SEX on first meeting

[chirochan]

Samin naman years na kaming naguusap phonepal ? Haha ! D matuloy tuloy oagmmeet namin hanggang sa 2 years di kami nagusap may friendster pa nun alam nya itsura ko pero d ko alam itsura nya haha ayun ng nagkakalabuan na kami ng ex ko kachat ko sya hanggang sa magbreak kami after a month nagkita kami at same day mga madaling araw na ayun may nangyari =) kilig days

[chielobabes]

Ginawa ko for the first time yesterday. Sa chat super lagi kami magkaaway. Nung meet kami gumanti ako inasar ko at sinampal ko. rude no? bcos he is also rude sa chat, alam nya yun kaya puro kami away. Meet sa mcdo and decided punta sa motel, ako lang mapang asar pero sya sweet na kasi may gusto sya makuha. after that thing, both na kami sweet sa isat isa. we're planning to meet again soon. btw, we're both professionals na at mas madami pinagkaiba namin kaya tom and jerry style kami lagi. he likes me daw, well,

[slickchick]

interesting thread... i do not condemn those who are into this, but personally, it is not my cup of tea... too risky yung health factor plus unsure ka pa if you'll be spending sexy time with a psycho... sa akin din kasi, i should see first na may connection kami (not only on the physical side, but even on how our brainwaves meet...) and for me, gauging the strength of the connection would take more than a few meetings... and syempre, given a choice, i would still go for a regular relationship.. mas bigay-todo (hehe..  for lack of a better term..  ) yung "act" pag ganun, because it's with someone i am completely comfortable with.. just my 2 cents worth... 

[pathetica]

It's a big NO for me! Kasi takot akong magkasakit![/b][/size]

[icantspellyou]

Ginawa ko for the first time yesterday. Sa chat super lagi kami magkaaway. Nung meet kami gumanti ako inasar ko at sinampal ko. rude no? bcos he is also rude sa chat, alam nya yun kaya puro kami away. Meet sa mcdo and decided punta sa motel, ako lang mapang asar pero sya sweet na kasi may gusto sya makuha. after that thing, both na kami sweet sa isat isa. we're planning to meet again soon. btw, we're both professionals na at mas madami pinagkaiba namin kaya tom and jerry style kami lagi. he likes me daw, well,

karelate ako dito. Ive done this 2 days before Christmas sa isang OFW REE from Saudi na nameet ko sa dating site. Well, rude din sya sa chat at ang chaka nya online madalas kasi syang magevil laugh e. Pero nung sinundo ko sya sa airport napa whoooow ako sa lakas ng arrive nya. I have no plan to have sex to him but since medyo nagkaroon na din ako ng konting feelings for him nacarried away na din ako when he started kissing me sa hotel if san sya nakacheck in plus may mga unconsious gestures pa sya na sobrang nahihit ang soft spot ko. But unfortunately, after a week never na nya akong kinontack. Well maybe nasa ibang kandungan na sya ngayon. Anyway, kasalanan ko din naman masyado akong naexcite at nagexpect din ako na he will love me in return. Kaso after all, I was just his holiday fling and ayaw nya magcommit saken.

So I suggest to girls out there, hanggat kaya nyong pigilan pigilan nyo & learn to set aside your emotions though mahirap talaga.

[missybee]

@kawen: i think ganyan yung common mistakes na nangyayari sa  mga girls. makikipag SEB, ONS, SOFM, etc sila then expects na after sex eh magiging sila nung guy. rarely, i say Rarely, nangyayari that a guy will have a relationship sa girl after casual sex. bihira lang yung guy na seseryoso sa girl na pumapayag sa casual sex lalo na on first meet. so girls, never never never expect something emotional out of a casual sex. unfair din yun for us guys, kasi nagmumuka kaming jerks and ässholes kapag hindi namin kayang ibalik yung feelings niyo for us. kasi nga casual sex lang naman talaga yung gusto namin. and, bakit pa makikipag commit sa inyo yung guy kung nakukuha naman niya yung sex for free without the emotional responsibility

Tama to, tried it pero didn't expect emotional kemerut sa guy kasi alam ko hindi siya yung boyfriend material for me.
Two thumbs up sa advice.

