SEX on first meeting

[minatay91]

^ I'm hoping it is so that people would be more likely not engage (if not stop) in risky activity

[mooncake and leaves]

^ that's a pretty f*cked up wish.

FOURever: i'm no expert but if you do a quick Google search on your question, that bit about condom pores dates back to, i think, 1992? but no, it doesn't seem to be true. but condoms naman talaga are not 100% fool-proof especially when you factor in human error (manufacturers and users).

[sassa]

lost my virginity because of this. I was 14 then. Did it once and regretted it!

[_lurker]

Here's my story.

Way back i used to eat at our office cafeteria, there's this girl she used to eat there everyday too. We're not officemates but our office is located on the same building. To cut the story short i had a long time crush on her. Everyday walang kupas meron kami stare with each other, its like patagalan kung sino una umiwas. Until one day she left me a note dun sa cashier, the cashier handed it to me that was friday. I texted her that night, introduce etc.. We met formally monday the week after, we ate lunch outside. She rode my car thankfully walang awkward moments its like antagal na namin magkakilala. We ate lunch then after we are clueless where to go its like nagpapakiramdaman kami.

then she dropped the bomb casually "if you want we can check-in in a motel, dun na lang tayo mag usap" the rest is history.

[carmilina]

^wow ibang level din ang attraction nyo ah

siguro meant to be talaga :0

[ryan22]

sana this is true.. sana this is trueeeee *praying it's true*

HIV is smaller than the holes of the condom.

[ryan22]

just want to share lang. and ask ko na rin opinion ng mga guys.

met this guy at a forum but that was 5yrs. ago. every now and then he would message me sa ym pero bihira ko lang din siya pansinin. until lately he messaged me again and nag reply ako. nag exchange kame ng messages sa ym until nag aya siya mag meet for coffee and dinner.

the night before the meet up he told me na agahan daw namin mag dinner para makauwi ako agad kasi malayo pa ako and asked kung gusto ko na umuwi or spa after. sobrang weird naman ng spa on the first meeting. so i told him uuwi na lang ako ng maaga. btw understood na separate cars kame. then sabi niya kahit foot spa daw. bakit ba niya pinipilit yung spa (whatever form it is) hehe! anyway after that hirit i didn't reply na. until the day of our meeting ni ha ni ho wala siya narinig sakin pero he kept texting kung tuloy. kung where at what time etc. and he kept calling me.

ano sa tingin niyo ang habol ng guy na ito? just wondering lang. ang nakakainis don feeling pogi siya. e pinag tiyagaan ko nga lang siya i-meet kasi iniisip ko try ko entertain yung mga hindi gwapo. malay mo mas ok sila. meaning i'm trying to broaden my mind pero sa ginawa ng guy na ito parang nadala na ako. but maybe i am just over reacting.

weird nga nung spa. hehe. anyways kung di pa kayo nagmimeet, just give it a try. just a simple meet up. stick to your decision na magdinner then go home after. if something prosper why not spend a couple of hours before going home.

pero weird talaga yung spa. hahaha. di ako makakuha ng logic sa spa on a first meeting. okay pa siguro yung maglakad sa park after ng dinner.

[jtansanco]

^^ Foot spa? Baka may foot fetish yan at gusto makita paa mo. Haha. Just meet, dinner, go home. Go entertain yourself. As long as you're not in his car, you have nothing to worry about.

[_lurker]

just want to share lang. and ask ko na rin opinion ng mga guys.

met this guy at a forum but that was 5yrs. ago. every now and then he would message me sa ym pero bihira ko lang din siya pansinin. until lately he messaged me again and nag reply ako. nag exchange kame ng messages sa ym until nag aya siya mag meet for coffee and dinner.

the night before the meet up he told me na agahan daw namin mag dinner para makauwi ako agad kasi malayo pa ako and asked kung gusto ko na umuwi or spa after. sobrang weird naman ng spa on the first meeting. so i told him uuwi na lang ako ng maaga. btw understood na separate cars kame. then sabi niya kahit foot spa daw. bakit ba niya pinipilit yung spa (whatever form it is) hehe! anyway after that hirit i didn't reply na. until the day of our meeting ni ha ni ho wala siya narinig sakin pero he kept texting kung tuloy. kung where at what time etc. and he kept calling me.

ano sa tingin niyo ang habol ng guy na ito? just wondering lang. ang nakakainis don feeling pogi siya. e pinag tiyagaan ko nga lang siya i-meet kasi iniisip ko try ko entertain yung mga hindi gwapo. malay mo mas ok sila. meaning i'm trying to broaden my mind pero sa ginawa ng guy na ito parang nadala na ako. but maybe i am just over reacting.

