saan pinapatulog ang newborn?

[m_lim]

sa crib ba?
katabi ng mommy?
or
sa bouncer?

sa crib nakakatakot naman iwanan baka ma suffocate ng pillows or baka mapadapa at di makahinga.

pag katabi naman ng mommy baka madaganan ko pag napasarap ng tulog

sa bouncer parang kakatakot naman kasi limited ang space baka mahulog.

[jhenbreak]

^sis, sa binigay mong options at reasons, parang walang tamang place para patulugin yung newborn, hehe.

sa crib pwede naman, ang advice lang eh siyempre wag mong palibutan ng pillows. kung newborn, hindi pa naman nyan kayang mag-roll-over. as i can remember 3-4 months nagstart mag-roll-over ang baby.

sa tabi, depende sa yo, gaano ka ba kalikot matulog. sa iba kasi, it's 'mother's instinct' na rin di ba?

ako kasi may times na sa chest ko nag-i-sleep ang baby ko kasi gusto niya yung sound ng heartbeat ko since yun ang naririnig niya nung nasa tummy ko pa siya, talagang hindi siya maibaba, 3 weeks after birth yun nag-start. pero first few weeks, sa gitna namin ni hubby. my hubby by nature is malikot matulog pero nung nasa gitna na namin si baby, hindi na siya malikot mag-sleep, siguro nga kasi, instinct na yun ng pagiging parent.

[gummy bear]

Ako sis pag umaga sa crib. Para nakikita ko siya habang may ginagawa ako. Pag sa gabi, katabi na namin matulog para marinig ko agad pag umiiyak siya.

[hunny_ally]

We co-sleep...easier when bfeeding. Sorry I dont subscribe to the notion na madadaganan ang baby. Unless you're under medication or the influence of alcohol/drugs o di kaya you have a medical condition, I don't think madadaganan mo yung baby mo. My husband if naka-inom siya, he doesn't sleep with us.

[wengerts]

crib ang best bet. kung takot ka masuffocate, wag mo lagyan ng toys and pillows. okay lang naman yun.

personally i cosleep

[kalaiyaan]

Sa experience ko nakakatulog si baby sa rocker at stroller ewan ko ba doon nya gusto nung mga 1-3months sya.
Then after that katabi ko na, hindi nya feel sa crib or tamad lang ako bumangon para silipin sya.

[m_lim]

thanks girl! clueless kasi ako, first time mom! hehe.

hindi kasi kami maka decide kung magpapagawa na kami ng crib.

siguro gayahin ko style ni gummy bear. pag umaga crib then sa gabi, katabi ko. nakakatakot kasi iwanan sa crib pag gabi baka di ko mamalayan dahil sarap ng tulog. so itatabi ko nalang.

yung hubby ko kasi ang likot matulog. ilan beses nako nasapak sa face at natuhuran ang tiyan ko while preggy habang tulog. (hindi kaya nag aacting lang na tulog para makaganti?? lol) kaya malamang sa separate bed siya!.

[hunny_ally]

^ako yan ang dilemma ko now. my son who will be 20mos old by the time i give birth next month still co-sleeps with us (he still breastfeed during the night). ang kulit matulog. ilang beses na din ako nasipa sa tummy or sa face. tried making him sleep with the yaya in the other room pero umiiyak in the middle of the night. i'm not yet sure how do we go about the sleeping arrangement.

if you're really paranoid na baka madaganan si baby cause di ka pa sanay, you can get a sleep positioner or do what we did before na pinapatanong namin yung baby mattress sa bed

[m_lim]

thanks for the tip, hunny ally!

[honey-ecclaire]

If kayo lang naman ni hubby mo ang nasa kama,the baby must stay with you...they need to be fed sa madaling araw so hassle pa na bumangon,...it will be better to salpak agad ng dede hehe...mas mababantayan mo pa,syempre as a first time mom mas komportable tayo na nasa tabi natin ang newborn natin...

