagpasaya sa akin pero nakakamiss din magboyfriend. Sana makita ko na yun right guy for me.

[oshiawase]

Am i tired? Malapit na. Konti na lang, mauubos na pasensya ko.haha!

I don't  thinks it's about the culture, environment, etc.
kasi at the end of the day, sino ba dito yung hindi nag-isip/naghangad na may makakasama ka? Sa bahay, sa buhay, or sa pagtanda mo? Na-experience nyo na ba the pain of losing someone close to you, like a parent or a friend, tapos parang everybody's going somewhere and you find yourself stuck to where you are? It feels so lonely...

But then again, kung wala talaga yung "takip sa kaldero ko" - sabi kasi ng friend ko lahat daw may kapartner na takip eh.lol - i may have just to tweak my perspective, and enjoy whatever life has to offer and good vibes na lang lagi. *wish* Life goes on...

natuwa ako sa "takip sa kaldero"! haha.

I feel totally the same! When everyone else around me is having a fling or two, a boyfriend, a husband, a baby, I could not help but feel lonely. I've started telling my friends that I want to the ninang of their future kids because I know I will not have my own as I will not get married...I know it sounds so pessimistic and all but I just can't help it!

[annd]

minsan nakakapagod na rin maghintay. yung first boyfriend ko, engaged na at super happy na siya. whirlwind romance. but they knew each other since they were kids. he married his childhood sweetheart.. ako naman, eto, single, pero okay naman. i get tired din pero alam ko, there's someone out there waiting for me. and believing that better days are gonna get better. yan ang motto ko. by the way, im turning 28 na this year. and ayun, habang lumalapit birthday ko, mas nasasad ako. haha pero ok naman, still thankful.

[ycel0612]

Yes pagod na talaga. Di na ko naghihintay. I'm now prepared to live alone forever

[oshiawase]

^ PAREHAS TAYO. Minsan, manhid na ako.

[huggykaye]

^^ dadating pala talaga yung ganitong feeling never thought i'd ever hear myself say it but this is how i really feel right now... sabi ko pa naman, ayoko tumandang magisa, pero nagiisip isip na ako paano nga ba tumanda magisa...

[Shylambert]

I'm not really tired but I'm thinking maybe I should do something about it instead of simply waiting.

[eischied_21]

Same here. Slowly anticipating and accepting living alone.

[Filipinasadhart]

Nakakafrustrate may makulit na guy ayoko naman hay,,, take note may anak na sya pero not married. BIG NO NO. I admit since 2013 Wala ako bf pero di pa naman ako desperado.

Minsan napapaisip ako may itsura naman ako pero walang manligaw sa akin.
Sabi ng ex ko intimidating daw kase ang looks ko. Ano ba yan!!!!

[Filipinasadhart]

Minsan di ko maiwasan malungkot :-(

[mysterioza_me]

I'm not waiting for that special someone. Kung darating siya, thank you! Kung hindi naman ok lang din kasi hindi naman ako nag-expect na may drating.

[mischa04]

Minsan.. hehe.. Minsan lang kasi ayoko naman talaga magpamilya.. haha..

[heavensent]

OT: girls, we should meet up sometimes


and yes, i feel so alone.

[SarSi_Em]

"He may still love you. He probably does. He probably doesn't know what he wants. He probably still thinks about you all the time. But that isn't what matters.

What matters is what he's doing about it, and what he's doing about it is nothing. And if he's doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn't do anything.

You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life."

Beautiful insight no? 

this!!