From your words "pinagtiyagaan" is he worth your time? why force yourself?

i suggest if interested ka talaga, then go with the dinner.

I don't know whats with the "spa" he's talking about.

At the end of the day its you who will call the shots not him.

[Scubadoobidoo]

just want to share lang. and ask ko na rin opinion ng mga guys.

met this guy at a forum but that was 5yrs. ago. every now and then he would message me sa ym pero bihira ko lang din siya pansinin. until lately he messaged me again and nag reply ako. nag exchange kame ng messages sa ym until nag aya siya mag meet for coffee and dinner.

the night before the meet up he told me na agahan daw namin mag dinner para makauwi ako agad kasi malayo pa ako and asked kung gusto ko na umuwi or spa after. sobrang weird naman ng spa on the first meeting. so i told him uuwi na lang ako ng maaga. btw understood na separate cars kame. then sabi niya kahit foot spa daw. bakit ba niya pinipilit yung spa (whatever form it is) hehe! anyway after that hirit i didn't reply na. until the day of our meeting ni ha ni ho wala siya narinig sakin pero he kept texting kung tuloy. kung where at what time etc. and he kept calling me.

ano sa tingin niyo ang habol ng guy na ito? just wondering lang. ang nakakainis don feeling pogi siya. e pinag tiyagaan ko nga lang siya i-meet kasi iniisip ko try ko entertain yung mga hindi gwapo. malay mo mas ok sila. meaning i'm trying to broaden my mind pero sa ginawa ng guy na ito parang nadala na ako. but maybe i am just over reacting.

Since you posted here it must mean you have an inkling that the guy wants to have sex with you. The only question you need to answer is do you want to or not. All the dinner and spa are just background noise...at the end of the day its still up to you. And the weird thing is bakit mo pinatiyagaan the company of someone you dont even like. I think that speaks volumes about your social life. 

[Lurker_Man]

just want to share lang. and ask ko na rin opinion ng mga guys.

met this guy at a forum but that was 5yrs. ago. every now and then he would message me sa ym pero bihira ko lang din siya pansinin. until lately he messaged me again and nag reply ako. nag exchange kame ng messages sa ym until nag aya siya mag meet for coffee and dinner.

the night before the meet up he told me na agahan daw namin mag dinner para makauwi ako agad kasi malayo pa ako and asked kung gusto ko na umuwi or spa after. sobrang weird naman ng spa on the first meeting. so i told him uuwi na lang ako ng maaga. btw understood na separate cars kame. then sabi niya kahit foot spa daw. bakit ba niya pinipilit yung spa (whatever form it is) hehe! anyway after that hirit i didn't reply na. until the day of our meeting ni ha ni ho wala siya narinig sakin pero he kept texting kung tuloy. kung where at what time etc. and he kept calling me.

ano sa tingin niyo ang habol ng guy na ito? just wondering lang. ang nakakainis don feeling pogi siya. e pinag tiyagaan ko nga lang siya i-meet kasi iniisip ko try ko entertain yung mga hindi gwapo. malay mo mas ok sila. meaning i'm trying to broaden my mind pero sa ginawa ng guy na ito parang nadala na ako. but maybe i am just over reacting.

tayo na lang first tee hee!

[simplymel]

   I had tried SEB. It was untinentional.. I mean, nakipagmeet ako kasi we had become good friends sa chat.. when we met, comfortable na ako sa knya.. we had long talk that day about anything, eaten dinner tapos nglakad lakad until makarating sa walking distance na hotel..
   I never regretted it though. we still are good friends kahit malayo kami sa isat isa.

[itsmechariz]

same with this topic yung friends with benefits dba. hehe. ganito kase status ko ngayon. we're friends in the same time with benefits. nothing more nothing less we're just enjoying.

[Lurker_Man]

same with this topic yung friends with benefits dba. hehe. ganito kase status ko ngayon. we're friends in the same time with benefits. nothing more nothing less we're just enjoying.

can we be friends? tee hee!

[itsmechariz]

Lmao! ))

[av]

2 years na kami ng Fubu ko. Na-share ko lang.

[gandangDImoinakala]

Never tried. 

[huggykaye]

Question for girls: Na try nyo na bang makipag SOFM pero hindi natuloy kasi hindi nyo type yung guy? If yes, how did you handle it?

I just asked him if we could just have dinner (literally), some were really gentlemen and they got the hint but for some it was awkward and we just decided to leave.. Sometimes, i say that i have an errand to make, emergency lang so i really have to go..." lol

[itsmechariz]

2 years na kami ng Fubu ko. Na-share ko lang.

same here

[GentleJack]

same here

wow 2 years na? sa ganito katagal na FuBu setup, wala pa rin bang feelings na going to next level?