[ultraman]

mas ok pag sa kakilala. kaso I'm sure may feelings ang isa.
mahirap mainlove lalo pag pareho commited. 

[syren_286]

It takes a certain level of toughness for a woman to be so game in SEB. I'm a self confessed horny girl but so far, no amount of leebog, or good looks ng guy made me try this.

[ryan22]

It takes a certain level of toughness for a woman to be so game in SEB. I'm a self confessed horny girl but so far, no amount of leebog, or good looks ng guy made me try this.

true. still safety is the major concern here. but sometimes it it quite exciting.

[syren_286]

Yeah, safety is one major concern but aside from that, may mga certain values din ibang girls that they just cannot give up for the sake of a quick fix, nadadala sa bola or seduction ng guys. 

In my case, even from the time i started exploring my sexuality, i knew sebs and ons aren't for me. Lagi ko iniisip especially during my curiousity stage, if i were to do it, what will i feel afterwards? how will i regard myself? will i still retain my self respect, be confident or I'd feel cheap & see myself as a trash.. make me feel empty? Based sa naging sagot ko sa mga questions na yun,  I knew that i'm not cut out for it kaya i learned to just be content on what i can do as far as satisfying my "needs" is concerned.

Kaya hands down sa mga girls who are adventurous enough to try seb! 

[insanelypurpleprincess]

I am now curious what percentage of the population (male or female) is willing to go through this. All I am saying is, statistics say that there are more women, so I wonder if we base it on percentage, say, out of 10 males & 10 females.. How many males will do it versus how many women? Any ideas?

[ryan22]

magandang survey to. will this count ONS?

[ritzyritz]

wag masyadong malibog. HIV/AIDS kills and STD's are no easy matter either.

[ryan22]

wag masyadong malibog. HIV/AIDS kills and STD's are no easy matter either.

this is one reason bakit may mga taong ayaw ng SOFM

[icantspellyou]

It takes a certain level of toughness for a woman to be so game in SEB. I'm a self confessed horny girl but so far, no amount of leebog, or good looks ng guy made me try this.

I totally agree with this. Minsan kasi if yung guy e sweet talker & good player mahohooked ka talaga e. Plus yung thinking pa ng norms about girls na they shouldnt be like this, that, blah blah

[iamlili]

It takes a certain level of toughness for a woman to be so game in SEB. I'm a self confessed horny girl but so far, no amount of leebog, or good looks ng guy made me try this.

Agree with this too.

For me hindi ko ito magagawa. It takes time for me to trust a guy/partner too especially when it comes to sex. I met several guys na online. The purpose? Of course they wanted SOFM. Good thing most of them respects my decision.

[SheGoesThrifty]

Tried it twice.

Yung una, we actually met at a party, tapos text-text until we went out one night and yun na. Both with full consent naman and no regrets. Hanggang ngayon hindi alam ng girlfriend niya. I also vowed from then on never to get involved with a guy who's in a relationship. Lesson learned na.

The second time was with someone I met on Skout. Magkachat kami ng ilang months na rin. We decided to have lunch and we hung out after sa place niya. I was hoping to take a nap since I wasn't feeling well that day and we were watching the latest Superman film. Sobrang unexpected but definitely not disappointing. We're planning on hanging out again. I'm not expecting anything beyond sex, but the guy is a monogamist and he's been hinting on dating exclusively, but I don't know.

Safe sex lagi. I never do it without protection.

[stunning_anne]

Its not really safe and yung sakin pinag sisisihan ko na sa totoo lang!

[hornboy]

Depende sa Ka meet, If you meet a friend back in Highschool/College, and came to this point, or Just want to meet somebody from the Social sites for this purpose only. 

Just be safe.

[sexykha]

tried this once, i've known him from another forum and started texting and then we eventually decided to meet. then ayun we hangout and check in. then everything happened there
my only regret is that i didn't enjoy.