For your hubby na malikot matulog,hindi na yan maglilikot sis,kase alam nyang katabi nyo si baby and dapat masanay na sya....

[celica]

i let my baby sleep beside me. i kept on worrying if he sleep in his crib and not beside me.

[khriseeee]

My baby slept in her playard (w/ bassinet) and I put the playard right up next to the bed. Sakto I just had to raise my head to check on her once in awhile in the night. Other options are the co-sleeper playard where one side drops down and attaches to the side of the bed - you get the best of both worlds, baby is still at arms reach next to you but still in her own space.

I only let me baby cosleep with me in the early mornings - I can't really sleep well when she's next to me since I'm scared of rolling on her or the pillows getting in her face. Also we only have a queen size bed, hubby and I are both tall people so there's really not much space for baby 

Now when she sleeps in our room she sleeps in her crib. The crib is about a foot away from my side of the bed and I folded back one side of the bumper so I can check on her without getting up in the night. But whenever she sleeps with us, I wake at the slightest movement or rustle.

[aquacharly]

I put the baby in the crib, and then pull the crib beside me.

If you do not mind the extra expense & storage later -- use a cradle. The type that is lower than your bed, and rocks if not locked.   Pull that beside you, it is so easy for you to reach down/turn to attend to your baby.    It is really extremely convenient, but good only for 2mos  max. 

Shobe, do not exile your hubby to another bed. 

[clueless]

We co-sleep at nIght until now at 20months.

During the day, she used to sleep on her playard until she outgrew it. She nows sleeps on the daybed in her room during the day.

We also only have a queen sized bed and hubby and i are both on the chubby side pa but the 3 of us fit. I've also become a light sleeper since i had a baby.

i like that i'm the first one she sees when she wakes up. And if i get home early at night, ako nagpapatulog sa kanya. But there are days like when i'm too tired or sick that she sleeps in her bedroom with her yaya.

We tried having her sleep in her playard bassinet when she was a newborn but i hardly slept because i kelt on checking on her. So i just bought a sleep positioner and had her sleep between us on our bed.

[X-tine]

Sis m_lim,

If you're planning to breastfeed your baby it is easier if baby cosleeps with you. Para you will not be scared to roll over baby you can buy a sleep positioner, it could be used until baby is 2 months or depends sa baby if he's big ba. As a mommy I'm sure Hindi mo madadaganan si baby cause mothers instinct na yan.

My baby is 1 yr and 4 mos and she still sleeps with us cause she still breastfeeding at night. Sa totoo Lang I don't see that a crib is necessary if you're breastfeeding. You might opt to go or a playpen nalang instead of a crib. That is just my opinion.

[m_lim]

thanks girls!

hanapin ko nga sa mall yang sleep positioner. gosh, may ganyan ganyan pa pala!

[princessrio]

co-sleep kami ni baby.

[izabelle]

kami nung 1st week sa crib pero narealized namin mas madali kung katabi namin sya. so from then katabi na namin matulog.

[Amphitrite]

Panganay ko kahit saan natutulog, hehe.

Sa stroller sa umaga / hapon, basta wala ako sa kwarto nasa stroller sya para kasama ko siya lagi.

Sa gabi madalas sya sa playard / crib kahit breastfed baby siya. Minsan sa chest ko or sa pagitan namin ni hubby kapag tinatamad na ako gumising after feeding him.

Ako super likot matulog, nung preggy nga ako sa kanya 2x ako nahulog sa bed sa sobrang likot, hehe, promise totoo. Pero nung katabi na namin siya, nagsimula na ako hindi maging malikot.

Safety 1st yung una kong naisip na brand ng sleep positioner, meron nyan sa malls.

[X-tine]

thanks girls!

hanapin ko nga sa mall yang sleep positioner. gosh, may ganyan ganyan pa pala!

Sis mlim,

I used the first years secure sleep positioner. Para Hindi ka na mahirap an mahanap pa