SEX on first meeting

[glacy_rein]

after almost 7mos pagkakita namen ulit check in agad. haha! i missed him, his grind.. pero kailangang iset pa sa mind.. ang hirap ng pleasure sa stressed na tao. yay

[poetrytoprose]

HAHAHA the coffee thing though!

I was naive, but I never had a problem meeting someone over a coffee. Sa experience ko, this guy contacted me and said he wanted to "hangout" sa isang fancy coffeeshop. So yeah, we went there. First, nagkwentuhan lang kami. Really just getting in touch with what's happening in our lives.

Second, bigla nagtanong sa boyfriend, relationship part. I didn't find it weird kasi it's part of the conversation. But then nawiwierduhan ako sa trail ng conversation kasi bigla nya naitanong if i bring my boyfriend on my condo, pinagsstay, etc., Again, I was naive to shrug it off. So kwentuhan lang. Pero my signal spiked na he wanted to sleep with me when our trail becomes steamy. :|

Parang sira lang talaga. Hahahaha!

But did we sleep together? Hmmm, that's a secret. hahaha! But yeah, I've learned my lesson. Coffee with an opposite sex can turn to something else. Just be very observant.

[gandangDImoinakala]

First meeting on opposite sex na nameet mo sa forum or what expect mo na gusto nun ng sexual thing from you. Its up to you to oblige or not.

[louise1]

the SEB thing.

i had my first SEB when i was in college i met him thru ym. We had coffee first then our topic get steamy and went to bed.

after that, we became fubus for four years til he went to Australia for work.

what makes me decide to have an encounter with him?
its because we're matured enough to handle the situation and even set our own boundaries and limitations.

[hornboy]

Naku, uso pa rin pala talaga yung statement na "Hi, Do you wanna have a coffee? Tea? or Me?"

Boom!!!

[louise1]

is that your usual pick-up line? 

[hornboy]

nope, hahaha.  bago ngayon, Dinner in your place? I'll bring food and wine.

[louise1]

pa-vhong style pala. hahaha...

[insanelypurpleprincess]

pa-vhong style pala. hahaha...

^ Though I don't think it (Vhong Case) would qualify under SOFM. 

[hornboy]

I wanna try not doing this . . . . tingnan lang kung kayanin, hahahaha.

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I wanna try not doing this . . . . tingnan lang kung kayanin, hahahaha.

^ Good luck!!! 

[ryan22]

SOFM, dapat sure ka sa kameet mo. risky but exciting

[Naughty^GuRu]

what if meron kang nakilala from forum (or internet in general). nagmessage kayo then chat then text and phone calls. and nakakaroon na kayo ng hot naughty dirty conversations. maybe close to an SOP without the touching (or pwede din SOP na). then you meet up with him/her, and turns out na hindi siya attractive enough (at least in your taste) and hindi mo siya type.

i am just being honest, aminin man natin or not, ilan lang ba ang totoong may itsura sa forums like Girltalk. kaya yung chances mo na makameet ng good looking enough is not that high and close to "tsamba" na.

would you still say yes kung mag initiate or yayain ka niya for SOFM?

[glacy_rein]

^then be safe enough not to go through the "naughty conversations" until you meet the guy.. though pwede naman na set the boundaries.. unless talagang beforehand eh hot na hot kana up to the point na you fantasize each other na dun maiipit kana. hehe!

[papajax]

tried this a couple times, 10+ but it's still different with a girl that you really 'desire' ika nga. ang difference is more may kapaguran vs walang kapaguran i guess.

[sexykha]

^i agree with you papajax.
the feeling is different when you do it with your real partner and not just partner for sex.

[kumikosan_9]

haaay, single days, sarap din magreminisce. 

may barkada akong girl noon pareho kasi kami ng bday so on our bday we went to a club sa makati. on our way home, around 2-3am na yun naka cab lang kami, we had to stop kasi naka red yun stoplight sa intersection ng araneta avenue. a group of guys yun katabi ng cab namin waiting for the light to turn green. we ended up swapping numbers hanggang sa naging boyfriend ko pa yung nag ddrive. 

[hornboy]

OOOPPPSSS . .  I did it again!

[insanelypurpleprincess]

OOOPPPSSS . .  I did it again!

^WHOA! Notorious!!!

[stameygirl]

haaay, single days, sarap din magreminisce. 

may barkada akong girl noon pareho kasi kami ng bday so on our bday we went to a club sa makati. on our way home, around 2-3am na yun naka cab lang kami, we had to stop kasi naka red yun stoplight sa intersection ng araneta avenue. a group of guys yun katabi ng cab namin waiting for the light to turn green. we ended up swapping numbers hanggang sa naging boyfriend ko pa yung nag ddrive. 

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